Pupils write log "complaint": I called my mom back and her head to play mobile-international women's day, logging, mobile phone-IT news

"Today is 38. Today, I want to thank MOM's hard work every day, doing something for her. First of all, I called my mother to tell stories, but my mother did not seem to like the story I have been looking at mobile phones. It makes me feel compromised. I thought, maybe my Blessed Mother love. So, I said to his mother wishes, but my mother still looking at mobile phones, I am even more sad. I think that this approach does not work, let me give her back. I worked hard to beat back to mother, but MOM was looking at cell phone, without a trace of a smile on his face, I grieve...... "

Yesterday, Ms Zhao took his son wrote this diary, found the journalist. Diary the last as she wrote: "my sad 38 women's day was over. ”

Zhao's son studying in huangyan Dongcheng Street Central primary school in the second grade, this diary was written on March 8.

According to teacher Wang Yuewei introduced, the day coincides with the 38 women's day, she had to "Thanksgiving" as its theme, try to let students do something to my mother at home, you can sing a song, say a blessing, or beat back, and wash your feet, and then write it down in a journal. Did not think the student is to write a mother had been looking down the details.

"After reading the children not only observant, I was quite surprised, but in a world where children and adults love to play is a very serious matter. "Wang Yuewei, said he gave the diary to a praise, for a second-year student, the whole article with mother's emotions for clues, feeling fine," children of the world's most simple, wrote the content but also the most genuine, widespread social phenomenon which reflects this concern. ”

Imperceptibly neglected children

"When the son read the diary, my husband and I both look at each other and laughed, but then felt very ashamed. "Ms Zhao told reporters that comes home from work each day, she and her husband like to play mobile phone chat news app, sometimes beside the son wanted her to stay with my homework, I get impatient.

"Didn't realize that my actions will have such a big impact on children. "Ms Zhao said later she had to put down the cell phone spend more time with his son.

At noon yesterday, reporters at the interview the center of huangyan Dongcheng Street primary school gate, about 70% students say MOM and Dad Love cell phones.

"Eat looking at mobile phones, also when I do my homework, and also sat on the bed to sleep. "One student said, sometimes see parents on cell phones, he would like to finish the job quickly.

"I think moms love phones, more focused on the mobile phone. "A reading first grade elementary student said angrily, sometimes mothers play phone, hear her mother several times, does not promise to people.

"Indeed it is, and will always play in front of children. "Lady who lives in jiufeng village, huangyan admits, sometimes children doing their homework, she was sitting playing beside the phone, thinking as long as no sound good, are not aware that this in itself is affecting children. "In the future must be corrected, at least try not to play in front of children. "During the interview, some parents" confession, "said.

Spend more time with their children

In this regard, huangyan Dongcheng Street Central primary school Deputy head Zhu Huizheng, children write diaries, reflects the current status of the parents. Now a lot of parents come home, the first thing even Wifi, micro-blogging, micro-letter, Internet access, movies on mobile phone, spend more time on the phone than with the kids .

Zhu Huizheng reminded parents that"model of education" is important to parents as their children's first teachers, and if they play, kids will imitate parents, age becomes "mobile phone control", which affects health. In addition, the child's growth may have some bad effects . Such as parents addicted to mobile phone, network, ignoring interactions with children, and that children lack the "feeling of love", which lacks the capacity to love, children develop an eccentric, introverted personality.

Wang Yuewei teacher suggested that parents if there is work, need to use cell phones at home, the best peak replaced, such as when Dad busy, mother with children learning or gaming. Playing cell phone, dad took the kids exercise, can also be agreed every weekend, people don't play mobile fixed for a long time.

"The furthest distance in the world is me by your side, you're in cell phones. "Have someone apply ridicule of Tagore's poems of today's young people. When this phrase occurs when a parent would feel a little sad?

