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The author:(作者)hpmailerpublished in(发表于) 2013/11/30 9:33:34 Apologize in Beijing fell 7 suspects parents of a child， the mother was knocked unconscious
Fell to the children from the Daxing Han Lei was sentenced to death in the first instance, Han Lei family has been reluctant to face the media, the trial and sentencing, they have not appeared at the scene.
But they didn't do anything: from October 10, Han Lei 7 parents come to the victim's House to apologize, but nobody was to catch up with each other's House is to let each other an emotional blow them out of the door.
"Even so, we still have to apologize so that their conscience is passable ... ..." Han Lei's father, the legal evening news said, "even if upheld, we also hope to be understood", that's what he and wife really thought.
Yesterday evening, legal evening news reporter learned that, in the second instance trial, to observe the trial of friends and relatives in court trials have been conveyed to the parents of Han Lei.
Han Lei parents said they also intend to again apologized to the victim's home, but did not think the Court of Final Appeal handed down to so quickly, it makes them feel a bit sad.
Most recent apology Han Mu fall shock
Meet with the parents of Han Lei around subway station exit, time, where the old couple sitting at a station, swipe, Han Lei father paced back and forth with one's hands clasped behind one's back of the head is not high, slightly hunched Han Lei mother dialed a telephone "Parade".
Korean parent straight and clear in a speech, Han Mu man looked straight ahead as you speak, the voice is very light, sometimes, said in the middle of being wife to interrupt or stop, then she watched her husband no longer speaks.
Everything that happened on November 11, the old couple can't stop sighing, Han Lei father wearing the goggles off, wipe the brush repeatedly.
He said, "this is our 7th time, with any luck, they (the grandparents of murdered girls) think we are family here, so I opened the door ... ..."
Han Lei told reporters that when they found them, emotion to get them out the door.
"I was beat up by them several times, and his mother was ' escape ' when I accidentally took a tumble, bumping the head on the stairs, shock passed, on the spot. "Han Lei said.
"A child (killing girls) Grandma came over and she said you get 120 and save lives......" said Han Lei father, but even so, they did not blame each other's meaning.
"I think they should shoot us ... ..." just minutes after Han Lei mother regained consciousness, beyond the brownies she says besides elbow pain, and no big deal.
Father Han Lei
Would like to use my life for child's life
Each came apologized, old couple will records down--Han Lei father from Pocket in pulled out a Zhang yellow of notes paper, above recorded with each old couple door apologized of time: from October 10 up, old couple each across days will to a times victims home, "with fruit, and snack, and tea", has 5 times catch each other home in the unmanned, two times catch was in, but are was kicked has out.
Whether to insist on continuing to apologize, Han Lei parents ' adamant merely in frequency will change: an old couple, the other side no one met the neighborhood next door, neighbors say to their people just calm, you're not coming, arrives and reminds them of the heart ... ...
Han Lei said, after 11th, he feel like apologize for things that you can have a go, or at least don't make people feel worse again.
When asked if Han Lei was eventually upheld, the old couple still insist on an apology? Han Lei father remained silent for a moment said: "children (Han Lei) has now been sentenced to death, and we're not going to beg them, but from conscience speaking, we feel that we must go, no matter what they did to us, we should all go......"
Throughout the interview, said Han Lei father on more than one occasion, wish to express their apology through the media, "I am a grandfather who, if my life could change back to their child's life, I'm willing to. ”
Afterwards, afraid to go home, can't look up a man
"We knew about it in the paper. "Han Lei parents, son, after being released for the first time, had left home, referring to his son, Korean parent, had more.
"Kids like that really should be killed! "Han Lei said, his first reaction was anger, but at that time they had no Han Lei. Lawyers later things, everything from Han Lei and sister of her parents, their trustee to send Han Lei came back the warm clothing.
Not education, good son, the old couple was annoyed.
