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Nanning citizens Mr Tang's daughter is 10 years old, at the weekend took his cell phone to play for a while. Recently Mr Tang has no intention to look stunned after daughter QQ groups chat: send daughter to share a special yellow video QQ Group, felt the seriousness of Mr Tang to inform the school and called the police. What, then, do not give their children using a mobile phone? How to monitor and guide their children to use cell phones? To solve these problems, the reporter visited the school, interviewed parents, obtained a number of observations and recommendations, we may as well take a look at--
Phenomenon: 20 pupils and 16 regular cell phones
May 13 noon time for primary school students using cell phones, the reporters came to Nanning, an elementary school in the district, has interviewed 20 1-6 grade pupil. 16 people said they often play home phones and tablets, 4 were said rarely play phone, but occasionally MOM and Dad's cell phone Internet access see information class QQ Group.
Often use mobile phones 16 pupils said that every time you play depends on whether the parents are free phone time. Sophomore Hao said that if the mother is at home, he can play for an hour or so, if MOM is not at home, he "liberated", holding a cell phone how to play how to play. Hao said, usually using a mobile phone is mainly with classmates for a section called "my world" game.
Senior Liz told reporters that because the dad works hard, my mother often travel, usually only the grandmother, her. If she was lying on the bed or on the sofa play phone, being criticized by the grandmother. My father allowed her to play for more than an hour at a time, if too long, cell phones will be confiscated, may be fined for three or four days using a mobile phone. Liss said, the class class is home playing with his mobile phone, mainly playing games and watching variety shows video.
Survey: elementary school banned students from bringing cell phones into schools
Xinhua learned from the Education Bureau in Nanning city, the Board did not expressly prohibit students with mobile phones into campus, provided by the schools themselves whether or not to allow this kind of behavior.
, Nanning city, clear chuan primary school of one moral teacher told reporter, school not allows students with and learning not related of items, and food until school, the class class requirements students cannot with phone to school, but individual high grade students because himself sat bus Shang school, parents consider to security problem will to children with Shang phone, but these students once into classroom, will put hand organ machine, and received up, some students also please teacher on behalf of custody, school only took back.
Nanning Kimitake primary school (West primary school) teacher told reporters, usually do not allow students to bring mobile phones to school, came home students can use mobile phones, supervision by the parents. Jiangnan district, Nanning city, Provence, primary school teacher said, usually do not allow students to bring mobile phones to school, there is urgent need to contact parents of students can be received through free phone.
Discussion: the parents of young children to use mobile phones there are countermeasures
Since school let students bring mobile phones to school, so parental supervision for children using mobile phones is very important. When in an interview with reporters, parents to children should use cell phones how to use mobile phones to a lively discussion of.
Views: cell phones can affect and interfere with learning, do not use
Grade five of primary school on Chang (not his real name) there is a dad "elimination" of old phones, but when the cell phone was later father "confiscation". "Attitudes to children using mobile phones before I was very enlightened, I gave him a I use old smartphones, hoping to encourage him to study hard. However, I later found out that he often plays in the room phone, increasing amount of homework time, time to sleep late, I worried that he was addicted to playing, simply would not let him. "Huang's father said the children's self-control is not enough, do not intend to give him continue to use the phone.
Ms Wong of the public believes that games on mobile phones nowadays children induced by consumption of too many items, also with some fraud information, children have no sense, it is easy to point into the lead cheated. "I have children with mobile phones, one day it took me over more than 800 Yuan, to buy game items. "She said, since after all, they didn't give their children cell phones.
"Kids use mobile phones, 100% affect a child's learning. A few messages back and forth in the evening, efficiency will be greatly reduced. If the class always think about mobile gaming content, and can seriously affect the class results. "People Po argued that children's main task is to study, and is in an important phase of growth and development, cell phone abuse too much, in case of children among them, will bring a great deal of harm, or even changes children's fate.
Point two: mobile phones have spread, not out
Some parents believe that mobile phone has long been popular, penetration is also high in the primary and middle school students, simply prohibited, but let children detached from reality, and exchange students do not have a common language.
Public Wei Zhiguang had two children, a 7-year old and a 16 year old. Older son live, in order to facilitate communication, to buy him a keyboard phone, home on the weekends you can use smart phones. Another child, Wei Zhiguang has a keyboard phone, is primarily used for listening to downloaded music and stories. Wei Zhiguang said that mobile phones so popular now, and the replacement soon, or should we give children access to mobile phones, or lose touch with society too far.
"Children while using a mobile phone where there is a lot of bad, but sooner or later to contact them, I feel that the more forbidden, can cause a child's interests, rather than let go. "Liu of the public believes that mobile phone is just a normal social life, children every day to touch a lot of things, not all blocked.
Still others believe that with a mobile phone, you can always monitor their children's whereabouts, contact.
