Woman doctor who married when her daughter-in-law about ten years in the countryside experience so real users lamented | rural daughter-in-law _ news

Woman doctor yellow light

Woman doctor who married into the countryside when her daughter-in-law about a decade so real experienced friends exclaim

Video of the investigative journalism: a home in the village of San

2016 Festival Eve, a article name for a rural daughter-in-law eye in the of village picture of articles, in network Shang was brush screen, articles to a rural daughter-in-law of perspective, description has in-laws three generations people of fate changes and where rural of status, articles starting of reading volume over has highest statistics 100,000, zhihou was large forward, quickly became Festival during of a hot on the topic.

Yellow light, is the author of this article, she is a media professional teachers in colleges and universities in Guangdong Province. This from her own point of view is neither the best nor most poignant article, why would cause the most popular media attention? Article description of what is a family? How the family are embedded in a rural village? In early March, CCTV News survey of journalists and yellow lights with his wife back to three villages in xiaogan, Hubei's home town of Fengshan, by different characters and the family contacts, to learn the story behind the article.

　　Yang Sheng

　　Characters: yellow light's husband

Amber's husband Yang Shenggang in the family of seven brothers and sisters, ranked sixth, was only a child by reading out the door, he and amber are doctoral students now teach at the same University. New year each year, they traveled thousands of miles, home and family reunion.

In 1969, Yang Shenggang's father died, leaving his wife and six children. Yang Sheng was only 1 year old at that time, he said, that rural poverty is common characteristics, but the others, they have a deep pain. Because of poverty, dropped out early in the older children, sharing of family pressures, and sisters has married, older brother Yang Dunwu teens learned to Barber, village Lane, to make ends meet.

Only Yang Shenggang, outstanding since childhood, he and his brothers and sisters have different life. In high school, Yang Shenggang was admitted to the province xiaogan high school, he was still top, but economic constraints, he, like many rural students of the same age, and chose the University because the teachers on, lower price, and subsidies.

In 1993, the family sold two pigs, selling 1000 dollars to Yang Shenggang, the money was brother workers make less than a year, it was the family of Yang Shenggang best effort support.

In 2007, Yang Shenggang was married to amber, which not only opened the yellow light and the fate of the family, also started her on this observation of rural families. Only yellow light found that since 2008, Yang Shenggang's older brother and four-family afterwards, this solidarity, warm family atmosphere has changed significantly.

　　Yang Dunwu

　　Characters: Yang Shenggang's older brother

Three villages north of jianghan plain, and rely on the ordinary, the beginning of the reform and opening up, farmers here have out done Mason tradition. In 1993, worked 20 years in the village Barber Yang Dunwu, also joined the team, he was the last work of young adults in the village. And Yang Dunwu going places, is the brother-in-law of contracted projects in Beijing (four brother-in-law Yang Shenggang and yellow light) sites.

From 1993 to 2009, Yang Dunwu followed her husband in Beijing for 16 years, from home every year necessary expenses, and not get back the full wages, most (about a hundred thousand of Yuan) brother-in-law. However, the money eventually crumbled. Because, in the eyes of the yellow light has always been a family "wealthy" image of four brother-in-law suddenly went bankrupt.

　　Four brother-in-law

　　Characters: Yang Sheng had four elder sister's husband

Yellow light article, four brother-in-law is the best person in the family as four brother-in-law is the first work of a group of people. The 80 's, he was to go out and do masons, and oldest brother Yang Dunwu out, four-brother is a contractor with workers.

At that time, Yang Dunwu son or daughter had been born on farm incomes to afford family expenses in four brother-in-law persuasion, Yang Dunwu went to construction sites in Beijing, and his wife who is responsible for the site more than more than 100 workers to cook every day.

Four brother-in-law how thing happened, the family is not clear, because from 2008 after the four sister Yang Shenggang family never goes back to his hometown. As four brother's home not far from the yellow light of her mother-in-law, so the reporter saw four brother-in-law 87 year old mother. Said the old man, son for seven or eight years didn't go home, home was because he owed a lot of workers ' wages, and worker was fellow, home will be urging reconciliation.

Interview with reporters in Hubei, met a man named Li Chaohui boss he is Yang Shenggang of junior high school students, and four of brother-in-law from a Mason contractor, referring to four brother-in-law situation, he felt. "He is earlier than I did, just because the site, what he would have bad luck, at that time, the company does not give you money or you do lose, no one cares. "Said Li Chaohui, working at that time are not guaranteed, and bosses like four brother-in-law in their hometown is not one of the two.

