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The author:(作者)qqpublished in(发表于) 2013/11/21 1:35:17 Guangxi officials admit that kept agreement with a married woman， off-the-shelf general staff
Recently, the number site name for the local taxation Bureau of Guangxi guigang city eight directors general Tao Yi Tong kept lovers post. On November 18, Gangnan District in guigang city tax Bureau for relevant staff of the Office, tax authorities eight Tong said in an interview with China Youth daily reporter, November 4, Tao Yi has been dismissed, currently, Tao Yi was transferred to Gangnan District local taxation Bureau collection services in a general staff member.
The network says, Gangnan District in guigang city local tax Bureau and eight directors general Tao Yi Tong, a married woman was a fan, "kept". The network post in the accompanied by both signature of agreement copies of pictures, the agreement including six points: a is men and women both in relationship is not Qing Qian cannot and third party occurred relationship; II is men and women both at least a week met once; three is men and women both if occurred contradictions, to written forms broke up; four is if violation 1th, is one-time compensation each other spirit loss fee 10,000 yuan, and so on; five is woman cannot interference and the effects man work, and family, or by provides punishment; six is man should care woman of life, money both consultations. Agreement signed between the two sides, closing phrase is dated March 29, 2013.
The net post there is a print version of the text in the picture showing Tao Yi and a fan's "kept" process. In accordance with the relevant description: Tao Yi after mid-June 2012 know a fan, strongly on their quest, a fan had been rejected. On August 1, 2012, Tao Yi invited to dinner and a fan with his army. That night, the depth of a drunken fan, under the unconscious to resist being raped by Tao Yi in the car. A few days after, Tao Yi stayed with a fan, comforting a fan and asked a fan back to divorce her husband and marry herself as soon as possible. Tao Yi after a divorce, a Tao Yi fan asked for a divorce. A fan after his divorce, Tao Yi lost a fan, and entrusted his mother broke up with fan on.
On November 18, the China Youth daily reporter contacted Parties Tao Yi and a fan.
Fan said the network printer-friendly version of the text on the picture content is material she gave the Commission for discipline inspection and the media, but online "local taxation Bureau of Guangxi guigang city eight pool directors kept lover" post is not what she or her family, the post on November 3, the next morning, she learned that it is not clear who sent in the post.
Tao Yi said that agreement did what he wrote, apparently, was spread over the barbecue to eat supper one evening, a girl sat down on his lap, after a fan appears to a scene with him. In fact, the girl was his cousin that night together with his cousin, among others.
In this regard, a fan said the night of March 28, own a barbecue stall in guigang City area saw a young woman sitting in the Tao Yi's lap, then clashed with Tao Yi. "That night, Tao Yi return to the House, trying to explain to me. "The next day, Tao Yi wrote a letter of agreement.
A fan said, and Tao Yi told him on the day of their marital status, and said they had children. But Tao Yi said he had divorced, and also has a child. After this process, found that Tao Yi fan is often exchanged with the other woman, and often not answering her phone.
"In fact, his heart is fine, is the child's heart, didn't have bad hearts. "" Tao Yi control is too poor, sick and the other girls to temptation. "A fan said that himself Tao Yi still have feelings, unwilling to get this far, just wanted to give him some punishment. "I think he is lying to me, not a real relationship. If it is not to deceive, betray. ”
A fan said, "I was with him, not for the money, I did not know that he was not a divorce. Later on when I know that Tao Yi did not divorce, Tao Yi promised, if married, give me 150,000 yuan plus a House. ”
On May 3, Tao Yi and his ex-wife officially divorced. On May 4, fan a divorce proceedings in Guangdong. A fan said, "when I'm back home through a divorce Tao Yi ask me how things are, but divorce back, you'll see me anymore. ”
A fan said, after a deterioration in relations with the Tao Yi, Tao Yi's family wants her to hand over the originals of the agreement, and compensation for moral damages her 30,000 yuan.
