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The author:(作者)归海一刀published in(发表于) 2013/11/14 2:57:48 60% primary school students do not possess the corresponding civility Jiangsu push standards
Minor discussions civilized etiquette norms
Xinhua newspaper net current, Jiangsu is a new starting point and a higher level ahead of "two leading", struggling to basically realize modernization open new journey, you need to cultivate and foster moral, ideal, happy, healthy and comprehensive development of a new generation of Jiangsu XING Huo continued struggle. Strengthening of minor civility education is training a new generation of Jiangsu, promote "the modernization of human beings" and the beginning of an important part. According to province civilization Board work deployment, province civilization Office, and education organization related expert, and scholars and line education workers established topics group, for minor people basic civilization etiquette habit exists of phenomenon and problem expand has series research, made has a "learn have will, do get" of minor people etiquette specification recommends version, the specification will minor people etiquette is divided into 8 a aspects, 4 big etiquette, detailed and specific to made has minor people basic civilization etiquette specification.
Yangtse evening post today to open the topic and raised NET and Yangtse evening post tweets to open the discussion column, invited readers to suggest basic civilized etiquette norms of a minor to bring civilized etiquette schools, parents and students to develop a more clear standard orientation.
"Schools not just children's learning, not teach grace quality! "It was a week ago, a Netizen" @ quick start "growled in his own Sina weibo, a Word. Barking is the root of a pupil's autumn outing news, a school pupil's autumn outing and students after removed, left trash on the grass without cleaning up. Pictures taken by netizens after sent to the micro-blogging, attracted about civility is hotly debated among pupils.
In fact, since the children enter primary school, teachers and parents during a time of "talking" with "civilized manners." But what is truly "civilized"? "Civilized" summed up three words obviously too general. Thus, a set of "learning, make it" a minor civility standards needs to be launched in the very high voices from all walks. Yangtse evening post reporter Yang Tianzi
Survey:
60% of primary school children do not have appropriate manners
From the moment of entering primary school, "civility" teachers and students are hanging on his lips, manners but the kids knew what? According to the results of a survey, 60% does not truly grasp the age of pupils should master the civility request. 70% school student etiquette education the main forms of civilization is in class-lesson about civility requirements via model demonstrations and activities for practicing less than 30%.
This reporter learned that, the survey questionnaire with some more than 25,000, for teachers, students, parents and other groups of people engaged in a question, the survey results show, a minor civility basic things are generally good, 80% schools have begun to incorporate civility education requirements into the content and tasks of school education, 95% parents and teachers recognize the importance of quality of minor civility. But there are still "more than more than three three little", "two good and two weak" phenomenon, worthy of introspection and reflection.
Inquiry:
A primary school student codes of thought-provoking--say, "respect public order", but said not to jump the queue
[Interview with instance] "we have just finished the morality and society course, eating in the cafeteria when someone cut in line by noon. Really annoying. "As the class leaders furiously Li Yang told reporters. At noon each day in the cafeteria line to buy food, there is always some "devils" trying every way to cut in line. "Sometimes the girls crowded but boys, only to see them before we jumped in the past. "On top of that, lunch, always remember to put the boys ate plates stacked end to cutlery, lunch lady who only stay behind the boys pack up dinner plate.
Reading it is Li Yang at last day at noon "sense of overwhelmed", "line the other day when a guy just wants to put in front of me, but I am the class leaders, I think I have a reason to stop him. "Li Yang said," teacher of the morality and society class hasn't taught you? We should observe public order. "Who knows what boys to refute Li Yang speechless," the teacher taught observe public order, but said not to jump the queue. ”
Li Yang told reporters that in his four years of primary school are to be class leaders, acting as teachers "little helpers" credo is the code of civilized etiquette norms of school down. "But the boys always used ' on code not written ' reasons to refute my arguments, I am really very worried. ”
[Speaking Teacher] Nanjing fuzimiao primary school Feng Aidong told reporters that this instance is indeed pupils ' awareness of myths that reflects the existing "pupils ' conduct" issue, too general and too abstract, lot only big concepts, thinking and comprehension ability of primary school students, after all, are limited, subject to implementation, does have some degree of difficulty.
