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He Jiang parents

Reporters rushed to the Zon ningxiang County Changsha dialogue "Spider-man" He Jiang's parents

He Jiang mother thought with which children grow up is important

Study of He Jiang Road

High school: ningxiang

University: University of science and technology of China

Continuous academic program that involves postgraduate and doctoral study: Harvard University

Postdoctoral fellow: Massachusetts Institute of

He Jiang, has been his commencement speech at Harvard University of the spider bite anecdote spread throughout the network, laughing, people call him "Spiderman." Mother Zeng Xianhua also became famous, the father He Bicheng Brigade in the village also drew, a fellow from He Jiang's speech on TV, have praised their shometown. Yesterday morning, the reporters came to He Jiang, and his parents made a conversation.

Video many people applaud everyone think I'm happy

On May 13, had offered China started using micro-letter He Jiang was her first best friend. On both days He Jiang's reports were the streets, He Jiang forward through the letters one by one to his mother, incidentally, praised the performance of some parents interviewed, "answers you and dad were pretty good." Calls in the app is not a long time, usually about 10 minutes, sometimes very busy He Jiang said to his mother: "too busy today, do not call. ”

The Guangzhou daily Reporter: When did you know He Jiang speech?

Zeng Xianhua: more than a month ago, he told me that getting ready for graduation speech, not quite sure, hold a try. I told him with a common heart treatment, told him the speech should practice every day, practicing oral and stay smooth.

The Guangzhou daily Reporter: topics to discuss with you before?

Zeng Xianhua: no, but he told me that a book with a similar home, wrote about his hometown customs, (I) to teach him (learning), books on feelings. He told me, MOM, book publishing, you're famous.

The Guangzhou daily Reporter: before the speech He Jiang told you anything?

Zeng Xianhua: speech on that day, He Jiang up at 6 o'clock, he told me to give thirty thousand or forty thousand people do talk, a little nervous. I told him don't be nervous, holding a normal state of mind.

The Guangzhou daily Reporter: as a father, how do you encourage He Jiang?

He Bicheng: he does not need to be encouraged, I believe he has the ability.

The Guangzhou daily Reporter: when watching the video?

Zeng Xianhua: (He Jiang) to send the video to my app, we saw yesterday morning, he said in English, I don't understand, but it has subtitles, I saw on the video he has thugs pose, I read his stories about spider bites (laughs). I see there are a lot of people were clapping, think they think speech is very good, I'm glad, too.

The Guangzhou daily Reporter: after you give He Jiang called?

Zeng Xianhua: he said many reporters want to interview him, busy, tomorrow (29th), 11 had time to call.

The Guangzhou daily Reporter: to what to say to him when?

Zeng Xianhua: let him learn skills later came back to serve the motherland. His father is in poor health, had diabetes, I hope he is nearer to us.

The Guangzhou daily Reporter: He Jiang has now learned something, what expectations do you have for him?

Zeng Xianhua: now He Jiang MIT postdoctoral fellow, 4 years, and 4 years later, he is 32 years old. Age is not small, you want to have a family.

He Bicheng: I think it's about, talk to her (Zeng Xianhua) an opinion.

The Guangzhou daily Reporter: If He Jiang had a foreign girlfriend, do you accept?

Zeng Xianhua: not to accept, she said in English, I speak Mandarin, without a common language, a family to have a common language.

Two people there is always one person at home cooking for kids

In 1988, He Jiang was born in ningxiang County, Changsha city, Hunan province, Nan Tian ping Xiang Ting Chung Village, and like most of the rural areas, many children of the village to the junior high school to work on, He Jiang is a special case. His mother all the way around the way care of schooling, the only junior high school diploma of the rural woman believes "knowledge changes fate". The other hand, the thanks of course He Jiang's own efforts, He Bicheng with respect, "his result is not good, will make him get a job. ”

The Guangzhou daily Reporter: why insist He Jiang go to school?

