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In June 1983, Wei Yungkang huarong was born in Hunan province, Zeng Xuemei grew up because mother's careful education from the age of two, Wei Yungkang called "Prodigy". 13 scores entered the Department of physics, Xiangtan University, Institute for 17 years and was admitted to the Institute of high energy physics, continuous academic program that involves postgraduate and doctoral study. However, as in the days of "injury Zhong Yong", the Prodigy Wei Yungkang still continue the magic did not grow up. In July 2003, has a 3-year graduate student Wei Yungkang, even got the master's degree, was persuaded by the school.

"I wish he was dead good. "Zeng Xuemei pointing to the Chinese Academy of Sciences building, son jumped," such a good condition do not live up to expectations, you go to hell! ”

Prodigy 13 admitted to the University

Language of what made her mother so unfeeling? Also to back up the story.

In 1978, when the resumption of college entrance examination, many letters from classmates and teachers at home, Zeng Xuemei go back to enroll in the college entrance examination, but at the time, Zeng Xuemei is married. Despite giving up the college entrance examination, but she is learning every day, particularly after the son was born, she started learning methods affect the son.

When Zeng Xuemei Wei Yungkang 1 years 3 months, began to teach him to write, to Wei Yungkang at the age of two, he had learned over more than 1000 characters. "Prodigy" spread. At the age of 4, he completed the junior course, later, Wei Yungkang even elementary school grades only two and six, in October 1991, Wei Yungkang jump ranks as young as 8 years old, entered the County is focused on secondary school.

Starting from 1991, media found in this small town, Hunan province, in the "child prodigy", and reported. "Huarong Prodigy" was further upgraded into "Hunan Prodigy" and "boy genius".

In 1996, 13 year old Wei Yungkang to score 602 admitted to Department of physics, Xiangtan University, becoming the youngest juvenile University students.

High school mothers feeding

Starting from Wei Yungkang 8 high school, Zeng Xuemei began her read along with your life. In 1991, under the secondary school leadership, Zeng Xuemei rented a small house near the school. "IQ" education all the way when the victory, Zeng Xuemei Wei Yungkang "eq" education does not seem to value, or even completely ignored.

In 1994, Zeng Xuemei laid off from department stores, which also makes her more intently focus on the child's body.

In addition to learning, Zeng Xuemei home anything not let Wei Yungkang intervene, even toothpaste to milk every morning, brought sons laundry, meals, bathing, washing, or even to let son eat without delay to read, when Wei Yungkang high school, Zeng Xuemei also fed to him personally. "Only to concentrate on reading, the future will have a bright future."

Wei Yungkang himself once said, my mother always kept him at home and read, never allowed him to go out and play. As long as the girls call him, his mother said he was not at home, fear that dispersing his energies. He has developed the habit of not talking, all my classmates also alienated him.

From primary school to University, Wei Yungkang is Zeng Xuemei single-handedly. "I thought, he will grow up away from me, people are so smart, can learn quickly, did not know he had already become a habit, change is coming. "Zeng Xuemei said.

In September 1996, Wei Yungkang in mother, was escorted to the Xiangtan University. Zeng Xuemei urged to accompany us. Taking into account Wei Yungkang too young, specially arranged school Zeng Xuemei porters to support your family, up to a one-bedroom house available for both free to use. Mothers accompany their children's lives, until Wei Yungkang graduated from college.

Call him when it is persuaded to go to die

In May 2000, the 17-year old Wei Yungkang to score the second exam by the Institute of high energy physics, Shuo Bolen to attend graduate school. From the mother's care, Wei Yungkang "out of control". He completely cannot arrangements himself of learning and life: hot has not know off clothes, big winter not know added clothes, wearing unlined, and walking around the with slippers on to outside run; room not clean, House in stinking of, socks dirty clothes everywhere mess threw; he often a a people Wo in bedroom in reading, is forget has also to participate in exam and wrote graduated papers, for he has a door lessons remember zero points, and didn't wrote graduated papers also eventually let he lost has continues to for Dr of opportunities.

In July 2003, Wei Yungkang even got the master's degree, was persuaded by the school.