Innovation:
"Learn, make it" civilized etiquette norms of the horizon
"Respect the teachers, be friendly to your classmates ... ..." Although elementary and secondary campuses has its own code of civility, but careless content was apparently unable to get kids of different ages to make the correct understanding, while the code of civility is missing a "official standard". Because of "civility" concept was too general and of writing, the "invisible, untouchable," students are unable to correctly understand what is "dear teacher"? How can "be friendly to your classmates"? Reporters recently learned from civilization Office of Jiangsu Province, a "learning will make it" the Jiangsu civilized etiquette norms of minors (proposal) has been drafted under the concerns of the community, and began to solicit views from the community.
In this copies specification (recommends version) under in the, is not adults of civilization etiquette was into "instrument of ceremony" "catering of ceremony" "talk of ceremony" "people of ceremony" "walking of ceremony" "ornamental of ceremony" "tour of ceremony" and "forms of ceremony" eight a aspects, each a a aspects are for kindergarten, and elementary school, and junior high school and high school stage of students do has detailed of provides.
"Dear teacher" and "fraternity classmates" broader "civility" increases the specific content, such as "meter" bar, children, kindergarten 3-6 respectively, primary school pupils aged 7-12, junior 13-15 age of age youth and high school students to make detailed and specific provisions. Kindergarten children must "learn to brush your teeth, wash your face, and parents with the help of hair. "Students must be" upright sitting and standing postures, don't totter in public places, not your shoes. "Middle and high school students" with the gift of "highlights" the boys were not crossing legs when sitting girls draw close to the knees "and" without tattoos, makeup. Not blind pursuit of luxury clothing. ”
Li Yang schools, students encounter problems with cutting in line and don't put utensils, provision had been made in the version of the specification, "dining" requirements, pupils "while eating in public places do not chase Frolic" junior high school "while eating in public places does not make so much noise. After lunch in the school cafeteria, and initiative to organize the cutlery. ”
Views:
More practice civilized etiquette norms of children benefit from lifelong
Province minor people civilization etiquette education topics group members, and Nanjing city Confucius Temple elementary school principals Feng Aidong told reporter, "from a pupils entered school began, teacher parents certainly didn't less and children tells told civilization knows courtesy of importance, but children were light knows this sense also no with, needs has a real and they of learning life practice related of ' specification standard ' introduced, children were to real knows, what how is ' distinguished teachers '' helping each other '".
Feng Aidong believes that students in primary schools to cultivate good manners customary, will benefit them for life. "We should tell kids what to do, how clean the whisk, should always say thank you when you ask students questions, let the child develop good habits in a specific practice. "Said Feng Aidong, introduction to a minor one", make it "civilized etiquette norms of conduct standards, based on the characteristics of children of different ages, let the children" civility "is full of interest. Over time, the baby etiquette with perceptual knowledge and rational practice in learning life.
Topic:
What is the "instrument" and "catering"
Nanjing Yangtze more than more than 200 small reporter recently conducted a survey in students around and students launched a campaign of what is "meter" and "catering" class discussions.
@ Yangtze reporter Yu Xinyu (Red Cliff Road, Nanjing five years of primary school): I note that minors in the new version of basic civility, "dining" refers to "mum and dad eat together". How many students are still able to do this now? Father and mother work very hard every day, our pupils to be able to do is to go home that night and had dinner with MOM and dad happily. To get MOM and dad feel our filial piety.
@ Yangtze reporter Li Jiayin (South outer xianlin campus five years): canteen for dinner cutting in line, get called when teachers teacher behavior is uncivil behavior on campus. In our class on morality and society course, students often take out these examples as "counterexamples", involving the class in discussion and reflection. Camera specialist students even took down the canteen queue of pictures, get the class "to make an example."
Discussion: from now on, Yangzi evening post will initiate discussions civilized etiquette norms against minors, readers are civilized etiquette norms for minors typically offers advice on specific provisions of the proposed draft, changes could be made. Can log in Yang (www.young100.CN) Symposium Edition statement or Twitter @ Yangtze evening news involved.
Welcome to discuss
Jiangsu provincial civilized etiquette norms of minors proposal (abridged)
Instrument
Target
Looks neat, dresses well,
Hair naturally, nodded graciously
3-6 (kindergarten)
1. learn how to brush your teeth, wash your face, and parents with the help of hair.
2. learn to dress himself and wear shoes.