Point three: the child can use a mobile phone, you need to control time
For mobile phones the "blocking" or the "sparse", some parents believe that phone is no good or bad in itself, the key lies in how to use. For this reason, many parents agree to their children using a mobile phone, often with children "agreement".
Public's daughter is 10 years old. His approach is, daughter finish homework can be a smart phone, but "only half an hour at a time, and in the presence of adults, in the sight of adults to use. "Mr Fu said.
She has son is 8 years old, seeing students with mobile phones, also clamoring for one. She gave her son to buy phones before, with his "agreement", "I asked him, phone call usually can only be used until this weekend when I can get to play games or watch video, typically not exceeding one hour. "She has also provided monthly phone fee cannot be more than 30 yuan, and beyond, housework is used to offset charges. Under these provisions, she has cell phone use is the son of the rules, not only did not affect the study also facilitates contact, which makes her feel very pleased.
Expert view: pupils use cell phones harm big or huge profits?
Guangxi people's Hospital for psychological rehabilitation centre Director Zhao believes that cell phone is good, but also more. Young students is characterized by simple repetition to learn, children need a quiet environment to learn over and over again, boring. Cell phones bring colorful pictures, a wide variety of games, a variety of trendy language children through the use of mobile phones by these rich experiences and then returned to the simple and boring environments, does not adapt, resulting in lack of concentration. Therefore, when children use mobile phones, parents need to be controlled and guided.
Guangxi marriage family Institute Deputy President, and national II level psychological Advisory Division Chen Yi not recommends low age of children using phone, but if to with, can using watches phone or simple of press phone, if using intelligent phone, parents of guide special important, and guide to clear, he can with phone to do what, to accompanied he to do, cannot put phone to children successor he casually play. If parents have no way of monitoring our children how to use a cell phone, is a very dangerous thing.
Guangxi Zhuang Autonomous Region people's Hospital Pediatric Department Director Xie Qingling is also introduced, due to physical development of pupils is not yet mature, eyesight weak, jumping Flash, font, smaller screen, is very harmful to the eyes. In addition, when using the phone, whether adults or children, habitual bow, put your cell phone in the distance the eye within 30 cm, position fixed, easy to muscle tension. So long will affect the child's spine and fingers. Xie Qingling recommends that children aged 7-13 should minimize the use of mobile phones.