Zeng Xianhua: we poor family, also gave birth to two children. I believe that knowledge can change your life and let him read ahead.

The Guangzhou daily Reporter: in the village of stop the clock like He Jiang, do many people read so many books?

Zeng Xianhua: many children reach middle school, parents have let him go.

He Bicheng: he (He Jiang) if the result is not good, I will let him go. However, his performance has been very good, very carefully.

The Guangzhou daily Reporter: How do you education He Jiang?

Zeng Xianhua: when he was in elementary school, after school, put him in the upstairs study, wouldn't let him play with other children, playing marbles. I'll learn from him, when he was learning, I read his diary, his studies.

He Bicheng: I haven't taught him, mainly her (Zeng Xianhua). I usually just say a few words, and made him redouble their efforts.

The Guangzhou daily Reporter: you keep telling stories to He Jiang?

He Bicheng: starting from the age of 4, I told him a story. I also have nothing to do, and made up some story in the country, also read some story books, speak to him. Some of the stories are about to learn, I hope his story as an example.

Guangzhou daily: the 90 's of the last century, many young people out of work in the village, why did you choose to stay home with the kids?

Zeng Xianhua: (He Jiang) Grandma and Grandpa is old and can't take care of their brothers.

He Bicheng: out of nothing to do, I can also play as temporary workers in the countryside, helping people build a House, you can also fish. Two of us were always at home cooking for children, she (Zeng Xianhua) does not work.

Reporter's notes

Growing up with parents

Never hit a child

Drive from Changsha to He Jiang, known only seventy or eighty kilometres, but had been away for almost 3 hours, especially in the last few miles of muddy, difficult after the rain. He Jiang is reversed out of the village, the tough all the way.

He Jiang's House is a small 2-storey brick house, was built in 1995. If not Zeng Xianhua village to greet, and hard to find. Zeng Xianhua He Bicheng and very enthusiastic, "came all the way from Canton, is not easy. "Then pour a large glass of water, took two small bamboo chair of reporters sat down.

In an interview with Zeng Xianhua showing He Jiang bought Huawei pad, He Bicheng chipped one or two sentences. Son's grades, He Bicheng Zeng Xianhua said: "her credit." He did not play children are rarely encouraged and sometimes combat combat, but he said, "kids can see what I mean."

He Jiang grew up, because there is no parent company became left-behind children. Zeng Xianhua said it's important for children. At this point, she began to count which adults went to work in the cities, parents are around, like He Jiang did not. Although He Bicheng feel at home with outside is a coincidence – there is nothing to do. Zeng Xianhua accompanied with homework, reading his diary, concerned about the trend of child development.

He Jiang: I'm going to Harvard where the father: you're lying

He Jiang started primary school at age 4, the result is not worse than the others, so he became the youngest student in the class. He Jiang's achievements have been ranked, later admitted to the best high school--in ningxiang, ningxiang County. He aspired to be a scientist, was admitted to the Chinese University of science and technology.

The Guangzhou daily Reporter: when they leave primary school, junior He Jiang wanted to go to private schools, tuition fees of 10,000 yuan a year, don't you agree?

Zeng Xianhua: Yes, the teachers understand the situation and say we can't afford. We are told He Jiang, hard to read, in the village, too.

The Guangzhou daily Reporter: did when He Jiang go to Changsha?

Zeng Xianhua: when in high school, he had a classmate lived in Changsha, classmate's MOM know He Jiang did well in Changsha, invited him to play, want to make their children's example He Jiang. He Jiang back in the country envied city. Students wanted to come to our House to play, he did not agree with, don't want to let students see that family is so poor.

The Guangzhou daily Reporter: He Jiang there is poetry and some works at home and abroad, when he began to enjoy reading these books?

Zeng Xianhua: during high school, which are saved on the cost of living is he bought when he had seen four classic, there are many classic stories, he loved it. He is very jealous of his books, clean up your room before I sold a bag of his book, he says to me. While in College, who build their own computers, and he brought home the Cup these small items.

