People's daily: College students ' drinking culture tainted fashion-school students, social networking-IT information
Dinner, drinks, has become part of the social life of many college students. Recently, a survey of 460 college students-oriented, 30% party respondents rate up more than twice a week, last 40% party social spending accounted for more than 30% of living, there more than 1 month has more than 20 dinner.
Class together, roommates together, social reunions, fellow, award-winning ju even got poor grants to get ... ... Survey shows that nearly 60% students Although reluctant, but received a dinner invitation will go, a wish to know who is afraid of being that the second alternative. Fan and really easy ' trappings. For children from low-income families, dinner networking itself is a burden. Occasional, moderate entertainment and communication, inevitable; learn some basic manners, avoid entering the job market after graduation joke, is understandable. But if deep, difficult to extricate themselves, become a phenomenon, culture, is on the alert, must be changed .
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In an era of Open University is not an ivory tower. Table of communication of the University campus, to a large extent, entertainment culture reflected in the community. And such a social dinner, wine table, only a refraction of campus fashion. Prior to that, competition for resources about University students ' Union elections, community chaos reports, also makes people apprehensive. Objectively speaking, University students are already mature, College is a small community. But value in thinking is not mature, not frozen when they are likely to be influenced by social, that "secular" and "vulgar" is "Flash" is a "mixed community", regarded as "mainstream", and to "make progress", but let the youth get a deep apathy.
College students are still proud of the times, is still ahead in the fashion crowd. So that's more healthy way, to cleanse "drink VAT" the influence of n, construct more interesting and meaningful social culture . Without superstition "smoked drunk is the lubricant of friendship", youth has its own open: for keen on this campus, "oil", it should be at arm's length; this game of role, be more to say "no".
Whether it is schools, teachers or community, can in fact be a better way to build a student's social life. In College, many fun, nutrition communication: salon, coffee shop business seminar at the weekend, online book clubs, campus English corner, club activities, and even playground on the lawn of the guitar song outdoor climbing, bike riding, team ... ... These should become a social life at the University of memories, not a drunk night can't afford it.
The youth, there is something more to look forward to. Young eventually is to be out of school, into the community. As comrade Mao Zedong said, they are eight or nine o'clock in the morning sun. "New young" can inject vitality into one unit, brought a new culture, a new culture . This young, healthy and positive culture can continue to introduce social, society for new. If still tied into society was the table badly, alcohol foam through and get into "little drunk" and "socialite", ends up a set, does one one moment, how can we hope that youth make the community more spirited?
Changing culture, culture without being arbitrarily changed. In fact, "no dinner, no social", not just some habits of college students. Marx famously said: friendship needs loyalty to sow seeds, use warm water, using the principle to develop, with the understanding to care. This is the "people, relationships and connections" social nature – sincere, understanding, health, confidence and enthusiasm as a core concept, shape and more healthy, more positive social culture, make this community better to form a bond between man and man, this also relates to the responsibility of contemporary college students and the mission.
人民日报：大学生酒桌文化玷污校园风尚 - 大学生,社交 - IT资讯
聚餐、喝酒，已成为不少大学生社交生活的一部分。近日，一个面向460位大学生的调查显示，三成受访者聚会频率达每周两次以上，近四成聚会社交的开销占生活费比例超过30%，竟有人1个月有20多个饭局。
班级聚、舍友聚、社团聚、老乡聚、获奖聚，甚至连领到贫困助学金也要聚……调查显示，近六成的学生虽然心里不情愿，但接到聚餐邀请还是会去，一是想多认识人，二是担心被人说另类。流风所及，确实容易风行草偃。而对低收入家庭的孩子而言，聚餐社交本身就是负担。偶然、适度的应酬与交际，在所难免；了解一些基本礼仪，避免毕业后进入职场闹笑话，也无可厚非。但如果深陷其中、难以自拔，成为现象、文化，则就该警惕、须改变了。
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在一个开放的时代，大学已不是象牙塔。大学校园的饭桌交际，在很大程度上也是社会上应酬文化的折射。而这样的饭局交往、酒桌社交，也只是大学校园风尚的一个折射。此前，关于大学学生会选举、社团争夺资源乱象的报道，也让人心惊。客观上，大学生已经成熟，大学也是一个小社会。但在思想还未成熟、价值还未定型之时，他们也容易被社会风气所影响，认为“世俗化”“庸俗化”就是“灵光”，就是“能混社会”，视之为“主流”、以之为“上进”，反倒让青春沾染上沉沉暮气。
大学生仍是时代的骄子，仍是走在时代风尚前列的人群。正因此，更可以用健康向上的社交方式，来涤荡“吃喝酱缸”的熏陶渐染，建构更有意思也更有意义的社交文化。不用迷信“烟熏酒醉才是友谊的润滑剂”，青春有自己的打开方式：对于热衷于此的校园“官油子”，应该敬而远之；对于这套游戏规则的浸染，可以更多地说“不”。
不管是学校、教师还是社团，其实都可以有更好的方式来构建学生的社交生活。在大学里，有趣、有营养的交际其实很多：周末学术沙龙、咖啡馆创业交流会、线下读书会、校园外语角、各种社团活动，甚至操场草坪上的吉他歌会、自行车骑行、团队户外爬山……这些才应该成为大学社交生活的美好回忆，而不是一个个夜晚的沉醉不起。
青春，有更值得期待的东西。年轻人终究是要走出校园、走向社会的。正如毛泽东同志所说，他们是早晨八九点钟的太阳。“新来的年轻人”可以给一个单位注入活力，带来新的文化、新的风气。这样的年轻人多了，健康向上的文化就能不断引入社会，社会才会为之一新。如果还没入社会就被饭桌捆得死死的、被酒精泡得透透的，变成“小酒鬼”“交际花”，端起酒杯一套一套的、做起事来一愣一愣的，我们又如何寄希望于青春令社会更加昂扬？
改变风气，而不被风气肆意地改变。其实，“无聚餐、不社交”，并不只是一些大学生的习气。马克思有句名言：友谊需要用忠诚去播种，用热情去浇灌，用原则去培养，用谅解去护理。这才是“人、关系与连接”的社交本质——以真诚、理解、健康、信任与热情作为核心理念，塑造并输出更健康、更向上的社交文化，让这个社会更好地形成人与人之间的联结，这同样关乎当代大学生的责任与使命。