Recently, Huang yan Zhao to this reporter on the phone, saying that he was watching his son wrote the diary section 38 and felt very ashamed and guilty. "I called my mother to tell stories, but my mother did not seem to like the story I have been looking at mobile phones. It makes me feel less...... "

小学生写日志“诉苦”：我给妈妈捶背，她却低头玩手机 - 妇女节,日志,手机 - IT资讯

“今天是三八妇女节。在今天，我要感谢妈妈每天的辛苦劳动，为她做点事。首先，我给妈妈讲故事，不过妈妈好像不喜欢我讲的故事，一直在看手机。这让我的心情大打折扣。我想，也许我的祝福更让妈妈喜欢。于是，我对妈妈说了祝福，可妈妈依然看着手机，我更加伤心了。我想，这个办法也不行，我来给她捶背吧。我卖力地给妈妈捶背，可妈妈还是看着手机，脸上没有一丝笑容，我更伤心了……”

昨天，赵女士带着儿子写的这篇日记，找到了记者。日记最后，孩子还写道：“我的伤心的三八妇女节就是这样过的。”

赵女士的儿子就读于黄岩区东城街道中心小学二年级，这篇日记写于3月8日。

据班主任王月薇介绍，当天恰逢三八妇女节，她就以“感恩”为题，尝试着让学生们在家给妈妈做件事，可以唱首歌，说句祝福的话，或者捶捶背、洗洗脚，然后用日记写下来。没想到这名学生是写妈妈一直在低头看手机的细节。

“看完后不仅感叹孩子的观察力，我自己也很惊讶，没想到在孩子的世界里，大人爱玩手机是一件很严重的事情。”王月薇说，自己当时就给这篇日记点了个赞，对于一个二年级的学生，整篇文章以妈妈的情感变化为线索，情感细腻，“孩子的世界最单纯，写出来的内容也最真实，这也反映出这种普遍存在的社会现象值得关注。”

不知不觉冷落了孩子

“在儿子读日记时，我和老公两人还对视而笑了下，但随即就觉得挺惭愧的。”赵女士告诉记者，每天下班回家，她和丈夫就喜欢玩手机看新闻聊微信，有时儿子在旁边想让她陪着一起写作业，自己还会不耐烦。

“没有意识到我的行为对孩子成长会有这么大的影响。”赵女士说，以后她一定要放下手机多陪陪儿子。

昨日中午，记者在黄岩区东城街道中心小学校门口进行了随机采访，近七成学生称爸妈爱玩手机。

“吃饭在看手机，我做作业时也在玩，睡觉时还要坐在床上玩。”一名学生说，有时候看见爸妈在玩手机，他也很想做完作业赶紧玩。

“我觉得妈妈更爱手机，也更关注手机。”一名读一年级的小学生气愤地说，有时候妈妈玩手机，她喊好几遍妈妈都听不见、不答应人。

“的确是这样，会经常当着孩子的面玩手机。”家住黄岩九峰新村的张女士坦言，有时候孩子写作业，她就坐在旁边玩手机，想着只要没有发出声响就好，没有意识到这种行为本身就已经很影响孩子。“以后一定要改正，最起码尽量不要当着孩子的面玩手机。”采访中，部分家长“忏悔”说。

多抽点时间陪伴孩子

对此，黄岩区东城街道中心小学副校长朱辉政表示，孩子写的日记，反映出了当下不少父母的现状。现在很多家长回家第一件事就是连Wifi，看微博、微信，上网、看电影都在用手机，花在手机上的时间比陪孩子更多。

朱辉政提醒家长，“范本教育”很重要，家长作为孩子的第一任老师，若总是玩手机，孩子会去模仿家长，小小年纪就成为“手机控”，进而影响健康。此外，对孩子的成长也会造成一些不好的影响。比如家长沉溺于手机、网络，忽视与孩子的交流，容易让孩子缺乏“被爱感”，进而缺乏爱的能力，导致孩子形成孤僻、内向的性格。

王月薇老师建议，父母如果确实有工作，在家需要使用手机，最好错峰替换，比如爸爸忙时，妈妈陪孩子学习或游戏。妈妈玩手机，爸爸就要带着孩子做运动，也可以约定每个周末，大家固定半天都不玩手机。

“世界上最远的距离是我在你身边，你却在玩手机。”曾有人套用泰戈尔的诗调侃时下年轻人。当这句话发生在亲子之间时，是否会觉得有一些悲哀？

近日，黄岩的赵女士给本报记者打来电话，说自己在看了儿子写的三八节日记后，心里非常地惭愧和内疚。“我给妈妈讲故事，不过妈妈好像不喜欢我讲的故事，一直在看手机。这让我的心情大打折扣……”