Han Lei mother, Han Lei is a "Brown nosing leech who is", said Han Lei father, Han Lei poor temper control, difficult to control. He said he was supporting three technicians, Han Lei mother in Beijing alone with the kids, and, by the time he was brought back in 1982 in Beijing, Han Lei is eight or nine years old, "my father, not to educate their children! ”
Han Lei said, since the murder, he weighs more than 20 pounds lighter, Han Lei mother also lost more than 10 pounds, "no-one can sleep safe ... ..." before the incident, the old couple live in her daughter's House to see his grandson, afterwards, afraid to go home, afraid to go to court to observe the trial, "too much pressure, feel unable to rise in life. ”
The old couple, only an apology conscience can be reduced, so the old couple as the civil compensation to the families of the victims addresses, finding home, then offset the replacement residence, two men again through his lawyer to find the victim's family. Each time, both of them were hauling hundreds of things to visit.
"First visit, I thought sure people out, so fall shopping is banned. "Han Lei said the mother. Why apologize for more than two months after the crime was committed, said Han Mu, Han Lei sister wrote a letter of apology that they had thought people on the head, being upset, so I want to wait a few days before a visit.
Murder party refuse to accept compensation
When Han Lei parents have been interviewed, journalists contacted, once the girl an agent of civil compensation law. "Sentencing, victims ' families to drop in the first instance, we have terminated the agency relationship. "According to counsel, September 28 first-instance verdict, murdered withdrew the civil compensation requirements, insists that the Court sentenced Han Lei to death. In criminal cases, the defendant if active compensation for families of the victims and get understanding is one of the lighter sentence.
Lawyers say the Han Lei had entrusted a lawyer during a pretrial Conference on compensation after the first trial, Karaie also contact he wanted compensation for murder, but killed family members made it clear that "no". He says the victim's mother was not very stable, "definitely will not receive compensation! "Text/reporter Wang Wei
