Wife help husband were friends off ridicule: because it's too lonely? -Otaku and take off-IT information
Even in Japan this ACG power, "Otaku" are not to be understood and accepted. But now with the popularity of the second culture, more and more people are willing to have revealed himself to be the identity. For some people, however, if you marry after the husband was still immersed in the world, is not to be understood. Recently, a wife took off on the Internet for advice on how to make her husband, according to her statement, her husband is a salaried worker, and usually help with the housework, help children, what is a good husband. But he has a problem, will solemnly to say some things related to animation, and was there made the songs of hatsune. This post is also a Japan netizens concerned, but most agree that the nerd husband actually had a very good, why were to find it?
Online posters are almost always supported her husband, netizens ' opinions alone helped persuade her husband took off, but was also felt her husband was very ill. "Your husband like Hatsune, did not appear to be any problem, right? ";" Her husband did not neglect housework because of interest or a burden to her family and work and life is very stable, and you're still not satisfied? ";" The interest is very important, if you want to negate this, I feel uncomfortable. ";" As long as the range of pocket money, without prejudice to the scope of work, so that when a House is better than gambling, drinking every day, going to slip a lot, right? So think about your husband is so cute. "," Your husband would do music, it's respect. And you as a wife but do not respect him, I think he is very poor. ”。 There seems to be also compared with some bad habits, and this interest really is nothing, or is rather family.
As for the netizens ' opinions, the wife again expressed his feelings: "maybe people will think nothing, I don't know, but I just don't like it. ”。 Word gets out, the possible root cause of this matter was raised, estimates his wife because they feel lonely, to be jealous of her husband's interest: "you actually want to talk to her husband had the same hobby? Otherwise it's very lonely? You jealous sound at the beginning? I feel I can talk to her husband, if it was really lonely. ”。
See how you feel about marriage should take off this thing? If just one person, what interests do not have to think too much, but in the differences of interest between married couples and thus conflicts will emerge. But as long as the family without being too interested, were able to understand each other, right? Dear all friends, may wish to talk about your opinion on this matter, and talk about whether you think marriage should consider removing it?
妻子求助让丈夫脱宅遭网友吐槽：因为太寂寞？ - 宅男,脱宅 - IT资讯
即使在日本这样的ACG大国，“御宅族”也并不是被人理解和接受的。不过现在伴随着二次元文化的普及，越来越多的人愿意透露自己是宅人的身份了。但是对于一些普通人来说，如果结婚了之后丈夫依然沉浸在宅的世界里，更是不能被理解了。近日，一个妻子就在网上求教如何让丈夫脱宅，按照她的说法，她的丈夫是一个上班族，并且平时也会帮忙做做家务，帮助带孩子，怎么看都是个好丈夫。但是他有个问题在于，会一本正经地对孩子说一些跟动画有关的事情，并且还在那儿制作《初音未来》的歌曲。这个帖子也是引起了日本网友们关注，不过大多数人认为，这样的宅男丈夫其实已经很好了，为什么还要吹毛求疵呢？
网上回帖的几乎都是支持丈夫的，网友们的意见别说是帮忙劝说她丈夫脱宅，反而还有人觉得她的丈夫很厉害。“你丈夫喜欢初音啊，好像没什么问题吧？”；“丈夫并没有因为兴趣而忽视做家务，也没给家里带来负担，而且又用心工作，生活非常稳定，然后你居然还不满意了？”；“兴趣是非常重要的，如果要对此进行全盘否定，那我觉得不妥哦。”；“只要在零花钱范围，在不影响工作的范围，那么当一个宅总比赌钱、每天喝酒、去找失足好多了吧？这么一想你的丈夫很可爱。”；“你丈夫会做曲啊，这让人很尊敬呢。而你作为太太却不尊敬他，我觉得他很可怜啊。”。看来大家也是觉得和一些不好的嗜好相比，这种兴趣真的是没什么，或者说还是相当顾家的呢。
而对于网友们的意见，这位妻子再度表达了自己的感觉：“可能别人会觉得没啥吧，我说不好，但我就是不喜欢。”。此话一出，有人提出了这件事情的可能根本原因，估计妻子是因为觉得寂寞，才会嫉妒丈夫的兴趣：“其实你是想跟丈夫有着同样的爱好吧？不然就很寂寞吧？你是不是在嫉妒初音呢？我觉得可以跟丈夫好好谈谈哦，如果真的是寂寞了。”。
看到这里大家是如何看待婚后就应该脱宅这件事情呢？如果只是一个人，兴趣爱好什么的可以不用考虑太多，但是在结婚之后夫妻之间就会有兴趣上的差异，因此也将有矛盾出现。但是只要能做到顾家、不过分追求兴趣的话，还是能够互相理解的吧？那么各位网友，不妨来说说你对这件事情的看法，并且聊聊你觉得是否结婚就应该考虑脱宅呢？