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Dating for beginners for brothers, a problem always also don't understand is, why do I like the girl, so nice to her, what requirements are agreed, she don't like me, even to me?
Girls did wrong?
Girl good itself and there's nothing wrong, wrong is your good there is no bottom line, no request for girls.
A lot of people liked a girl, especially after the sister as her true destiny, blind to the girl, even a girl to her poor attitude, which is what we often say "kneeling licking."
Kneeling licking this "great and selfless" devotion in the girl is actually "harbour ill intent" I told you so horrible you flatter me, not what another attempt?
If this process in the you can performance of polite, is has gentleman grace, completely no needs sense, that girl may also will think you is good of, after all you on she so good, development about relationship also not not can, however many when, on sister kneeling licking of people is didn't approach control himself of needs sense of, often will on sister a face wretched even Bull, then, sister natural on think you is to and she bed only on she good.
Kneeling licking is actually worth a drop behavior because he actively becomes a completely equal relationship game dominated by girls.
In this game, you can get there girls decided, while the girls ask you to meet all, or it is likely to lose the girl to you only that "goodwill".
Many will kneel and lick to pursue girls, not the way they were born so "nasty", but our generation is the lack of love education, your parents won't tell you, because their generation is a matchmaker, your friends can't tell you, because they are chasing girls summed up "the girls".
Emotional bloggers love secret code on the network are not, their so-called love story is more marketing stories, not real experience. So they are the woman in the story is always simple kindness, slag also met several men and meet men.
Some popular of emotional quotes more is taught people how to "kneeling licking", like "If girl took two article skirt to to asked which a article more beautiful, you will put two article are buy down, a article to she, and another a article Dang gift", what "world Shang nothing girl is a package package cannot coax happy of, if has, that on two a" "coax girl happy will buy buy buy".
Girls are not like a man who kneels to lick her all day, even if the man was not bad.
Kneeling licking make a woman feel like she is your first class, you don't deserve her, this feeling will gradually deepen as you treat her well, and her attitude more and your attitude is getting lower, infinite loop ... ...
Some people will say, local keeping young kneeling licking, what to give, how to get girls. Wrong in keeping relationships take the initiative is local, he is lower profile, but at any time you can go keeping another, he pays, is far greater than their sister their own value.
As a person who studies dating, the first step we need to do is control your needs, never to kneel to lick girl you care for girls is meaningful.
So, how should I do it?
Following stories, you must be familiar.
Angge was not like today can get 4 girlfriends for two days, but has been changed to other spare tires!
When the University like a sister and rival appears, but I win, and fellow with the same professional, be play full, who at that time were not claimed until she broke up long-distance boyfriend cheating. She secretly to find a boyfriend at that time intended to send a surprise, it was found by her boyfriend sent a Green Hat. Cried back, I received a phone call in high spirits came out on a date to comfort, looks calm heart clip-~ ~ happy riding.
Sitting in the school's small lake, man heard her bemoan the slag all after the discovery and how to seduce sister shameless cheat before she finished I provoked indignation of the interrupt and the former curse, she swans out of the arms of the Toad, or the consequences could be disastrous. Called out in one breath, found her complaining about the tears stopped hanging in the face, looked at me in silence, then suddenly a jump into my arms, so hold me ... On the way back to the dorm that night, footsteps almost bouncing jumping deer.
Summary inside, two near-perfect: first, his eloquence, men and all bemoan the slag, and properly grasp, "good cabbage is pig arch" this sentence slipped back to his lips and lives swallowed. Second, rock solid, she jumped into my arms became by her holding me still, I do not be tired say some comforting words, perfect can be called contemporary satyrs.
Night reception ahead of the celebration, the hostel brothers drink drunk! Old port wine sloshing, said angge, you believe it or not, the next time I saw her, called her sister-in-law! Brothers also booing, I said no, no, no, heart happy flowers!