(Edit: SN095)November 29, 2013 Legal evening news(北京摔童嫌犯父母7次登门道歉 母亲被追打摔晕|韩磊|摔童|道歉_新闻资讯
从大兴摔童案发生到韩磊一审被判死刑，韩磊的家人一直不愿面对媒体，在庭审和宣判时，他们也没有在现场出现。
但他们并非什么都没做：从10月10日起，韩磊父母7次登门到被害人家道歉，但不是赶上对方家中无人，就是让对方情绪激动地将他们轰出房门。
“即便这样，我们还是得去道歉，这样良心上才过得去……”韩磊的父亲对法制晚报记者说，“即使维持原判，我们也希望能得到谅解”，这就是他和老伴儿的真实想法。
昨天晚上，法制晚报记者了解到，在二审开庭后，旁听庭审的亲戚朋友已经将庭审情况转达给韩磊的父母。
韩磊父母表示，他们还打算再次到受害人家中登门道歉，但没想到终审宣判这么快就到了，这让他们感到有些难过。
最近一次登门道歉 韩母摔休克
与韩磊父母的见面约在地铁站口，约定时间到了，老两口守在出站口刷卡的地方，个头不高的韩磊父亲背着手来回踱步，微微有些驼背的韩磊母亲则拨通记者电话“认人”。
韩父腰板挺直，讲话时条理清晰，韩母看人说话时眼睛直直地望着前方，语音很轻，有时候话说到一半就被老伴儿打断或者制止，然后她就看着丈夫不再讲话。
提到11月11日发生的事情，老两口都止不住叹气，韩磊父亲把眼镜摘下来又戴上，反复擦了又擦。
他说，“这是我们第7次上门，运气还好，他们(被害女童的姥姥姥爷)以为我们是家里人回来了，所以开了门……”
韩磊父亲告诉记者，当对方发现是他们时，情绪激动地把他们追打出大门。
“我当时被他们打了几下，他妈妈在‘逃跑’的时候不小心摔了一跤，头磕到楼梯上，当场就休克过去了。”韩磊父亲说。
“这时候小孩(遇害女童)的姥姥过来了，她说你们赶紧打120救人吧……”韩磊父亲说，即便如此，他们并没有责怪对方的意思。
“我觉得他们打死我们都是应该……”韩磊母亲几分钟后恢复了知觉，她说除了手肘磕疼了以外，并无大碍。
韩磊父亲
愿用我的命换孩子的命
每次登门道歉，老两口都会记录下来——韩磊父亲从兜里掏出一张黄色的便笺纸，上面记载着每次老两口上门道歉的时间：从10月10日起，老两口每隔几天便去一次受害人家里，“带着水果、点心、茶叶”，有5次赶上对方家中无人，两次赶上有人在，但都被赶了出来。
对于是否坚持继续登门道歉，韩磊父母态度坚决，只是考虑在频率上会有所改变：某次老两口登门，对方家没人，碰到隔壁的街坊，邻居对老两口说，人家刚恢复平静，你们就别来了，一来就又勾起他们的伤心事……
韩磊父亲说，经过11日那次之后，他觉得道歉的事情可以过一阵再继续，最起码别再让人家更难受。
当被问到如果韩磊最终被维持原判，老两口是否还会坚持道歉？韩磊父亲沉默了一下说：“孩子(韩磊)现在已经被判死刑了，我们不是去求他们，而是从良心上讲，我们觉得必须去，不管他们怎么对待我们，我们都应该去……”
在整个采访中，韩磊父亲不止一次地表示，希望通过媒体表达他们的歉意，“我也是当姥爷的人，如果用我的命可以换回他们家孩子的命，我都愿意。”
案发后不敢回家 觉得没法抬头做人
“我们是从报纸上知道这件事的。”韩磊父母说，儿子在第一次刑满释放后，已经不在家里住了，谈到儿子，韩父的话多了起来。
“这孩子怎么变成这样，真该杀！”韩磊父亲说，他当时的第一反应就是愤怒，但当时他们已经联系不到韩磊了。后来请律师的事情等都由韩磊姐姐操办，老两口托人给韩磊送的保暖衣也被退了回来。
对于没教育好儿子，老两口懊恼不已。
韩磊母亲说，韩磊就是个“愣头青”，韩磊父亲则表示，韩磊发起脾气来控制能力差，行为难以控制。他说自己曾经是支援三线的技术人员，韩磊妈妈独自在京带孩子，等他1982年调回北京的时候，韩磊已经八九岁了，“我这当父亲的，没把孩子教育好！”
韩磊父亲说，案发至今，他体重轻了二十多斤，韩磊母亲也瘦了10多斤，“没一天能睡安稳……”案发前，老两口住在女儿家看外孙，案发后更不敢回家了，不敢去法院旁听庭审，“压力太大，都觉得没法抬头做人。”
老两口觉得，只有道歉能减少良心谴责，于是老两口根据被害人家属民事赔偿书的地址，找到家里，此后对方更换居住地，两人又通过律师再次找到被害人家属。每次，两人都拎着几百元的东西上门。
“第一次上门，我琢磨着肯定让人砸出来，所以东西买的都是禁摔的。”韩磊母亲说。对于为什么在案发两个多月后才登门道歉，韩母称，事后韩磊姐姐写了道歉信，他们当时觉得人家肯定在气头儿上，正伤心，所以想等过些日子再上门拜访。
被害方 拒绝接受赔偿
在采访完韩磊父母后，记者联系到曾经为受害女童一家做民事赔偿代理的马律师。“一审宣判时受害人家属撤诉，我们已经终止了代理关系。”马律师说，9月28日一审宣判时，被害方撤销了民事赔偿的要求，坚决要求法院判处韩磊死刑。在刑事案件中，被告人如果能积极赔偿被害人家属并获得谅解，是得以从轻发落的因素之一。
马律师表示，韩磊当初委托的律师在一次庭前会议上提出过赔偿，一审后，韩家也曾联系他希望对被害方进行赔偿，但被害方家属明确表示“不同意”。他说目前被害人母亲情绪还很不稳定，“肯定不会接受赔偿！”文/记者 王巍
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