People's daily: Chinese new year back home, please put down the phone, looked up-Spring Festival, bow their heads, mobile control-IT information
Approaching new year, "home" to a Chinese theme. Now, where's home? On this side of the phone, since tickets became the choice of many people using the mobile terminal, home hope; home phone end because "people at home, on the phone" bow since Hey, little human affection.
Have had a comic Description: few people sunning on the beach, after a period of time, it left a mark on the belly, the shape of hands holding cell phones were down. Clearly, the "machine is hand" has become the lifestyle of modern people, that formed a "bow", which in cold as well as facilitating emotional.
Such a spectacle staged in reunion with a code at the time of the Spring Festival, family brushing machine, during a dinner with friends when the printing machine, stopping by to catch up with cell phones and even family fun from the grab a red envelope ... ... People cannot help but question: the Chinese new year, is reunion's popularity or enjoyment of "machine"?
Not "listening" and "absent" two words can better describe this "bow", and exhort the mother originally are not as the bell rang. Many people are looking forward to a taste of home in their hometowns with rice, said sound of home, but temporary greetings for a very short period, interrupted by the casual mobile phone.
Red hair again, someone to micro-, circle of friends also have no brushes, new push didn't look "attentively" at the cell phone, "distracted" to deal with. No matter what mom says "Yes", answer no matter what dad asked, "Oh", so contrary to human-computer, make the atmosphere changed, family relations soured.
Can look down, but don't forget. It cannot be denied that technology is changing lives, especially smart phones let people and people closer together, you just a key to communication. Also see Mobile Internet to further the relationship between man and man, virtual dialogue than real exchanges, signaling more eye contact, even the nearness of people are choosing to use micro-letter message.
Mobile phone alternative families, another added to become emotional, but is kind of sad. Think about, dumpling Pan Kua Kua family craft, is to take a photo in your circle of friends? Bell of the new year, is like a year before, thanks to my parents, and is eager to share in the morning on time?
The answer is different, but different behavior meant to express the degree of love. Once could not bear to put down the phone, you will forget where, ignoring "people love me" and "my loved one", no doubt way gathers the affection and warmth.
There were news reports, an elderly man was reunited to see grandchildren finally back, indescribably happy family sitting together but little communication, they always phone not in hand, no chance to talk, are they really so "busy"? Elder rage overturning tables, behind the bitterness and heartache can be imagined. "Parents paner, dating", family became distant, acquaintances without hot, such as in the new year in the winter in cold water bath, not only the world around us is cold, and it's easy to let every one "cold".
"Don't put your phone and put my head on, so that you can at least look at me." This helpless alert and wandering on the way: new year, go home, please put down the phone, looked up, and there is nothing more warm than family care family of?
人民网：过年回家，请放下
手机，抬起头来 - 春节,低头族,
手机控 - IT资讯
临近年关，“回家”成为中国人不变的主题。如今，家在哪里？家在手机的这端，因为用移动终端购票成为不少人的选择，有回家的期盼；家在手机的那端，因为“人在家里，心在手机上”，多了低头自嗨、少了人伦亲情。
曾有一张漫画这样描述：几个人在海滩上晒太阳，过了一段时间，肚子上却留下了印痕，双手捧着玩手机的形状被投射下来了。显然，“机不离手”成为现代人普遍的生活方式，以至于形成了“低头族”，而手机在提供便利的同时也冷落了情感。
这样的景象在春节团圆之时一码码地上演，家庭聚餐时各自刷机、朋友聚会时人不离机、串门叙旧时随看手机，甚至家人之间的欢乐源自抢红包……不禁令人质疑：过年，过得是团聚的人气还是自娱自乐的“机”气？
没有“聚精会神”和“心不在焉”这两个词更能形容“低头族”了，妈妈的叮咛嘱托都比不上铃声一响。不少回乡人都盼望着尝尝家乡饭、说说故乡音，可是临时的寒暄在极短时间内，就被不经意间的手机声中断。
又发红包了、有人来微信了、朋友圈还没有刷、新推送也没看，于是“聚精会神”地看手机，“心不在焉”地对付话。不管妈妈说什么都应“是”，无论爸爸问什么都答“哦”，这样截然相反的人机状态，让家庭氛围变了味、让家人关系变了质。
可以低头，但别忘情。不可否认，科技改变生活，尤其智能手机让人与人之间的距离更近了，只需一键就能沟通你我。也要看到，移动互联让人与人之间的关系更远了，虚拟对话多于真实交流，信号传递多于眼神沟通，哪怕相隔咫尺的人都选择用微信传话。
手机替代家人，成为情感的另一种补充，不免是一种悲哀。仔细想想，饺子出锅会夸一夸家人的手艺好，还是先拍张照放在朋友圈？新年的钟声敲响，是像以前那样给父母拜个年，还是迫不及待地准时在凌晨分享心情？
答案因人而异，可不同的行为选择意味着表达爱的程度。一旦不忍放下手机，就会忘了情归何处，忽视“爱我的人”和“我爱的人”，无疑羁绊了相聚时的亲情与温情。
曾有则新闻报道,一位老人见到儿孙们好不容易都回来团圆了，别提多高兴，可一家人坐在一起却很少交流，他们时时刻刻手机不离手，想说话也没机会，难道他们真的就那么“忙”吗？老人一怒掀翻餐桌，背后的心酸和心伤可想而知。“父母盼儿归，儿归难相亲”，亲人变得生分，熟人没了热乎，这样的新年如同在寒冬里用凉水洗澡，不仅周遭都是冷意，而且很容易让情分“感冒”。
“要不把你的手机绑在我头上，这样你至少可以看着我”。此声的无奈警醒着还在归途的游子：过年了，回家了，请放下手机、抬起头来，还有什么比用心呵护家人亲情更温暖的呢？