　　Yang Dinghua

　　Characters: Yang Shenggang four elder sisters

At a village in Beijing, reporters saw four sister Yang Shenggang, seven years didn't come home, a family of four, living in two bungalows in monthly rent of 1000 dollars. Four brother-in-law avoided a reporter's interview, only four sister Yang Dinghua from restaurant workers just got off work.

Yang Dinghua said that this decade, because the works have often been the money, while the family looks bright, but money has been snowballing on construction sites, and did not take the money home. Yang Dinghua said that since she is at home with kids, for husband's last bankruptcy details, was not entirely clear. But she said, the family now owed workers wages of hundreds of thousands of, and some loan sharks. Yang Dinghua has three daughters, the eldest daughter had married, two daughters tour guide in Beijing, they have indicated that they want to fall in love get married again for home or money, it makes four elder sisters are anxious.

Accompanied on century 890 of the urbanization process, outstanding works, like an associated cancer, journalists found not incomplete figures: in 1990, the arrears of nearly 3.5 billion yuan in 1995, fierce jump up to 60 billion yuan, by the end of 2003, more than 336 billion yuan. In 2003, the State Council has also specially issued a circular, regulation arrears problems for three years, bitter over unpaid media, and the background. Said Li Chaohui, layers of subcontracting in the construction industry are common, do the project always underwritten, as long as there is a project get the money back, there is potential for loss of assets.

　　Chang Chang

　　Characters: Yang Sheng big brother kids

Nieces of the yellow light was more than 20 years old, but has parents, a yellow light when married to Yang Jia, their teens, although yellow lights niece and nephew Yang Shenggang was hoping to receive a higher education can change your fate, but are unable to do so. Brother sister-in-law, a migrant, two children had been at home with Grandma. "Basically there is no atmosphere of study, anyway, I remember we were reading, and student teachers are often. "Chang Chang said," anyway, no adults at home tubes, rely on grandparents can't control what ... ... Basically does not lecture, sleep, sleep, play cards. ”

Is different from parents, who was born in the countryside, but no juvenile parents experienced hardship, while the parents are away from home, wage earners feel indebted to children, in the material as much as possible to satisfy them. But, parents working outside the plight of children is not known. Chang Chang remembers his father only for his fire. "I seem to be 99 years old at that time, when I say my dad is outside popular every day, drink hot, and then my dad called me, he said to you when you go out you know. ”

Chaotic playing soon at the end of junior high school, and parents because their livelihoods are forced out of work in different, Chang Chang-who is working for the outside world to start of his career. Chang Chang to Hangzhou and Kunshan factories, assembly lines busy and hard to let him unprepared, and limited literacy and even made him unable to cope with the work situation. A few years later, he had to go back to his father's old industries, being a Mason on the construction site. At this point, Chang Chang realized the parents who work hard, but his life has never looked back.

　　Yang Guilin

　　Characters: Yang Shenggang of University students

Yang Guilin has taught in rural middle school for 22 years, in his view, because the conditions are good, level of rural students to study hard now not strong as it once was. Yang Guilin said, now rural economic conditions good of family, more willing to put children sent to city reading, accounted for to students total half above of left children, most lost Yu effective of regulatory, with phone, and network of universal, these children more past more easy in runaway of State, "by of temptation too more has, they indulged Yu phone, Internet cafes also has, they a school run have soon of, I on know is rushed to Internet cafes has. ”

Over the years, rural school facilities have been greatly improved, however, education in rural middle school situation is increasingly alarming. Xiaogan--xiaogan area focuses on high school high school annual examination, for rural middle schools in district policy, based on the proportion of each township middle school admissions quota reduction, but many rural schools are unable to meet these targets.

Most kids finished junior high school, it is ready to go out to work, continue to parent road. However, their less fortunate than parents is that decades of rapid development have slowed down, they worked a few years, was caught in a depressed market. In previous years, the Festival is over, there will be no young people in the village, but this year, most still waiting for foreman's phone at home.

　　Yang Youlin

　　Characters: three-village clerk

March of the jianghan plain, has blooming season to rape, but large tracts of farmland were still barren State. Most young workers to go out to work, even people at home are no longer farming but spent time in the chess room.