At noon the next day, has not completely awake sat stunned and old a rushed in and shouted: angge, angge, grandson succeeded!!!
I'm confused to ask: huh??Grandson get what???Old a said: grandchildren and sister together, hand in hand to the dining room, still talking and laughing!!! Bedroom say slot ~ ~~ before I began to spit wine, whoa, are filled with tears!
Through a pervasive network later learned, as we sing about wine that night, sister about a rival in search of comfort. Still Lake, bemoan the former all, scum, chatter, tears, flowers! When the girl finally stopped, puzzled look rivals said: you couldn't comfort me a sentence!??Rival watching sister's eyes and said, I'm sorry, I didn't catch, do you cry are so charming? Painting a turn, girls hate and then bowed his head shyly. Rival says: don't be shy, I'm afraid I'd be tempted to kiss you! Finish, TM actually came my sister, kiss it!!!
"Why?" "Is that some time in the dorm was saying the words, finally brothers summed up the sister is sick, slag born male, for one another. Until then fought many battles, at home I didn't know girls love slag male, men to never fall in love with frustration!
When you feel good, feel into a woman inside, away from the nice guy card fell on your face is not far away. General symptom is that: you are talking about her sad past, bored family members or her insane predecessor. Either this girl in my life is xianglin, who babble incessantly, turns out that almost every woman has this feature. But if you're not put to her, that's what you do on the comfort set up a bit over the top, might have washed off his previously established to attract.
It seems that nice guy has not been loved! We have to change positions to do her!
First step: do good old
Is no longer available for free listening, understanding, and support services. You are not her father, nor her girlfriends, let alone her therapist! All you have to do, she male, women hear female ticket is as it should be, but this is moving things in the category of, girls like you more is the category thing. Empathy, Feng wake you up everyday putting you to sleep feed you enough to eat here, but none of the long legs ass big breasted women more effective. So, refused to do good old Millennium spare tire does not start!
The second step: dare to break the comfort
When you have or are about to become a fallback, to have the courage to break the situation.
So to speak: "if we go on this topic, I will charge you 500 counseling fees. Cash or card? "Or" today for a place to talk and drink dessert eat pizza I would be more careful. "In addition," you can not talk about these things, the female friends? Do you want me to be your girlfriend? "To let her know you today is a clear gesture to host!
The third step: switch to the flirting stage
Compared to the first two steps, this step is real man dares to do.?Advertising does not have to moonlight or dormitory, also does not have to say: "I love you, my girlfriend, OK? ”
Rival like I used to. Without saying a Word, but love and a little slut at her, and she finally finished complaining, you said, "excuse me, you are so hot, I didn't hear you, because looking at your m lips want to kiss you. ”
Also, when she denounced his predecessor, he said: "damn, next time you see him cutting off penises! Not to mention him! I picked him up the following classes! "And then a hug her, deep and name!
As sister sister's eyes, you can also suddenly pulled her hand when she talked, soulful says: "well girlfriends, I think friendship sublimate our revolution! ”
Finally, you need to keep in mind: do this, don't afraid of friendship, said the boat turned over, if she doesn't like and romantic journey you might as well find out now!