"I wish he was dead good. "Zeng Xuemei said that when she came to Beijing after the Chinese Academy of Sciences, pointing to the Chinese Academy of Sciences building, son jumped, pointing to the next to busy roads, let my son was hit by a car. "Such a good condition do not live up to expectations, you go to hell! ”

Zeng Xuemei gnash their teeth to scold father Wei Bingnan scolded her: "pressure is so big, you called him, is stoked! ”

"He has been so disappointing, he goes to die! I have him! "Zeng Xuemei said that since then, she and her son barely communicate.

Creased regret too hard

"I don't blame him, blame my own method of education is too hard, too hard on him. "Zeng Xuemei tears today, she began to regret what he had done, if I had encouraged his son or not scold his son so hard, children are not going to have more problems.

Wei Yungkang had run away from home, the longest for 39 days. Wei Yungkang nearly 500 Yuan, ran 16 provinces successively went to Hangzhou, Ningbo, Zhoushan, Maoming, Zhanjiang, Zhengzhou, Shanghai and other places to play, until the time when he went to play in Yulin, and lost the rest of the money, and ended up penniless.

Finally, police took Wei Yungkang returned to Zeng Xuemei's side.

Mother to the Wei Yungkang run this because, "it was my fault, really is all my fault, he later in the paragraph are my fault, all my fault. I'm so sorry for him. ”

Zeng Xuemei took a look on the living room wall in English, Japanese, told reporters that it was she was taught: "he went abroad in the future, you can instead of a translation, I can give him to do the translation. ”

Past time cannot be turned back, she and her son were never the same. "I speak with, he also had, but thousand million is wrong is my fault."

Wei Yungkang life

In 1995, 12 years old, students Olympic chemistry competition third prize of Hunan province.

In 1995, 12 years old, first prize in the national Physics Olympiad Yueyang Division.

In 1995, 12 years old, Olympic chemistry competition of middle school students in Yueyang, Hunan province, Division first prize.

In 1999, aged 16, commemorating Einstein's 120 anniversary of the birth of Xiangtan University Physics contest competition second prize.

In 2003, Wei Yungkang was dropped out by Chinese Academy of Sciences, have not found the future of "way out", job, after school along the bumpy road.

In October 2005, after a space research institutions in Shanghai know Wei Yungkang, invited him to go to work, because life "not used", he quit his job. Since then, Wei Yungkang in Shenzhen, Nanjing and other work, before he was removed in the process of applying for the job, he had participated in the Beijing University of technology of bio-Physics graduate, but in the end did not take place. At present, Wei Yungkang has 4 years working in a company engaged in software development.

Continuing education of grandchildren

This year, Zeng Xuemei is 63 years old, husband, Wei Bingnan, died in 2009. Son Wei Yungkang experienced school failure, has been working for almost 4 years. Each month, Wei Yungkang to Zeng Xuemei make a phone call, but the conversation was very brief and formal, "how? "" Rest assured! "" Take care of it! "Over and over again is that a few words.

"I'm afraid someone would ask me: ' How do you Jia Kang? ' "Zeng Xuemei said, whenever she heard somebody ask her, she will avoid answering directly to find an excuse to leave.

In 2010, after Wei Yungkang married and had children, half the time of the year, had lived in Shaoyang, Hunan province, this is her home, and daughter-in-law of the family.

"I want to take over the granddaughter, I teach her. "Zeng Xuemei said grandson now six years old, and granddaughter is already two years old, she will focus more on the grandsons and granddaughters, who.

In front of the grandsons and granddaughters, Zeng Xuemei prohibited mention of a Word, is "your dad was your age has been ... ... and" grandson, granddaughter of childhood compared with his son's childhood, it is absolutely not allowed. She had to negotiate with daughter-in-law, her grandson to teach culture, while his wife taught him life skills, doing things. But the "experimental" results were not satisfactory.

"Every time his son home, see grandchildren toys and more, and taught has been forgotten before the half. "Zeng Xuemei said daughter-in-law" wanted to give the children a happy childhood, "urging, her grandson only your education can be interspersed in the" game ".

In 2000 after Wei Yungkang to Beijing, Zeng Xuemei also taught a colleague's children, although only taught more than a year, but also after the child was admitted to the national key University.

But after the son dropped out, she began to rethink the way of educating children. "I have written a parenting book, published when you also want to be able to graduate in Yongkang, has written over thirty thousand or forty thousand words at that time. "Zeng Xuemei said her son after dropping out, she was so angry and tore all the book her.