A fan said on October 23 to the discipline inspection and supervision departments to submit relevant material, but I only want to win an argument, but I had no idea things would be so much, has had a certain negative impact on their lives. A fan hope things don't happen anymore, "my mistakes and accept responsibility for, but hopefully not run on my own family and my ex-husband and his family. Doing such a thing, sorry family, enough already. "A fan said, they feel ashamed in front of my family, my child, and her ex-husband.
"The woman to want money. Do not get money, trying to destroy my reputation. "Tao Yi said," she signs out of 30,000 yuan and that in the future no longer haunt me, after the fact, she was in her brother's behest, sent a text message to 100,000 Yuan I paid for her, she was blackmailing me. "Tao Yi said that he had reported.
Tao Yi, some during the engagement with their fan, using your name, date of birth had been forged. In this regard, a fan said he does use another name in the work, originally with Tao Yi also comes from a working relationship. However, she later tells Tao Yi their names, Tao Yi sees her identity card. Her date of birth with the ID card does not match, but the date is not accurate on your ID card.
Tao Yi kept a fan event, Gangnan District in guigang city tax authorities responded by saying NET post appeared, guigang municipal local taxation Bureau attaches great importance to Web posts reflect issues of investigation. Upon inspection, Tao Yi was having an affair with nets placard referred to a fan.
China's relevant laws and moral have strict requirements to officials of party and Government disciplines. For example, the cadres adhere to the "integrity and to Germany for the first" standards under the Civil Service Act should be "model to observe social morality"; the disciplinary regulations of the party, "bigamy or raising concubine (), expelled from punishment. ”
"At present, some of the party members and leading cadres ' life style corruption, decline in party spirit, consciousness, political responsibility and moral obligation should be a matter of high priority. "The National Academy of public administration said zhuli, a Professor of the Department of teaching and research," kept mistresses "is not only not responsible for marriages, more hedonism and extravagance of the wind is an important performance of the low quality of political and moral quality be reflected directly, strict discipline, and related departments on the official style of life strengthen the restructuring efforts.
