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The author:(作者)delvpublished in(发表于) 2014/1/8 7:48:14 Online slots： homecoming flaunt comparisons， really can’t afford to hurt，
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"The Alumni Association I can't afford to hurt, and why the show got me from beginning to end......" recently, one Netizen posted about feeling to the reunion, many netizens calling is on this. Reporters found at the end of the reunion, more and more people are highly sensitive to reunion, even through some of them had a reunion "phobia".
A Netizen named "naked III" in 17 forums, about his adventures reunion of the injuries suffered. Was supposed to talk about feelings, recalling the year old party, will increasingly compare themselves to evolve into a variety of wealth, so that many users can't help but throw up slot.
A Netizen named "tuanliuyu" said, "have impure motives, such reunions have lost meaning, it is better not to go, live your life, I will live well. ”
Friends friendship for the student to be upgraded. Users @ Bay said, "friendship above all, innocent people. "Friends @ Zhang Gonghai said:" our old high school reunion filled with a warm caring friendship. ”
There was a great sense of disappointment. Users @ Saiyu said: "reunion is flaunt, hope we don't follow in footsteps. "User @ Mo Zhan said," is not an official, that is rich. Classmates become contacts. Many years later, when they get together again, only to find that have become so familiar with each other. ”
Xinjiang Academy of social sciences sociology Assistant Professor Yang fuqiang, flaunt it or not is an objective, everyone in the society's career has been varied, but the reunion should remove all "packages", after all, the party was more memories and sharing. Reunion 5 years of leaving very warm, by 30 years of time, very few people who would like to come, followed by increasingly difficult. Class reunion "small circle", because of a similar situation, thought, and resonates easily in the Exchange, and no one thinks the other side showing off.
Reporter's notes
The river of life flowing, but for centuries. That yellowed era, leaving our footprints on the playground on the campus echoed with our songs, and after graduation, where our friendship hold. Old classmates get together again after all these years later, let us talk about the past, not secular rumpled Yearbook, okay?
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“同学会我表示伤不起，从头到尾的炫耀让我情何以堪……”近日，一名网友发帖讲述自己参加同学聚会的感受，不少网友直呼深有体会。记者调查发现，年底同学聚会的现象不少，越来越多的人对同学聚会自言极为敏感，甚至有些人得了同学聚会“恐惧症”。
网友“裸奔的阿三”在17路论坛发帖，讲述自己冒险参加同学会的受伤遭遇。本该是叙旧情、忆当年的老友聚会，日渐演变成各种攀比炫富会，令众多网友忍不住吐槽。
网友“tuanliuyu”说：“动机不纯，这样的同学聚会失去了本来的意义，不如不去，过好自己的生活，自己要活得精彩。”
有网友为学生时代的友谊正名。网友@清水湾说：“友谊高于一切，清纯自在人心。”网友@张公海说：“我们的老同学聚会洋溢着热烈的互相关心的友情。”
也不乏有人大感失望。网友@赛玉说：“同学会已成了炫富会，希望我们不要步后尘。”网友@莫展说：“不是做官的，就是发财的。同学会变成人脉会。多年后，当他们再次相聚，却发现彼此已变得如此陌生。”
新疆自治区社会科学院社会学所助理研究员杨富强表示，炫富与否都是客观存在的，大家在社会上的职业虽然已经千差万别，但同学聚会应该卸下所有“包装”，毕竟聚会更多的是回忆和分享。同学聚会毕业5年相见很热乎，到30周年的时候，愿意来的人也寥寥无几，后面则越来越难。同学聚会易“小圈子”化，因为境遇、思想相近的人，交流中容易产生共鸣，也不会认为对方在炫耀。
■记者手记
生命的长河流淌，不过百年。在那个泛黄的年代里，操场上留下了我们的足迹，校园里回荡着我们的歌声，毕业后，我们的友谊在那里封存。老同学，时隔多年后的相聚，让我们只聊聊过去，莫使世俗弄皱了同学录，好吗？
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