According to the Guangzhou daily

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17岁神童考入中科院被劝退 不会穿衣忘记考试|神童|中科院_新闻资讯

　　原标题：17岁神童考入中科院却退学

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　　1983年6月，魏永康出生于湖南省华容县，因为母亲曾学梅从小的悉心教育，从两岁起，魏永康就被人称为“神童”。13岁以高分考入湘潭大学物理系，17岁又考入中科院高能物理研究所，硕博连读。但像古时“伤仲永”一样，神童魏永康并没有在长大后依旧延续神奇。2003年7月，已经读了3年研究生的魏永康，连硕士学位都没拿到，就被学校劝退了。

　　“我当时恨不得他死了才好。”曾学梅指着中科院的大楼，让儿子跳楼，“这么好的条件不争气，你去死！”

　　神童13岁考入大学

　　是什么让母亲讲出如此绝情之语？故事还要从头说起。

　　1978年恢复高考时，许多家乡的同学、老师都来信，让曾雪梅回去报名参加高考，但那时，曾学梅已经结婚。尽管放弃高考，但她还是坚持每天学习，特别是在儿子出生之后，她开始用自己的学习方法影响儿子。

　　曾雪梅在魏永康1岁3个月时，就开始教他写字，到了魏永康两岁时，他已经能够掌握1000多个汉字。“神童”的称呼就此传开。4岁时，他基本学完了初中阶段的课程，后来，魏永康连小学也只读了二年级和六年级，到1991年10月，年仅8岁的魏永康连跳几级，进入县属重点中学读书。

　　也是从1991年开始，湖南省内的媒体发现了这个小县城中的“神童”，并进行了报道。“华容神童”进一步升级成了“湖南神童”、“天才少年”。

　　1996年，13岁的魏永康以总分602分考进湘潭大学物理系，成为当地年纪最小的少年大学生。

　　高中时母亲还喂饭

　　从魏永康8岁上中学开始，曾学梅就开始了她的陪读人生。1991年，在中学领导的安排下，曾学梅在学校附近租了一所小房子。在“智商”教育一路凯歌之时，曾学梅对魏永康的“情商”教育似乎并不怎么看重，甚至完全忽视了。

　　1994年，曾学梅从百货公司下岗，这也让她更加专注地将精力放在了孩子的身上。

　　除了学习，家里任何事情曾学梅都不让魏永康插手，每天早晨连牙膏都要挤好，给儿子洗衣服、端饭、洗澡、洗脸，甚至为了让儿子在吃饭的时候不耽误看书，魏永康读高中的时候，曾学梅还亲自给他喂饭。“只有专心读书，将来才会有出息”。

　　魏永康自己曾说，小时候妈妈总是把他关在家里看书，从不允许他出去玩。只要有女生打电话给他，他妈妈都说他不在家，担心分散他的精力。因此他养成了不爱说话的习惯，周围的同学也渐渐疏远了他。

　　从小学到大学，魏永康的生活都是曾学梅一手包办。“我心想，他将来长大离开我，人这么聪明，很快就能学会的，不晓得他已经形成习惯，改不过来了。”曾学梅说。

　　1996年9月，魏永康在妈妈的陪同下来到湘潭大学。曾学梅强烈要求陪读。考虑到魏永康年纪确实太小，学校特地安排曾学梅做勤杂工补贴家用，还划拨了一套一室一厅的住房供他们母子无偿使用。母亲陪读的生活，一直持续到魏永康大学毕业。

　　被劝退时喊他去死

　　2000年5月，17岁的魏永康以总分第二的成绩考进中国科学院高能物理所，成为硕博连读研究生。脱离了母亲的照顾后，魏永康“失控”了。他完全无法安排自己的学习和生活：热了不知道脱衣服，大冬天不知道加衣服，穿着单衣、趿着拖鞋就往外跑；房间不打扫，屋子里臭烘烘的，袜子脏衣服到处乱扔；他经常一个人窝在寝室里看书，却忘了还要参加考试和撰写毕业论文，为此他有一门功课记零分，而没写毕业论文也最终让他失去了继续攻读博士的机会。

　　2003年7月，魏永康连硕士学位都没拿到，就被学校劝退了。

　　“我当时恨不得他死了才好。”曾学梅说，当她来到北京的中科院后，指着中科院的大楼，让儿子跳楼，还指着旁边车水马龙的道路，让儿子去被车撞死。“这么好的条件不争气，你去死！”