The Guangzhou daily Reporter: high school when you communicate and how He Jiang?

Zeng Xianhua: high school he lived, came back over the weekend for two days, I'll go with him, read his diary, his learning, habits, what kind of friends. Tuition and parents meeting, I will ask the teacher to understand his situation.

The Guangzhou daily Reporter: after college entrance examination, He Jiang University applicants consider?

Zeng Xianhua: he said train national cadres in Peking University, cradle of Tsinghua University is to train engineers, cradle of the Chinese University of science and technology is to train scientists, he chose to go to China University of science and technology, he wanted to become a scientist. His father did not agree.

He Bicheng: Peking University, Tsinghua University, after all, is the best school, but he carefully made his choice, and I respect his choice.

The Guangzhou daily Reporter: when considering applying for He Jiang go to Harvard?

Zeng Xianhua: freshman year, when he came back and said I want to apply for admission to Harvard. His father said he was bragging. He Jiang said that only tell my mother this, don't tell anybody, fear of others laugh at him.

He Bicheng: just to want to apply to Harvard University, bragging.

The Guangzhou daily Reporter: he later what action?

Zeng Xianhua: he said a Hong Kong teacher, applied to Harvard scored first, moral good, he tried to get the first. He listen to students abroad to good English, he is country boy, English is not good enough, holiday comes back, he is upstairs with the tape of the crazy English, and 9 days back 9,000 words. Below the village, they commented He Jiang (study) seriously. He said, applications to Harvard have to pass one, two, and three, a level he called to tell me.

Guangzhou daily Reporter: When do you think He Jiang had applied to Harvard mark?

He Bicheng: junior year when his first name, also got a the school's highest honor, think it's reliable.

Guangzhou daily Reporter: spider bite is really fire you?

Zeng Xianhua: Spider bites He Jiang, I used cotton around his finger, sprinkle with white wine with fire. When soils are mostly in rural areas.

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在哈佛演讲的中国学子，父母:希望离家近 别找外国女朋友|哈佛演讲_新闻资讯

何江父母

　　记者赶赴长沙市宁乡县 对话“蜘蛛侠”何江的父母

　　何江妈妈认为陪伴孩子成长很重要

　　何江的求学路

　　高中：宁乡一中

　　大学：中国科技大学

　　硕博连读：哈佛大学

　　博士后：麻省理工学院

　　何江出名了，他在哈佛大学毕业典礼上的演讲《蜘蛛咬伤的轶事》传遍网络，有人笑称他为“蜘蛛侠”。母亲曾献华也随之出名了，父亲何毕成在村里腰杆也挺直了，同乡人从电视上看了何江的演讲，纷纷称赞他们教子有方。昨天上午，记者来到何江家里，和他的父母作了一番对话。

　　视频中很多人在鼓掌 大家认为好我也高兴

　　5月13日，曾献华开始使用微信，何江是她第一个好友。这两天关于何江的报道陆续出街，何江通过微信一一转发给母亲，顺带夸奖了一番爸妈接受媒体采访的表现，“你和爸爸回答得都挺不错啊”。微信中的通话时间并不长，一般在10分钟左右，有时很忙，何江会跟母亲说：“今天太忙，不打电话了。”