3. learn yourself wiping snot, sweat.
7-12 (primary school)
1. wash, bathing, hair, body odor.
2. the nails without fouling.
3. don't pick your nose in public, tip.
4. change clothes, socks, keep the instrument clean.
5. upright sitting and standing postures, don't totter in public places.
6. don't take your shoes off in public places.
13-15 intermediate school ()
1. no hair, no Perm, boys do not have long hair.
2. dress appropriately in public not wearing vests, slippers.
3. don't wear necklaces, earrings (nail), rings, bracelets, bangles and other ornaments.
4. the boys were not crossing legs when sitting girls draw close to the knees.
5. walk, stand tall, shoulders back pad not.
16-18 (high school)
1. without tattoos, makeup.
2. not blind pursuit of luxury clothing.
3. don't wear too-skimpy clothes.
Food gift
Quiet dinner, tidy, and
He who loves food, and phase of an Eclipse elegant
1. wash your hands before meals, you want to wipe your mouth, gargling after meals.
2. learn proper use of utensils, feed himself, not sub foods.
3. eat without noise, did not dominate the food.
4. neither Eclipse nor picky eaters.
1. the meal does not smack, don't talk with food.
3. when food is not in picking disk.
4. wait for MOM and Dad for dinner.
5. while eating in public places do not chase jests.
1. while eating in public places does not make so much noise.
2. moderate Shing access, no leftovers, and no leftovers.
3. When you keep dining table and floor clean.
4. After lunch in the school cafeteria, and initiative to organize the cutlery.
1. Please elders, guests seated at the dining more chopsticks.
2. food for other people to use the communal chopsticks.
3. not making a lot of noise, trying not to get up their food.
4. leave early, said hello to elders, guests are polite.
5. eat all food should be packed.
未成年人文明礼仪规范大讨论之一