Yang Youlin, Secretary of the village described, they are doing now is bring together the arable land in the village, went out of circulation, farmers rent, it was supported above experiment. Reporter in the village to see the transfer agreement, agreement in two copies, one village and farmers signed, one village and sign the General renting period is 30 years. It is said that 80% per cent of the land in the village have been out of circulation, took over the two companies, a cow, a to engage in eco-tourism.

Yang Youlin said that their is because it is near the main road of the village people are willing to invest, the villages that do not rely on the road no one investment, leaving the farmland deserted. Students of Yang Shenggang Li Chaohui is back in the County boss, his ecological park in the construction of phase II is still in full swing.

　　Her mother-in-law

　　Characters: Yang Shenggang mother, mother-in-law of yellow light

Just this past spring, Yang Shenggang for the family, celebration tinged with sadness. As an important family member, amber mother-in-law passed away last year.

Amber said, was her last days she has the urge to write this family, she passed away at the age of 86, amber wrote in the article, her mother's death the strongest bonds crashing the family breaks.

　　Yang Shenggang mother, mother-in-law of yellow light

Amber said, her care home at the death of the four sister hard big brother and more than 10 years in vain. "She felt very sorry for his daughter because her daughter and son-in-law in trouble, she was uncomfortable, but on the other hand, their son, daughter-in-law of wages out of the back, she is uncomfortable, in fact, she is the most uncomfortable. "Amber said.

The home, yellow Lantern Festival as usual to their sister more money, this is what she can do to the family only feedback. When she was leaving when Chang Chang didn't wait until the foreman sent the exact message, while sporadic roadside can see waiting for go figure ... ...

Responsible editor: Chen yan SN225

Article keywords:
Rural wives

I want feedback
Save a Web page

女博士嫁农村当儿媳谈十年经历 网友感叹太真实|农村媳妇_新闻资讯

女博士黄灯

　　女博士嫁到农村当儿媳讲述十年经历 网友惊呼太真实

　　《新闻调查》视频：家在丰三村

　　2016年春节前夕，一篇名为《一个农村儿媳眼中的乡村图景》的文章，在网络上被刷屏，文章以一个农村儿媳的视角，记述了婆家三代人的命运变迁以及所在农村的状况，文章首发的阅读量超过了最高统计10万，之后被大量转发，迅速成为春节期间的一个热议话题。

　　黄灯，就是这篇文章的作者，她是广东一家高校的传媒专业教师。这篇在她自己看来既不是最出色，也不是最尖锐的文章，为何会引起了最火爆的舆论关注？文章记述的是个怎样的家庭？这个家庭又嵌在怎样的一个农村中？3月初，央视《新闻调查》的记者和黄灯夫妇一同回到了位于湖北孝感的老家丰山镇丰三村，通过和这个家庭中的不同人物的接触，来了解文章背后的故事。

　　杨胜刚

　　人物关系：黄灯的丈夫

　　黄灯的老公杨胜刚在这个家庭的七个兄弟姐妹中，排行第六，是唯一一个通过读书跳出农门的孩子，他和黄灯是博士同学，现在在同一所高校教书。每年过年，他们都会辗转千里，回家和亲人团聚。

　　1969年，杨胜刚的父亲英年早逝，留下了妻子和六个孩子。当时的杨胜刚只有1岁，他说，贫困是那个年代农村共有的特征，但较之别人，他们有更深入骨髓的痛楚。因为贫困，年长的几个孩子早早辍学，分担家庭的压力，姐姐们先后嫁人，大哥杨敦武十几岁学会了理发，走村串巷，勉强糊口。

　　只有杨胜刚，从小成绩突出，使得他和哥哥姐姐们有了不同的人生。高中时，杨胜刚考入了省重点孝感高中，他依旧名列前茅，但家庭经济的拮据，使得他像同时代的很多农村学生一样，选择了师范大学，因为那时候上师范，学费低，还有补贴。

　　1993年，家里卖了两头猪，卖得一千块钱都给了杨胜刚，这些钱当时哥哥打一年工都挣不到，那是这个家庭对杨胜刚倾尽全力的支持。

　　2007年，杨胜刚和黄灯结了婚，这不仅开启了黄灯与这个家庭的缘分，也让她开始了对这个农村家庭的观察。只是黄灯发现，自从2008年杨胜刚的大哥和四哥家里出了一些事后，这个原本团结、温馨的家庭氛围就明显改变了。

