Reflection: technological progress has brought us the alienation of affection? -New year, red envelope-IT information
Yesterday was the first day of the first month, in accordance with the usual practice, the family began visiting relatives, morning visits to Grandma and Grandma, Grandma and my grandma and I frequently walk, between each other and said it was already familiar with. Lunch finished, our family and Grandma already has relatives there. As usual not familiar at all, not even my face, so I sometimes don′t even know what to call it.
At about one o′clock in the afternoon. We came to the home of distant cousins, because there is no open heat, went in was deserted, where only Grandma and Grandpa, others did not, I sit down and don′t even know what to say. I called the second Grandma.
Two grandmother asked, "is graduating this year, intending to read it? ”
I said, "do not continue, and the work is confirmed, an Internet media company in Qingdao. ”
"Oh, but good place in Qingdao, Ningbo, young people go out and exercise is good, yet? ”
"Not yet, is going to find it was stable after. ”
I cope with, followed by the grandmother and grandmother family gossip chat between two people. My mom and dad are not even words can say. And I was not going to take anything, just one person playing with cell phones, painted houses and everyone pulling together bullshit, can′t wait to get out of there, because it was cold and wanted to return to their homes early.
So it is with other relatives in the afternoon, I felt nothing more than routine. Only meets once a year, other days nothing can be said. Relatives walk was my grandmother′s generation were moving, for me they are more familiar with strangers, just heard it.
Normal for me only my father′s relatives here, and have a similar age peers, easy, everyone talking the same hobbies, such as military, basketball, even the second element. Granny′s distant relatives, apart and they seem to me a few times, just like we did in iPhone6s, and they still use BB machine. Generation gap together with the usual don′t move around, so I feel a cold. My relatives go there just to complete the task, years of "gathering" more is only a few minutes of show.
Back home I think. Now of technology increasingly developed, but we and distance cousins of relationship does increasingly alienated, about 30 years Qian, no Metro, no phone, people by of is envelope or phone contact, usually of relatives walking also compared to frequently, so for feelings also compared to strong, and also no for family planning, home also has several child, each other Zhijian go pro-friends also has common of topic. When Chinese new year is the real new year′s day.
Today, 30 years later in 2016, with the development of information technology, usually you can make a phone call, and wants to see the direct subway. But the relationship between distant relatives more, as the planning proceeds, each one is basically a child. Also cool each other a lot. Sometimes even if it is face to face, and I even can′t remember the name. Even if a person feels lonely, choices we are chatting, brushing, see b, play games, even going out with friends sing k, play, didn′t expect to play with son of those relatives. We all have our own circle, no intersection between them. This is the result of the development of the Internet now.
I imagine that decades later, when the older generation is gone, how many relatives was familiar to us, and now those distant cousins with each other, just by my grandma as a platform and hub, and if it is 2036 and 2046, 2056? And who can guarantee the development of VR AR holographic technology, so we don′t have to go out and visit relatives. When the Festival will be the scene when it? Each holding Hololens and then has to look at it?
Technology of development and progress with to we of is family of alienated, certainly this more of is peace Shi of walking about, and may, future of Festival, go pro-friends is addition a form has′s, traditional of visit must will with Internet and technology of development and has change, or, and distance cousins of contact will with times of development and gradually to dies, as yihou will into what like, let we had a years say′s.
反思：科技的进步是否给我们带来亲情的疏远？ - 新年,红包 - IT资讯
昨天是正月初一，按照往常的惯例，全家又要开始了走亲访友，早上先是访问了奶奶家和外婆家，显然我和奶奶与外婆频繁的走动，彼此之间早已经已经熟悉了而且也很说得来。从中午吃饭完后，我们全家边和外婆已经开始走那里的亲戚了。因为平常根本不熟，连照面都没有，所以说我甚至有时候连怎么称呼都不知道。
下午大约一点钟的时候。我们来到了远方表亲的家里，因为没有开着暖气，走进去是冷冷清清的，只有哪里的外婆和外公在，其他人也没有，我坐下来甚至不知道该说什么好。我姑且叫二外婆吧。
二外婆问道：“今年是要毕业了吧，还打算往上读吗？”
我说道：“不继续了，而且工作也基本确定了，一家互联网媒体公司，在青岛。”
“哦，青岛可是好地方啊，跟宁波一样，年轻人出去锻炼锻炼总是好的，对象有了吗？”
“还没有，正打算以后工作稳定了再找吧。”
我便应付着，之后便是外婆和二外婆两个人之间聊聊家长里短。我和爸妈甚至都没有什么话可以说。而我，也不打算在搭什么话了，只是一个人玩着手机，刷着之家和大家一起扯扯淡，恨不得马上离开那里，因为实在是天冷了，想要早点回到自己的家中。
下午另外一家的亲戚也是这样子的，我感觉只是例行公事罢了。一年只是这么碰上一次，其他的日子也没有什么话可以说。亲戚走动起来也只是我外婆那一辈在走动，对于我来说他们更多的只是熟悉的陌生人，只是有所耳闻罢了。
对于我来说平常的走动也仅限于我爸这里的亲戚们，而且有年龄相似的同龄伙伴在，也好说话，大家一次聊聊相通的爱好，比如军事，篮球，甚至还有二次元。而跟外婆的远方亲戚来说，我与他们好像相隔了几个年代，就像我们在用iPhone6s，而他们却仍然在用BB机一样。两代人的差距加上平时完全不走动，让我感到了一股冷淡。我走那里的亲戚只是为了完成任务罢了，年一次的“聚会”，更多地也只是几十分钟的表演。
回到家中我便在想。如今的科技越来越发达，但是我们和远方表亲的关系确越来越疏远，大约30年前，没有地铁，没有手机，人们靠的是信封或者电话联系，平时的亲戚走动也比较地频繁，所以来说感情也比较地浓厚，并且还没有进行计划生育，家里也有几个小孩，彼此之间走亲访友也有共同的话题。那时的过年才是真正的过年了。
30年之后今天是2016年，随着信息技术的发展，平时都可以打个电话，想要去看看了就直接做地铁去。但是远方亲戚之间的关系确越来越淡，随着计划生育的进行，每一个人基本是一个孩子。彼此之间也相互冷淡了许多。有时候即使是面对面，我甚至都想不起来该叫什么。即使一个人感到孤独了，我们更多地选择是上网聊天，刷之家，看B站，玩游戏，即使出去也是和狐朋狗友们一起唱K，打球，完全没有想到和这些亲戚的儿子一起玩。我们都有着自己的圈子，彼此之间基本没有交集。这就是现在互联网的发展所带来的结果。
我很想象以后再过几十年，等老一辈的人远去的时候，还有多少亲戚是我们所熟悉的，现在和那些远方表亲们相互联络，也仅仅是靠外婆作为平台和枢纽，如果是2036、2046、2056年呢？又有谁能保证VR AR全息技术的发展，让我们都不用走出去看望亲戚了。当时候的春节又会是怎样的场景呢？每个人拿着Hololens，然后看看就行了吗？
科技的发展与进步带给我们的是亲情的疏远，当然这更多的是和平时的走动有关，又或许，未来的春节，走亲访友是另外一种形式了吧，传统的拜访必然会随着互联网与科技的发展而有所改变，否则，和远方表亲的联系会随着时代的发展而逐渐地消逝，至于以后会变成什么样子，让我们过个几年再说吧。