　　曾学梅咬牙切齿地骂，父亲魏炳南则骂她：“孩子压力已经那么大了，你还这么骂他，是火上浇油！”

　　“他都这么不争气了，他去死！我还管他！”曾学梅说，自此之后，她和儿子几乎不怎么交流了。

　　老泪纵横后悔太狠

　　“我不怪他，只怪我自己的教育方法太狠了，对他也太狠了。”如今的曾学梅老泪纵横，她开始后悔自己的所作所为，如果当时能够鼓励儿子，或者不骂儿子那么狠，孩子也不会出现更多的问题。

　　魏永康离家出走了，最长的一次整整39天。魏永康用了近500元钱，跑了16个省市，先后去了杭州、宁波、舟山、上海、郑州、茂名、湛江等地玩，待到他去玉林玩时，把剩下的钱弄丢了，落了个身无分文的境地。

　　最后，还是警察将魏永康带回到了曾学梅的身边。

　　魏永康的这次出走正是因为挨了母亲的打，“是我的错，真的全部是我的错，他后面的这一段错都在我，全部都是我的错。我真是太对不起他了。”

　　曾学梅看了看客厅墙壁上的英语、日语，告诉记者，这是她当年自学的：“将来他出国了，就可以不用带翻译，我都能给他做翻译了。”

　　过去的时光却不能倒转，她和儿子再也不能像以前一样了。“我有心结，他也有，但千错万错还是我的错”。

　　魏永康的人生轨迹

　　●1995年，12岁，湖南省中学生奥林匹克化学竞赛三等奖。

　　●1995年，12岁，全国中学生物理竞赛岳阳赛区一等奖。

　　●1995年，12岁，湖南省中学生奥林匹克化学竞赛岳阳赛区一等奖。

　　●1999年，16岁，湘潭大学纪念爱因斯坦诞辰120周年物理知识抢答竞赛二等奖。

　　●从2003年，魏永康被中科院退学后，始终都没有找到未来的“出路”，之后的求职、求学之路则一路坎坷。

　　●2005年10月，上海一家航天研究机构知道魏永康的情况后，邀请他去上班，由于生活的“不适应”，他辞去工作。此后，魏永康曾在深圳、南京等地工作，在他辗转求职的过程中，他还曾参加过北京工业大学生物物理专业的研究生考试，但最后没有成行。目前，魏永康已在一家公司从事软件开发工作4年。

　　继续教育孙子孙女

　　今年，曾学梅已经63岁，丈夫魏炳南也在2009年去世。而儿子魏永康在经历了几次求学失败，已经工作了近4年时间。每个月，魏永康会给曾学梅打一个电话，但谈话的内容却异常简短而且形式化，“怎么样？”“放心呀！”“保重呀！”基本上翻来覆去就是这几句话。

　　“我现在最怕别人问我：‘你家永康怎么样了？’”曾学梅说，每当她听到别人这么问她，她都会避而不答，直接找理由离开。

　　2010年，魏永康结婚生子后，一年里一半的时间，曾学梅生活在湖南邵阳，这是她的娘家，也是儿媳的娘家。

　　“我想着把孙女接过来，我来教育她。”曾学梅说，孙子现在已经六岁，孙女也已经两岁，她将生活的重心更多地放在了孙子、孙女身上。

　　在孙子、孙女面前，曾学梅被禁止提及的一句话，就是“你爸爸在你这个岁数，已经……”将孙子、孙女的童年与儿子的童年作对比，是绝对不允许的。她曾经与儿媳商议，她来教孙子文化知识，而儿媳教他生活能力、做人做事。但“实验”的效果却并不理想。

　　“每次到儿子家，就看到孙子的玩具又多了，而之前教的东西已忘了一半。”曾学梅说，在儿媳“想给孩子一个快乐的童年”的强烈要求下，她只能将自己的教育穿插在孙子的“游戏”之间。

　　在2000年魏永康到北京上学后，曾学梅还专门教过一个同事的孩子，尽管只教了一年多时间，但是那个孩子之后也高分考入了全国重点大学。

　　但当儿子退学之后，她也开始反思教育孩子的方式。“我曾经写过一本教育孩子的书，还希望能够在永康毕业的时候发表，当时已经写了三四万字。”曾学梅说，在儿子退学后，她一气之下，将她写的那本书全都撕了。

　　据《广州日报》

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