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The author:(作者)delvpublished in(发表于) 2014/1/20 9:18:46 Zhejiang 1 rank： I became a man they hate
Hangzhou Xinhua on January 19 the Reuters new media ("Site," reporter Zhou Jing) "two days ago I asked my parents to quit her job and thought they understood, did not think they were surprised almost jumped up and firmly opposes it. "Sitting in front of reporters, Zhejiang chenyang worked for 5 years in institutions (a pseudonym) and began to struggle again.
"They call me ' the head broke where did such a good job, I don't know how many men tried to get into it? '' You don't enjoy what you '. "30 years of Chen Yang said, he was tired, but as the family's only son, nor her parents feel.
Chenyang's parents were small businesses, his family was above average, at the time of employment, business minded chenyang, but rejected by their parents. Parents say, "too hard to do business, rather than to the institution stable, decent". Five years ago, public institutions are in great demand, chenyang's many students to be selected, he would listen to the views of parents.
Chenyang grew up learning, and graduate student last attended a prestigious University, has been preaching everywhere by their parents and relatives as a successful example of. Chenyang spoiled intends to achieve something.
However, access to jobs, he felt defeated.
Chenyang's post is "research", but to the unit only to find, this work is writing the report. "The so-called ' report ', most of the time is to help lead summary record. "Chen Yang said.
"Just start groping for a doorway, quietly wrote on the shortcomings in the work. Led a look, pulled down his face, yelled, ' who do you think you are, I eat more salt than you eat more rice, don't you tell me! ’”
Chen Yang said that he "learned", and writing a report trying to write "on the big" picture below. "I used to hate the eight-legged essay, no sentence is true, what success is, gratifying, wrote what is all I feel sick. More grief than he had in life annoying people, often feel that when I'm writing materials ' sad '. ”
"But when it comes to appraisals, appraisals and inspections will be particularly busy, often leading a work phone, will have to work overtime in the evening catch the material. No overtime. "Chen Yang said turn led around every day and felt no presence, into a machine, is busy every day, go through it.
"In the past, but also to participate in a lot of ' business ', often have vomiting, stomach gets very bad, hasn't come back yet. "Chenyang gratifying is that of Central" eight rules "since he led going out drinking and eating less.
From 2013, the ban has led to declining revenues. "We have more than 5,000 yuan a month, every month before a supermarket card over holidays, there will be thousands of smaller festivals. But now the fees are not supermarket cards, holiday, even the bonuses are likely to plummet. "He said.
Chenyang think money requirements are not very high, but I still think that some level of income "shabby". "Folks, they think I'm a monthly income of more than 10,000, and I'm embarrassed to tell you the truth. "He said, and students now work in enterprises are doing better than him.
"30, how come I feel like I cannot stand up. Before it was a bit of passion, and quickly withdraw. "Chenyang thinking of quitting to start startups, working years to pass a parent really doesn't make sense, it 's" arbitrary ".
"Live, after all, is their own, not their parents. "Chenyang consolation.
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新华网杭州1月19日新媒体专电(“中国网事”记者周竟) “前两天我和父母提了要辞职，本以为他们能理解，没想到他们惊讶得差点跳起来，坚决反对。”坐在记者面前，在浙江省某事业单位工作了5年的陈洋(化名)又开始纠结起来。
“他们骂我‘是不是脑子坏了，这么好的工作上哪找，不知道多少人想进都进不了吗？’‘你不要身在福中不知福’。”30岁的陈洋说，他实在是做腻了，但作为家里的独子，又不能不顾父母的感受。
陈洋的父母都做小生意，家境中等以上，在就业时，陈洋有心做生意，但被父母否定了。父母认为，“做生意太累，不如到事业单位去稳定、体面”。在五年前，事业单位还很吃香，陈洋的不少同学也是如此选择，他也就听从了父母的意见。
陈洋从小学习优秀，最后考取了某名牌大学的研究生，一直被父母和亲戚当成成功的例子到处宣讲。陈洋也踌躇满志，打算在单位干一番事业。
然而，一进入工作岗位，他就感觉自己被打败了。
陈洋的岗位是“研究”，然而到单位之后才发现，这个工作主要是写报告。“所谓‘报告’，多数时候就是帮领导总结政绩。”陈洋说。
“刚开始摸不到门道，老老实实地写上了单位工作中的不足。领导一看，拉下脸，大吼‘你以为你是谁，我吃的盐比你吃的饭多，轮不到你对我指手画脚！’”
陈洋说，打那后他就“学乖”了，写报告就绞尽脑汁写“高大上”的形容词。“我以前最讨厌这样的八股文，没有一句是实在的，什么成绩斐然、形势喜人，那些话写完了自己都觉得恶心。人生最悲哀的莫过于变成自己曾讨厌的人，我在写材料的时候常常感受到这种‘悲哀’。”
“而且遇到各种考核、评比和视察的时候会特别忙，常常临下班领导一个电话过来，晚上就得加班赶材料。还没有加班费。”陈洋说，每天围着领导转，觉得自己没有存在感，变成了一台机器，每天忙忙碌碌，却浑浑噩噩。
“以前还要参加很多‘应酬’，经常喝吐，胃变得很差，现在还没养回来。”让陈洋欣慰的是，中央颁布“八项规定”以来，他陪领导出去喝酒吃饭的情况少了。
从2013年开始，各种禁令导致收入下降。“我们一个月5000多元，以前每个月会发个千把块的超市卡，逢年过节也会有小几千的过节费。但现在超市卡、过节费都没了，连年终奖都可能要大幅缩水。”他说。
陈洋自认为对金钱要求不是很高，但还是觉得这样的收入水平有些“寒碜”。“亲戚们都以为我每月有一万多的收入，我都不好意思说实话。”他说，现在同学中在企业上班的都混得比他好。
“三十而立，我怎么都感觉自己立不起来。趁现在还有点激情，赶紧撤吧。”陈洋想辞职去创业，打算年后再做通父母工作，实在做不通，就“先斩后奏”。
“生活毕竟是自己的，不是父母的。”陈洋安慰自己。
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