新华报业网讯 当前，江苏正在新的起点和更高水平上推进“两个率先”，奋力开启基本实现现代化新征程，需要培养和造就品德高尚、富有理想、快乐健康、全面发展的新一代江苏人薪火相传接续奋斗。加强未成年人文明礼仪教育则是培养新一代江苏人、促进江苏“人的现代化”的起点和重要一环。根据省文明委工作部署，省文明办、教育厅组织相关专家、学者和一线教育工作者成立课题组，针对未成年人基本文明礼仪养成存在的现象和问题展开了一系列调研，提出了一个“学得会，做得到”的未成年人礼仪规范建议稿，该规范将未成年人礼仪分为8个方面，4大礼仪，细致而具体地提出了未成年人基本文明礼仪规范。
扬子晚报今起将开设专题，并在扬网及扬子晚报微博开设讨论专栏，邀请读者对未成年人的基本文明礼仪规范提出建议，以期让学校、家长和学生对于文明礼仪养成有一个更加明确的标准定位。
“学校不能只管孩子的学习，不教文明素质！”这是一周前，一位网友“@快快开始”在自己的新浪微博上咆哮的一句话。咆哮的根源是一则小学生秋游的新闻，某校的小学生秋游，学生撤去后，竟然在草地上留下了一地垃圾无人清理。现场图片被网友拍下发到微博上后，引发了网友们关于小学生文明礼仪的热烈讨论。
事实上，自从孩子进入小学开始，老师和家长都在时刻“念叨”着“讲文明懂礼貌”。但怎样才是真正的“文明”？“讲文明”三个字来概括显然过于笼统。于是，一组“学得会，做得到”的未成年人文明礼仪规范标准在各界极高的呼声中亟待推出。扬子晚报记者杨甜子
调查：
6成小学生不掌握相应的文明礼仪
虽然从进入小学的那一刻起，“文明礼仪”便时刻挂在老师和同学们的嘴边，但孩子们的文明礼仪掌握情况到底怎么样？根据一项调查结果，60%的小学生并不真正掌握该年龄段应该掌握的文明礼仪要求。70%的学校对学生的文明礼仪教育主要形式是在班会课中宣讲文明礼仪要求；通过榜样示范和活动践行的不到30%。
记者了解到，这项调查发放问卷有两万五千余份，针对教师、学生、家长等不同的人群进行了问答，调查结果显示，未成年人文明礼仪基本情况总体良好，80%的学校已经开始将文明礼仪教育要求纳入学校教育的内容和任务，95%的家长和老师能认识到未成年人文明礼仪素质的重要性。但仍然有“三多三少”、“二好二弱”现象，值得反省和深思。
探究：
一个小学生的话引人思考——守则说“遵守公共场所秩序”，但没说不能插队
[采访实例]“我们刚刚上完《品德与社会》课，中午在食堂吃饭的时候就又有人插队了。真气人。”身为班干部的李洋气呼呼地告诉记者。每天中午在食堂排队买饭，总有那么几个“捣蛋鬼”想尽一切办法插队。“有的时候女生挤不过男生，就只能看着他们从我们面前挤过去。”更过分的是，吃完午饭，男生们总不记得把吃完的餐盘给端到餐具堆放处，食堂阿姨们只能跟在男生们身后收拾餐盘。
实在看不下去的李洋终于在一天中午“正义感爆棚”，“那天排队的时候，一个男生正好想插在我面前，但我是班干部，我觉得我有理由制止他。”李洋说，“老师在《品德与社会》课上难道没教吗？我们应该遵守公共场所的秩序。”谁知道男生的反驳让李洋哑口无言，“老师教了遵守公共场所秩序，但没说不能插队。”
李洋告诉记者，自己小学四年里一直都是班干部，充当老师“小帮手”的信条便是学校发放下来的文明礼仪规范的守则。“但男生们总是用各种‘守则上没写’的理由来反驳我，我真的很苦恼。”
[老师发言]南京市夫子庙小学校长冯爱东告诉记者，这个实例，确实是小学生认识的误区，也折射出现行的“小学生行为守则”的问题，太笼统太抽象，很多内容只有大的概念，而小学生的思维和理解能力毕竟有限，在遵照执行上，确实存在一些难度。
创新：
一个“学得会，做得到”的文明礼仪规范呼之欲出
“尊敬师长，友爱同学……”虽然中小学校园里都有自己的《文明礼仪规范》，但大而化之的内容显然无法让不同年龄段的孩子做出正确的理解，同时《文明礼仪规范》也缺少一个“官方标准”。由于“文明礼仪”的概念过于笼统和书面化，“看不见，摸不着”的学生们无法正确理解什么才是“尊敬师长”？怎样才能“友爱同学”？记者近日从江苏省文明办了解到，一个“学得会做得到”的《江苏省未成年人基本文明礼仪规范(建议稿)》已经在社会各界的关注下起草完毕，并开始广泛征求社会意见。
在这份《规范(建议稿)》中，未成年人的文明礼仪被分成“仪表之礼”“餐饮之礼”“言谈之礼”“待人之礼”“行走之礼”“观赏之礼”“游览之礼”和“形式之礼”八个方面，每一个方面都针对幼儿园、小学、初中和高中阶段的学生做了详尽的规定。