假期约会教程：你这样追妹子、汉子，注定没戏 - 约会,恋爱 - IT资讯
对于初学约会学的兄弟来说，一个始终也想不明白的问题就是，为什么我这么喜欢那个女孩、对她这么好、什么要求都答应，她还是不喜欢我，甚至对我不屑一顾？
难道对女孩好有错？
对女孩好这件事本身并没有什么错，错的是你对女孩的好没有底线、没有要求。
很多人喜欢上一个姑娘，尤其是把这个妹子当作自己的真命天女之后，会盲目的去对这个女孩好，哪怕这个女孩对她态度很差，这就是我们常说的“跪舔”。
跪舔这种“无私而伟大”的奉献在女孩看来其实就是“包藏祸心”，我对你态度这么差你还这么恭维我，不是另有图谋是什么？
如果这个过程中你能表现的彬彬有礼，很有绅士风度，完全没有需求感，那女孩可能还会觉得你挺不错的，毕竟你对她这么好，发展一下关系也不是不可以，然而很多时候，对妹子跪舔的人是没办法控制自己的需求感的，经常会对妹子一脸猥琐甚至毛手毛脚，这时候，妹子自然就觉得你是为了和她上床才对她好。
跪舔其实是一种自降身价的行为，因为他主动地把一段平等的恋爱关系变成了一个完全由女孩主导的游戏。
在这个游戏里，你能得到什么完全有女孩决定，而女孩的要求你却要全部满足，不然就很可能失去女孩对你仅有的那一点“好感”。
很多人会用跪舔的方式来追求女孩其实不是他们天生就这么“卑贱”，而是我们这一代人是缺乏恋爱教育的，你的父母不会告诉你，因为他们那一代人还是媒妁之言；你们朋友无法告诉你，因为他们追女孩的方法总结起来就是“对女孩好”。
网络上情感博主的恋爱秘典更是信不得，她们所谓的恋爱故事更多的是营销故事，而不是真实的经历。所以她们故事里的女主永远是单纯善良，还要遇上几个渣男，然后再遇见男主。
一些流行的情感语录更是教人如何去“跪舔”，比如“如果女孩儿拿两条裙子来给问哪一条更漂亮，你就要把两条都买下来，一条送给她、另一条当礼物”，更有甚者“世界上没什么女孩是一个包包不能哄开心的，如果有，那就两个”“哄女孩开心就要买买买”。
女孩是不会喜欢一个整天跪舔她的男人的，就算这个男人原本也不差。
因为跪舔让女人觉得她高你一等，你配不上她，这种感觉会随着你对她的好逐渐加深，她的姿态越来越高而你的姿态越来越低，无限循环……
有的人会说，土豪包养嫩模也是跪舔啊，要什么给什么，怎么就能搞定妹子。其实错了，在包养关系里占据主动的其实是土豪，他虽然姿态低，但随时可以再去包养另一个，他付出的，是远高于妹子自身的价值。
作为一个学习约会学的人，我们要做的第一步就是控制住自己的需求感，决不去跪舔妹子，这样你对妹子的关爱才是有意义的。
那么，具体该怎么做呢？
下面讲的故事，你一定似曾相识。
当时的昂哥并不像今天一样能两天搞定4个女朋友，而是一直换着给别人做备胎！
大学时候喜欢上一个妹子，情敌出现了，不过我胜算满满，同乡加上同专业，算是戏份足足的，可当时谁都没戏，直到妹子异地男友劈腿分手。那时她偷偷去找男友意图送个惊喜，结果发现被男友送了顶绿帽子。痛哭流涕的回来，我接到电话兴高采烈的出来赴约安慰，外表平静内心嘚~驾~的开心。
坐在学校的小湖边，听她痛陈渣男的种种不是以及如何勾搭别的妹子被发现后无耻劈腿，没等她说完我便激愤填膺的插断并对前任咒骂不已，说她这只天鹅幸好及时脱离了癞蛤蟆的怀抱，不然后果不堪设想。一口气骂完，发现她不再抱怨泪也停了挂在脸上，静静的望着我，然后突然一把扑进我怀里，就这么抱着我。。。当晚在回宿舍的路上，那脚步近乎是一蹦一跳的小鹿。