　　广州日报记者：你什么时候知道何江要演讲？

　　曾献华：一个多月前，他跟我说在准备毕业演讲，不是很有把握，抱着试一试的心态。我告诉他以平常心对待，叮嘱他演讲稿每天要练，练好口语，保持流畅。

　　广州日报记者：题目跟你商量过吗？

　　曾献华：没有，不过之前他跟我说要出一本类似家乡传的书，写的是有关家乡风土人情、（我）教导他（学习）、生活感悟方面的书。他跟我说，妈妈，书出版了，你就出名了。

　　广州日报记者：演讲前何江跟你说过什么吗？

　　曾献华：演讲当天，何江6点起床，他告诉我，要给三四万人做演讲，有点紧张。我跟他说不要紧张，抱着平常心态。

　　广州日报记者：作为父亲，你当时怎么鼓励何江？

　　何毕成：他不需要鼓励，我相信他有那个能力。

　　广州日报记者：什么时候看了视频？

　　曾献华：（何江）把视频发到我微信了，我们昨天早上看了，他说的是英语，我听不懂，不过有中文字幕，我在视频上看到他有打手的姿势，我看懂了他讲蜘蛛咬伤的故事（笑）。我看到下面有很多人在鼓掌，觉得他们认为演讲很不错，我也很高兴。

　　广州日报记者：之后有给何江打过电话吗？

　　曾献华：他说有很多记者要采访他，忙不过来，要明天（29日）11点才有时间打电话过来。

　　广州日报记者：到时想跟他说什么？

　　曾献华：让他学好本领以后回来报效祖国。他爸爸身体不好，得了糖尿病，希望他离我们近一些。

　　广州日报记者：何江现在已学有所成，你们对他有什么期望？

　　曾献华：现在何江去MIT做博士后，要4年，4年后他都32岁了。年纪不小了，要成个家。

　　何毕成：我的想法差不多，跟她（曾献华）一个意见。

　　广州日报记者：如果何江找了一个国外的女朋友，你接受吗？

　　曾献华：不接受，她说英语，我说普通话，没有共同语言，一家人要有共同语言。

　　两个人总有一个人在家给孩子做饭

　　1988年，何江出生于湖南省长沙市宁乡县南田坪乡停钟村，和大多数农村一样，这个村庄的很多孩子上到初中就外出打工，何江是个特例。他的求学路有母亲的一路在身边呵护，这个只有初中文凭的农村妇人相信“知识改变命运”。另一方面，当然归功于何江的自身努力，何毕成直言，“他成绩不好，也会让他外出打工。”

　　广州日报记者：为什么坚持让何江上学？

　　曾献华：我们家庭条件不好，还生了两个孩子。我相信知识改变命运，让他读书出人头地。

　　广州日报记者：在停钟村像何江一样念这么多书的人多吗？

　　曾献华：很多小孩念到初中，父母就让他出去打工了。

　　何毕成：他（何江）如果成绩不好，我也会让他出去打工。不过，他成绩一直都很好，学习很用心。

　　广州日报记者：你是怎么教育何江的？

　　曾献华：他上小学时，放学后把他关在楼上学习，不让他跟其他小孩打球、打弹珠。我陪他学习，他学习时，我看他的日记，了解他的学习情况。

　　何毕成：我没怎么教育他，主要是她（曾献华）。我一般就说他几句，让他加倍努力。

　　广州日报记者：你一直坚持给何江讲故事？

　　何毕成：从他4岁开始，我给他讲故事。我也是没事做，自己编了一些乡间故事，还看了一些故事书，讲给他听。有些故事是关于好好学习的，希望他以故事主角为榜样。

　　广州日报记者：上世纪90年代，村里很多年轻人都出去打工，你为什么选择在家陪孩子？

　　曾献华：（何江）爷爷奶奶年纪大了，照顾不了他们兄弟。

　　何毕成：外面也没什么事做，我在农村也可以打临工，帮人建房子，还可以打鱼。我们两个人总有一个人在家给孩子做饭，她（曾献华）不打工。

　　记者手记

　　父母陪伴成长

　　从来不打孩子

　　从长沙驱车前往何江的家，路程不过七八十公里，但走了近3小时，尤其是最后几公里的泥泞小路，雨后寸步难行。何江是逆行走出了乡村，一路的艰难可想而知。

　　何江的家是一座不起眼的2层砖房，是1995年建的。如果不是曾献华在村头相迎，很难找到。曾献华和何毕成很热情，“大老远从广州赶来，不容易。”说罢倒上了一大杯水，拿了两把小竹椅请记者坐下来。