　　杨敦武

　　人物关系：杨胜刚的大哥

　　丰三村位于江汉平原的北部，一个靠天吃饭的普通农村，改革开放之初，这里的农民就有了外出做泥瓦匠的传统。1993年，在村里干了20年理发的杨敦武，也加入了这个队伍，他已经是村里最后一个外出打工的青壮年。而杨敦武要去的地方，就是在北京承包工程的妹夫(杨胜刚和黄灯的四姐夫)的工地。

　　从1993年到2009年，杨敦武跟着妹夫在北京干了16年，每年除了家里必需的开支，并没有拿回全部的工资，大部分(约十几万元)就存在妹夫那里。然而，这些钱最终却成了泡影。因为，在黄灯眼中一向是家里“有钱人”形象的四姐夫突然破产了。

　　四姐夫

　　人物关系：杨胜刚四姐的丈夫

　　在黄灯的文章中，四姐夫原本是这个家庭中最风光的人，因为四姐夫是当地最早出去做工的一批人。80年代，他出外做泥瓦匠，而带大哥杨敦武出去时，四姐夫已经是一个带工人的包工头了。

　　当时，杨敦武的儿子女儿都已出生，靠田里的收入已无力负担一家老小的支出，在四姐夫的劝说下，杨敦武跟着去了北京的建筑工地，和妻子两人每天负责给工地一百多号工人做饭。

　　四姐夫究竟遇到了怎样的事情，家里并不清楚，因为从2008年破产之后，杨胜刚的四姐一家就再也没有回过老家。因为四姐夫的老家距离黄灯的婆婆家不远，所以记者见到了四姐夫87岁的老母亲。老人说，儿子已经有七八年没怎么回家了，之所以不能回家，是因为欠了不少工人的工钱，而工人都是同乡，回家就会被催账。

　　记者在湖北采访时，遇到了一个叫李朝辉的老板，他是杨胜刚的初中同学，也是和四姐夫一样从泥瓦匠干到包工头，谈及四姐夫的境遇，他也感同身受。“他比我做得都早，只是因为搞工地，他要运气不好的话，在那个年代的话，公司不给你钱或者你做赔了，就没人管。”李朝辉说，那个时候打工都没有保障，而像四姐夫这样的老板，在他们老乡当中也不是一个两个。

　　杨定华

　　人物关系：杨胜刚的四姐

　　在北京的一个城中村，记者见到了杨胜刚的四姐，七年没回家的一家四口，住在月租一千块钱的两间平房里。由于四姐夫回避了记者的采访，家里只有从饭馆儿打工刚下班的四姐杨定华。

　　杨定华说，这几十年来，因为在外做工程经常被压钱，虽然一家人外表看起来光鲜，但钱一直在工地上滚雪球，并没有拿回家的余钱。杨定华说，因为她主要在家带孩子，对于丈夫最后破产的细节，并不十分清楚。但她说，家里现在还拖欠工人工资几十万，还有一部分高利贷。杨定华有三个女儿，大女儿已经出嫁，另外两个女儿在北京做导游，她们都表示要为家里还完钱再谈恋爱嫁人，这让四姐更是心焦。

　　伴随着上世纪八九十年代开始的城市化建设进程，拖欠工程款就像一个伴生的毒瘤，记者查到一些并不不完全的数字：1990年，全国拖欠工程款近35亿元，1995年则猛蹿至600亿元，到2003年底，更是达到了3360亿元。2003年，国务院还曾专门下发通知，用三年的时间整治拖欠工程款的问题，各种惨烈的讨薪新闻，都和这样的背景有关。李朝辉说，建筑业的层层转包是常事，做工程通常又是先行垫资，只要有一次工程款要不回来，就有可能遭遇全部身家的损失。

　　畅畅

　　人物关系：杨胜刚大哥的孩子

　　黄灯的侄子侄女虽然只有20多岁，却都已经为人父母，黄灯嫁来杨家时，他们才十几岁，虽然黄灯和杨胜刚一直希望侄子侄女能够接受更高的教育改变命运，但都未能如愿。哥哥嫂子外出打工时，两个孩子一直跟奶奶在家。“基本上就没有那些学习的气氛，反正我们当时读书我记得，学生打老师是经常的。”畅畅说，“反正在家里没大人管嘛，靠爷爷奶奶有的管不住嘛……基本上不听课，要睡的睡觉，打的打牌。”