“尊敬师长”“友爱同学”等较为宽泛的“文明礼仪”增加了具体的内容，如“仪表之礼”一栏中，就分别对幼儿园阶段3—6岁的儿童，小学阶段7—12岁的小学生，初中阶段13—15岁的少年以及高中阶段16—18岁的高中生做出了细致而具体的规定。幼儿园的小朋友必须“学会自己刷牙、洗脸，在家长的帮助下梳理头发。”小学生的必须“坐立姿态端正，在公共场合不东倒西歪，不脱鞋。”初中生和高中生的“仪表之礼”则突出了“坐时男生不跷二郎腿，女生并拢膝盖”和“不文身、不化浓妆。不盲目追求名贵服饰。”
像李洋同学那样在学校里遇到的插队和不放归餐具的问题，新版《规范》中也做了规定，“餐饮之礼”中要求，小学生“在公共场所就餐时不追逐嬉闹”，初中生则要“在公共场所就餐时不大声喧哗。在学校食堂用餐后，主动整理归放餐具。”
观点：
更易践行的文明礼仪规范让孩子受益终身
省未成年人文明礼仪教育课题组成员、南京市夫子庙小学校长冯爱东告诉记者，“从一个小学生进入学校开始，老师家长肯定没少和孩子讲述讲文明懂礼貌的重要性，但孩子们光知道这个道理还没有用，需要有一个真正和他们的学习生活实践相关的‘规范标准’出台，孩子们才能真正懂得，到底怎样才是‘尊敬师长’‘互帮互助’”。
冯爱东认为，学生在小学阶段培养良好的文明礼仪习惯，会让他们受益终身。“我们应该告诉孩子具体应该怎么做，扫地应当怎样扫，请教同学问题时应该随时说谢谢，让孩子在具体的实践中养成良好的行为习惯。”冯爱东说，给未成年人出台一个“学得会，做得到”的文明礼仪行为规范标准，可以根据不同年龄段孩子的特点，让孩子对“文明礼仪”充满兴趣。久而久之，孩子就会对礼仪充满感性认识，并在学习生活中理性实践。
话题：
什么才是“仪表之礼”和“餐饮之礼”
南京200多名扬子小记者日前在身边的同学们中进行了一番调查，并和同学们发起了一场什么才是“仪表之礼”和“餐饮之礼”的课堂讨论。
@扬子小记者于欣羽(南京市赤壁路小学五年级)：我注意到，在新版的未成年人基本文明礼仪里，“餐饮之礼”里提到了“等爸爸妈妈一起吃饭”。现在还有多少同学能够做到这一点呢？每天爸爸妈妈工作都很辛苦，我们小学生能够做到的就是晚上回家后和爸爸妈妈一起开开心心地吃饭了。也要让爸爸妈妈感受到我们的孝心。
@扬子小记者李佳音(南外仙林分校五年级)：食堂吃饭的时候插队、遇到老师的时候不叫老师等行为都是校园里的不文明现象。在我们班的品德与社会课上，同学们经常会拿出这些例子来作为“反例”，让全班同学参与讨论和思考。有摄像特长的同学甚至还拍下了食堂插队的照片，拿到班里“以儆效尤”。
讨论：从即日起，扬子晚报将针对未成年人的文明礼仪规范发起讨论，请读者对未成年人文明礼仪规范建议稿的具体条文出言献策，也可提出各种修改建议。可登录扬网(www.young100.cn)专题讨论版发言或微博@扬子晚报参与。
欢迎一起来讨论
江苏省未成年人基本文明礼仪规范建议稿(节选)
仪表之礼
目标
面容整洁，衣着得体，
发型自然，仪态大方
3-6岁(幼儿园阶段)
1.学会自己刷牙、洗脸，在家长的帮助下梳理头发。
2.学会自己穿衣、穿鞋。
3.学会自己揩鼻涕、擦汗。
7-12岁(小学阶段)
1.勤洗头、洗澡，头发、身体无异味。
2.指甲里无污垢。
3.不当众挖鼻孔、掏耳朵。
4.勤换衣服、鞋袜，保持仪表整洁。
5.坐立姿态端正，在公共场合不东倒西歪。
6.公共场合不脱鞋。
13-15岁(初中阶段)
1.不染发，不烫发，男生不留长发。
2.公共场合着装得体，不穿背心、拖鞋。
3.不佩戴项链、耳环(钉)、戒指、手链、手镯等饰物。
4.坐时男生不跷二郎腿，女生并拢膝盖。
5.走路抬头挺胸，不勾肩搭背。
16-18岁(高中阶段)
1.不文身、不化浓妆。
2.不盲目追求名贵服饰。
3.不穿过于暴露衣着。
餐饮之礼
安静用餐，讲究卫生，
爱惜粮食，食相文雅
1.饭前要洗手，饭后要擦嘴、漱口。
2.学会正确使用餐具，自己吃饭，不撒食物。
3.吃饭时不吵闹，不独霸食物。
4.不偏食、不挑食。
1.吃饭时不咂嘴，不口含食物说话。
3.夹菜时不在盘中挑拣。
4.等爸爸妈妈一起吃饭。
5.在公共场所就餐时不追逐嬉闹。
1.在公共场所就餐时不大声喧哗。
2.适量盛取，不剩饭、不剩菜。
3.就餐时保持餐桌、地面整洁。
4.在学校食堂用餐后，主动整理归放餐具。
1.用餐时先请长辈、客人就座再动筷。
2.为别人夹菜要用公筷。
3.不发出很大的咀嚼声，尽量不起身夹菜。
4.提前离席，向长辈、客人礼貌打招呼。
5.吃不完的食物要打包。
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