(Original title: Tao Yi by the parties: agreement should be true)
近日，多家网站出现名为《广西贵港市地税局八塘分局局长陶毅包养情人》的帖子。11月18日，贵港市港南区地税局八塘税务分局办公室相关工作人员在接受中国青年报记者采访时称，11月4日陶毅已被免职，目前，陶毅已被调到港南区地税局征收服务部以一般工作人员身份工作。
该网帖称，贵港市港南区地税局八塘分局局长陶毅，与已婚女子樊某有“包养关系”。该网帖中附有双方签名的协议书复印件的图片，该协议包括六点：一是男女双方在关系未清前不能与第三者发生关系；二是男女双方至少一星期见面一次；三是男女双方若发生矛盾，以书面形式分手；四是若违反第一点，则一次性补偿对方精神损失费1万元，以此类推；五是女方不能干涉及影响男方工作、家庭，否则按规定处罚；六是男方应照顾女方的生活，金钱双方协商。协议书上有双方的签名，落款日期为2013年3月29日。
该网帖中还有一份打印版文字图片，显示陶毅与樊某之间的“包养”过程。根据相关描述：陶毅于2012年6月中旬认识樊某后，就对其展开强烈的追求，樊某一直持拒绝态度。2012年8月1日，陶毅邀樊某陪他过建军节和共进晚餐。当晚，樊某深度醉酒后，在毫无知觉反抗能力下被陶毅在车上强奸。之后的几天，陶毅一直陪着樊某，安慰樊某，并要求樊某尽快回去与丈夫离婚并和自己结婚。后陶毅离婚，樊某也应陶毅要求离婚。樊某离婚后，陶毅就不见樊某，并委托其母与樊某谈分手。
11月18日，中国青年报记者联系到当事人陶毅和樊某。
樊某称，网帖上的打印版文字图片内容是她向纪委和媒体提供的材料，但是网上“广西贵港市地税局八塘分局局长包养情人”的帖子并不是她或她的家人所发，该帖发于11月3日，第二天早上她才知道，目前并不清楚帖子是谁发的。
陶毅说，协议书确实系他所写，起因是有一天晚上在烧烤摊吃夜宵，一女孩坐到他的大腿上，樊某出现后跟他大闹一场。其实，那个女孩是他的堂妹，当晚在一起的还有他堂哥等人。
对此，樊某表示，3月28日晚，自己在贵港市区一个烧烤摊见一年轻女子坐在陶毅的大腿上，于是与陶毅发生冲突。“当晚，陶毅回到住处，拼命向我解释。”次日，陶毅写下了协议书。
樊某说，认识陶毅的当天就告诉他自己的婚姻状况，并说自己有孩子。但陶毅说他已离婚，也有一个小孩。在此后的相处过程中，樊某发现陶毅经常与其他女人往来，并且经常不接她电话。
“其实他的心蛮好的，是小孩子的心，没有坏心。”“但是陶毅控制能力太差，受不了其他女孩对他的诱惑。”樊某说，自己对陶毅现在仍然有感情，不愿走到这一步，只是想给他一点惩罚。“我觉得他一开始就是骗我的，不是一份真感情。如果不是欺骗，就是背叛。”
樊某说：“我跟他在一起不是为了钱，我并不知道他没有离婚。后来当我知道陶毅并没有离婚的时候，陶毅许诺，如果离不了婚，就给我15万元，外加一套房子。”
5月3日，陶毅与其前妻正式离婚。5月4日，樊某回广东办理离婚手续。樊某说，“我回家办离婚手续的时候陶毅还问事情办得怎么样，但离婚回来就不见我了。”
樊某说，与陶毅的关系恶化后，陶毅的家人想让她交出协议书的原件，并赔偿她3万元精神损失费。
樊某称，她于10月23日向纪检部门递交了相关材料，当时只想讨一个说法，但没想到事情会闹这么大，对自己的生活造成了一定的负面影响。樊某希望事情不要再发展下去了，“我的错误我愿意承担，但是希望不要连累自己家人和前夫一家人。做出这种事情，已经够对不起他们一家人了。”樊某称，自己愧对家人、孩子和前夫。
“这个女的目的是想要钱。得不到钱，就想毁我名誉。”陶毅说，“她明明签字拿走3万元并表示日后不再纠缠我，事后，她又在她所谓的哥哥的授意下，发来短信要我赔她10万元，她分明是敲诈我。”陶毅称，他已经报案。
陶毅称，樊某在与自己交往期间，所使用的姓名、出生日期都系伪造。对此，樊某表示，自己在工作中的确使用另外一个姓名，最初与陶毅交往也是出于工作关系。但是，后来她告诉了陶毅自己的真实姓名，陶毅也见过自己的身份证。她的出生日期与身份证上的不符，但身份证上的日期并不准确。
对于陶毅包养樊某的事件，贵港市港南区地税局回应称，网帖出现后，贵港市地方税务局高度重视，对网帖反映的问题进行立案调查。经查证，陶毅确实与网帖所述的樊某有染。
我国有关法律和党纪政纪对官员道德有着严格的要求。例如，干部选拔坚持“德才兼备、以德为先”的标准；《公务员法》规定应“模范遵守社会公德”；党的纪律处分条例规定，“重婚或者包养情妇（夫）的，给予开除党籍处分。”
“目前，一些党员干部生活作风败坏、党性意识淡薄、政治责任感和道德责任感下降的现象应该引起高度重视。”国家行政学院公共管理教研部教授竹立家表示，“包养情妇”现象不仅是对婚姻的不负责任，更是享乐主义和奢靡之风的重要表现，政治品质和道德品质低下的直接反映，应该从严惩戒，同时相关部门要对官员的生活作风加强整顿力度。
（原标题：当事人陶毅：协议书内容属实）
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