　　跟父辈不同的是，他们虽然出生在农村，但是没有再经历父辈困苦的幼年，而父母因为离家打工觉得亏欠孩子，在物质上尽量满足他们。只是，父母在外打工的辛酸，孩子们并不知晓。畅畅还记得爸爸唯一一次对他发的火。“当时我好像有十八九岁的时候，我就说我爸爸在外面天天吃香的，喝辣的，然后我爸爸就骂我，他说你到时候，你出去你就知道了。”

　　混沌的玩乐日子很快在初中毕业就结束了，和父母当初因为生计的逼迫出去打工不同的是，畅畅他们是出于对外面世界的向往开始的打工生涯。畅畅去过杭州、昆山的工厂，流水线上的繁忙和辛苦让他始料未及，而捉襟见肘的文化水平甚至让他无法应付工作中出现的状况。几年之后，他不得不回到他父辈从事的老行业，做一名建筑工地的泥瓦匠。至此，畅畅才体会到父母在外打工的辛苦，可他的人生已经无法回头。

　　杨桂林

　　人物关系：杨胜刚的大学同学

　　杨桂林已经在乡镇中学教了22年的书，在他看来，因为条件好了，现在的农村学生刻苦程度没有原来强了。杨桂林说，现在农村经济条件好的家庭，更愿意把孩子送到城市读书，占到学生总数一半以上的留守孩子，大多失于有效的监管，随着手机、网络的普及，这些孩子较过去更容易处于失控的状态，“受到的诱惑太多了，他们沉迷于手机，网吧也有，他们一放学跑得很快的，我就知道是冲向网吧了。”

　　这些年，农村学校的硬件设施已经有了很大改善，但是，农村中学的升学状况却越来越令人担忧。比如孝感地区的重点高中——孝感高中，每年的中考，对于区内的农村中学实行政策倾斜，依据人口比例给每个乡镇的中学一些降分录取的名额，但很多乡镇中学都接不住这些指标。

　　大部分孩子上完初中，就准备外出打工，继续父辈的路。但是，他们不如父辈幸运的是，几十年的快速建设已经缓慢下来，他们打工没几年，就遇上了不景气的市场。如果在往年，春节一过，村里就没有了年轻人，但在今年，大部分还都在家等着工头的电话。

　　杨幼林

　　人物关系：丰三村村书记

　　3月的江汉平原，已经到了油菜花盛开的时节，但是大片的农田都还是荒芜的状态。村里大部分青壮劳力出外务工，即使是在家的人也不再种地，而是在棋牌室消磨时光。

　　村书记杨幼林介绍，他们现在正在做的就是把村里的耕地集合起来，流转出去，农户收取租金，这是上面支持搞的实验。记者在村里看到了流转协议，协议分两份，一份是村委会和农户签的，一份是村委会和企业签的，一般的出租年限是30年。据说，这个村子80%以上的土地都已经流转出去，接手的是两家企业，一家是养牛，一家要搞生态旅游。

　　杨幼林说，他们的村子是因为靠近大路才有人愿意来投资，那些不靠大路的村庄没人投资，任由农田荒芜。杨胜刚的同学李朝辉就是县里请回来的老板，他的生态园二期还在如火如荼的建设中。

　　婆婆

　　人物关系：杨胜刚的母亲、黄灯的婆婆

　　刚刚过去的这个春节，对于杨胜刚的这个大家庭来说，喜庆中略带悲愁。因为一位重要家庭成员，黄灯的婆婆在去年过世了。

　　黄灯说，是婆婆最后的时光促使她有了书写这个家庭的冲动，婆婆辞世时86岁，黄灯在文中写道，婆婆的去世使这个家庭最牢固的纽带轰然断裂。

　　杨胜刚的母亲、黄灯的婆婆

　　黄灯说，婆婆去世时一直挂念着不能回家的四姐和十几年白白辛劳的大哥。“她一方面为自己的女儿觉得很难过，因为自己的女儿、女婿遇到了麻烦，她心里也难受，但是另外一方面，自己的儿子、儿媳妇的工钱拿不回来，她也难受，其实她才是最难受的。”黄灯说。

　　这次回家，黄灯会照例塞给嫂子些钱，这是她对这个家庭仅能做到的回馈。当她要离开的时候，畅畅还是没有等到工头发出的确切消息，而路边能看到的零星等待出去打工的身影……

责任编辑：陈琰 SN225

文章关键词：
农村媳妇

我要反馈
保存网页