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南宁市民唐先生的女儿今年10岁，周末时会拿着他的手机玩上一阵。日前唐先生无意翻看女儿的QQ群聊天记录后惊呆了：女儿进到了一个专门分享发送黄色视频的QQ群，感到事态严重的唐先生赶紧告知学校老师并报了警。那么，到底要不要给孩子用手机？如何监控和引导孩子使用手机？针对这些问题，记者走访了学校，询问了家长，得出了一些意见和建议，大家不妨来看一看——
现象：20名小学生16人经常玩手机
5月13日中午放学时间，针对小学生使用手机的情况，记者来到南宁经开区某小学，先后采访了20名一至六年级的小学生。其中16人表示经常在家里玩手机和平板电脑，有4人表示很少玩手机，但偶尔也会用爸爸妈妈的手机上网查看班级QQ群的信息。
经常用手机的16名小学生表示，每次玩手机的时间取决于父母是否有空。二年级的浩浩说，如果妈妈在家，他可以玩手机一个小时左右，妈妈要是不在家，他就“解放”了，拿着手机想怎么玩就怎么玩。浩浩说，平时用手机主要是跟同学一起玩一款叫“我的世界”的游戏。
四年级的小莉告诉记者，因为爸爸工作忙，妈妈常常出差，平时只有奶奶管她。如果她躺到床上或者沙发上玩手机，会被奶奶批评。爸爸允许她每次玩一个多小时，要是时间太长，手机就会被没收，可能会被罚三四天不能用手机。小莉说，班上的同学下课回家都会用手机玩一会儿，主要是玩游戏和上网看综艺节目视频。
调查：多所小学禁止学生带手机入校
记者从南宁市教育局了解到，该局并没有明文禁止中小学生带手机进入校园，由学校自己规定是否允许这种行为。
南宁市清川小学的一位德育老师告诉记者，学校不允许学生带与学习不相关的物品、食物等到校，各班班主任要求学生不能带手机到校，但个别高年级学生因为自己坐公交车上下学，家长考虑到安全问题会给孩子带上手机，但这些学生一旦进入教室，就要把手机关机、收起来，有些学生还请老师代为保管，放学才拿回去。
南宁市君武小学（西大附小）的老师对记者表示，平时不允许学生带手机到校，学生回家后是否可以使用手机，由父母监管。南宁市江南区普罗旺斯小学的老师也表示，平时不允许学生带手机到校，学生有急事需要联系家长时可以用校讯通免费打电话。
讨论：家长对孩子使用手机各有对策
既然学校不让小学生带手机到学校，那么家长对于孩子使用手机的监管就显得十分重要。记者在采访时，家长们就对孩子该不该用手机，如何用手机的问题进行了热烈讨论。
观点一：用手机会影响干扰学习，不给用
上小学五年级的黄东（化名）本来有一部被爸爸“淘汰”了的旧手机，可后来手机被爸爸“没收”了。“我之前对于孩子使用手机的态度还是很开明的，我给了他一部我用旧的智能手机，希望能鼓励他好好学习。但是，后来我发现他经常在房间里玩手机，写作业的时间越来越长，睡觉的时间越来越晚，我担心他玩上瘾了，干脆就不让他用了。”黄东的爸爸称，小孩子的自控能力还是不够，暂时还不打算再给他继续用手机。
市民黄女士则认为，现在手机里的游戏诱导孩子消费的项目太多，还会碰上一些诈骗信息，孩子没有是非观，很容易就点进去导致上当受骗。“我给孩子用过手机，一天时间就花了我800多元，全用来买游戏道具了。”黄女士说，自从发生这些事后，就再没给孩子玩手机了。
“孩子使用手机，100%影响孩子的学习效率。一晚上来回几条短信，学习效率就会大大下降。如果上课老想着手机游戏的内容，又会严重影响听课效果。”市民蒲女士认为，孩子的主要任务是学习，而且处于生长发育的重要阶段，用手机弊端太多，万一孩子沉迷其中，会带来相当大的危害，甚至会改变孩子命运。
观点二：手机已经普及，不用会落伍
有些家长则认为，手机早已普及，在中小学生中普及率也很高，一味地禁止，反倒让孩子脱离现实，和同学交流没有共同语言。
市民韦智广有两个孩子，一个7岁，一个16岁。大儿子住校，为了方便联系，给他买了一部键盘式手机，周末回家可以使用智能手机。对于另一个孩子，韦智广也给了一部键盘式手机，主要是用来听下载好的音乐和故事。韦智广说，现在手机这么普及，而且更新换代很快，还是应该给孩子接触手机，否则与社会脱离太远。
“孩子虽然用手机会有很多不好的地方，但他们早晚要接触这些，我觉得越是禁止，越会引起孩子的兴趣，不如放开。”市民刘女士认为，手机只是一种普通的生活社交工具，孩子每天要接触的东西很多，也不可能全部屏蔽掉。
还有的家长认为，有了手机，可以随时监控到孩子的行踪，方便联系。
观点三：孩子可以用手机，需控制时间
对于手机该“堵”还是该“疏”，有些家长认为，手机本身并无好坏，关键在于如何使用。为此，很多家长答应孩子使用手机前，往往会与孩子“约法三章”。
市民付先生的女儿今年10岁。他的做法是，女儿在写完作业后可以用智能手机，但“每次只能用半个小时，而且要在大人在场，在大人的视线范围内才能用。”付先生说。
罗女士的儿子今年8岁，看到同学有了手机，他也吵着要一部。罗女士在给儿子买手机之前，跟他“约法三章”，“我要求他，手机在平时只能用于打电话，只有到周末时候才能拿来玩游戏或看视频，一般每次也不能超过一个小时。”罗女士还规定，每月的手机费不能超过30元，如果超过，就要用干家务来抵扣话费。在这几个规定的约束下，罗女士的儿子使用手机很规矩，不仅没影响到学习，还方便了联系，这让她感到很欣慰。
专家观点：小学生用手机，弊大还是利大？
广西区人民医院心理康复中心赵主任认为，手机好处多，但是影响也多。小学生们的学习特点是简单重复，孩子们需要在安静的环境下不断重复地去学习，过程比较枯燥。而手机带来的是多彩的图片，种类繁多的游戏，各种新潮的语言，孩子在通过使用手机得到这些丰富的体验后再回到简单乏味的环境中，会不适应，从而造成注意力不集中。因此，孩子们在使用手机时，需要家长们进行控制和引导。
广西婚姻家庭研究会副会长、国家二级心理咨询师陈一不建议低龄的孩子使用手机，但如果要用，可以使用手表手机或者简单的按键手机，如果使用智能手机，父母的引导特别重要，而且引导要清晰，他能用手机来做什么，要陪伴他去做，不能把手机给孩子后任他随便玩。如果父母没办法监管孩子如何使用手机，是十分危险的事情。
广西区人民医院的儿科主任谢庆玲也介绍，小学生由于身体发育尚未成熟，视力偏弱，面对跳跃闪烁、字体较小的手机屏幕，对眼睛的伤害很大。另外，使用手机的时候，不管是大人还是小孩，都会习惯性低头，手机放在距离眼部30厘米以内，姿态固定，容易肌肉紧张。长期如此会对孩子的脊椎、手指均有影响。谢庆玲建议，7到13岁儿童应该尽量少用手机。