　　采访中，曾献华展示着何江买的华为pad，何毕成偶尔插一两句。对于儿子的成绩，何毕成指着曾献华说：“主要是她的功劳”。他不打孩子，也很少鼓励，有时还打击打击，但他说“孩子能理解我的意思”。

　　在何江的成长过程中，因为有父母的陪伴而没有成为留守儿童。曾献华坦言这对孩子很重要。说到这里，她开始细数哪家的大人去城里打工，像何江这样父母都在身边的确实不多。虽然何毕成觉得在家陪伴是一种巧合——外面没什么事可做。曾献华则陪孩子做功课，看他的日记，关注孩子成长的动向。

　　何江：我要去哈佛 何父：你吹牛

　　何江4岁就开始上小学，结果成绩不比别人差，于是他成了班上年纪最小的学生。何江的成绩一直名列前矛，之后考上了宁乡县最好的高中——宁乡一中。他立志成为科学家，考上中国科技大学。

　　广州日报记者：小学毕业时，何江想去私立学校读初中，学费一年一万元，你不同意？

　　曾献华：是的，老师也了解我们家的情况，说我们负担不起。我们告诉何江，只要努力读书，在乡里也一样。

　　广州日报记者：何江上学时去过长沙吗？

　　曾献华：高一的时候，他有一个同班同学住在长沙，同学的妈妈知道何江成绩好，邀请他去长沙玩，希望让何江做自己孩子的榜样。何江回来以后羡慕城市好。同学想来我们家玩，他不同意，不想让同学看到家里这么穷。

　　广州日报记者：何江房里有唐诗宋词和一些国内外名著，他什么时候开始喜欢看这些书？

　　曾献华：高中的时候，这些都是他用节省下来的生活费买的，那时他已经看了四大名著，里面有很多经典的故事，他很喜欢。他很爱惜他的书，之前我收拾房间，卖了一袋他的书，他还说我。读大学时，他自己组装的电脑，还有用过的茶杯这些小物品他都带回家了。

　　广州日报记者：高中的时候，你和何江怎么交流？

　　曾献华：高中他住学校，周末回来两天，我就陪着他，看他的日记，了解他的学习、生活习惯，交什么朋友。交学费、开家长会的时候我也会向老师了解他的情况。

　　广州日报记者：高考后，何江报考大学怎么考虑的？

　　曾献华：他说北大培养国家干部，清华是培养工程师的摇篮，中国科技大学是培养科学家的摇篮，他选择去中国科技大学，他想成为科学家。他爸爸不同意。

　　何毕成：北大、清华毕竟是最好的学校，不过他经过深思熟虑做出了选择，我尊重他的选择。

　　广州日报记者：何江什么时候考虑申请去哈佛？

　　曾献华：大一的时候，他回来说以后想申请去哈佛。他爸爸说他吹牛。何江说，只跟妈妈说这事，不要跟别人说，怕别人也笑话他。

　　何毕成：刚刚到大学就想着申请哈佛，吹牛。

　　广州日报记者：他后来有什么行动？

　　曾献华：他听一位香港老师说，申请哈佛成绩要第一名，思想品德也要好，他就努力考第一。他听同学说出国要英语好，他是农村出来的孩子，英语不够好，放假一回来，他就在楼上跟着《疯狂英语》的磁带念，9天就背了9000个单词。村里人就在下面听，他们评论何江（学习）认真。他说，申请去哈佛要过一关、两关、三关，过了一关他就打电话告诉我。

　　广州日报记者：什么时候觉得何江申请哈佛靠谱了？

　　何毕成：大三的时候，他的成绩第一名，还拿到一项该校最高荣誉奖，觉得这事靠谱。

　　广州日报记者：被蜘蛛咬伤，真的是用火烧的吗？

　　曾献华：何江被蜘蛛咬到，我用棉花包住他的手指，洒上白酒用火烧。当时农村大都是采取这样的土方法。

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