内心总结，两点近乎完美：第一，自己的口才，痛陈渣男种种不是，却又把握得当，“好白菜都被猪拱了”这句话溜到嘴边又生生咽了回来。第二，坚若磐石，妹子扑进我怀里后任由她抱着我不动，我却不急不躁的说些安慰话语，坐怀不乱堪称当代柳下惠。
次晚就把庆祝宴提前开了，宿舍兄弟喝的酩酊大醉！老A端着酒杯晃荡，说：昂哥，你信不信，下次，我见她就叫她嫂子！兄弟们也跟着起哄，我嘴上说着别别别，心里乐开了花！
第二天中午，酒没完全醒坐在床沿发愣，老A冲进来大喊：昂哥，昂哥，那孙子得手啦！！！
我迷糊着问：唔？孙子得手什么啦？ 老A说：孙子和嫂子在一起啦，手牵手去的食堂，还有说有笑的！！！ 卧~~还没等说出槽~我就开始吐酒，哇哇哇，满含眼泪！
后来通过老A无孔不入的人脉了解到，就在我们对酒高歌那晚，妹子也把情敌约了出来寻找安慰。依旧是学校湖边，痛陈前任的种种不是、人渣作为，喋喋不休，眼泪花花！当妹子终于停下来，疑惑的看着情敌说：你怎么也不安慰我一句啊！？情敌看着妹子的眼睛，说：不好意思，刚才我没听清楚，你连哭都这么迷人吗？ 画风一转，妹子一声讨厌然后害羞的低下头。情敌说：别这么害羞，我怕我会忍不住吻你！说完，TM的居然真把妹子拉了过来，给吻啦！！！
“为什么？”是那一段时间在我们宿舍被念叨最多的话，最后兄弟们总结出来这个妹子有病，天生爱渣男，换一个又一个。直到后来身经百战，如鱼得水我才知道妹子即使爱上渣男，也不会爱上挫男！
当你们也感觉良好，觉得走入女人内心时，离好人卡啪的摔你脸上已不远。一般的症状是这样：拉你出来多是讲她伤心的过去、无聊的家人或者她扯淡的前任。要么这妞上辈子是祥林嫂，见人絮叨个不停，事实证明几乎所有女人都有这一特性。但如果发生在你还没把到她前，那就是你在舒适感建立上做得有点过头了，很可能已经洗掉了自己先前建立的吸引。
看来，老好人已经不被人爱！我们必须换个姿势才能干住她！
第一步：不做老好人
不再提供免费的倾听，理解，支持服务。你不是她的爸爸，也不是她的闺蜜，更不是她的心理医生！你要做的是她男票，听女票唠叨对女票好是应该的，但是这是感动范畴的事情，妹子喜欢上你更多是心动范畴的事。换位思考，凤姐天天叫你起床哄你睡觉喂你吃饭够感动吧，但没有一个长腿翘臀大胸妹子来的更心动有效。所以，拒绝千年备胎从不做老好人开始！
第二步：敢于打破舒适感
当你已经或即将沦为备胎，要勇于打破这种局面。
可以这么说：“如果我们再继续这个话题，我就要收你500块的心理咨询费了。现金还是刷卡？” 或是“今天换个地儿倾诉吧，喝着甜品吃着披萨我听的会比较认真。” 再者“你没有可以谈这些东西的女性朋友吗？你是想把我变成你的女朋友吗？”让她知道，你今天是摆明了姿势要上位！
第三步：切换到调情阶段
比起前两步，这一步是真男人才敢做的。告白并非一定要花前月下或宿舍楼下，也并非必须说：“我喜欢你，做我女朋友好不好？ ”
可以像我曾经的情敌一样。一句不吭，而是深情又有点花痴的看着她，在她终于发完牢骚，你才开口：“不好意思，你太迷人了，我刚才没听清，因为看着你的M唇就只想吻你了。”
也可以，在她痛斥前任的时候说：“这混蛋，下次见他非把小鸡鸡割掉！不提他啦！下面由我接他的班啦！”然后一把搂住她，深藏功与名！
那作为妹子眼中的好姐妹，你还可以在她喋喋不休的时候突然拉过她的手，深情款款的说：“好闺蜜，我想把咱们的革命友谊升华一下！”
最后一点，需要你万分谨记：做了这些，不要怕友谊的小船说翻就翻，如果她不愿意和你浪漫的启程还不如现在就弄翻！