Junior Youth skip classes one day, squatting the bushes get WiFi cell phones-WiFi, mobile phone-IT news

2nd, who lives in a community forest in long pond Street, liuhe district, Nanjing woman I went out early in the morning, wearing school uniforms boy squatting on the grass next to the building; when she go home at 5 o'clock in the evening, he even saw the child sitting in the gesture hardly changed, calling him a, he was ignored. Juvenile unusual finishing woman fears her to police. Police learned that the juvenile is a junior, his uncle, who lives in the building, when he skipped class the day here, in order to get Uncle WiFi playing mobile games, it makes mothers came to the scene in the lady was furious.

Reporters found that the popularity of smart phones, children become "mobile phone control" is common in many families worry about.

Play boy

Grass grazed Uncle wireless home network to play games

Teenagers skip classes a day squats leg numbness

"My big boy sitting downstairs has a don't know the grass all day, when he ignored, you take a look. "2nd at 5 o'clock in the evening, she called the police.

Police station after police arrived at the scene to see the Dragon pool, the community one unit downstairs and sat in a juvenile. He pads sitting bags under eyes holding the phone.

"He has been kind of sitting here, in the morning I went out to see him, but I came back in the evening he was still here, don't know what's going on, I give him a shout, he ignored. "She said, her children are enthusiastic, worried that he had any bad situation.

Next to the police went to the juvenile, he continued to concentrate on cell phones, didn't noticed police approaching. Police clapped him on the shoulder, the boy suddenly stood up, numb legs almost fell. "What are you doing here? "In the face of police questioning, children do not bow to answer, saying only that will come.

Police repeatedly asked, and he said his surname Cao, on the third day at a nearby middle school, his uncle lived in the building that he is here to get Uncle WiFi play games on the Internet. "I did not do bad things, is to go online. "He said.

Subsequently, the police contacted Cao's mother. Cao Mu got the call expressed surprise, saying never thought his son could skip class to go play the game, against network ran downstairs to brother squats a day.

Soon after, Cao arrived on the scene with the mother was very angry, immediately scold him for Internet access with no principles again and again. Cao said the mother, the son a month ago, secretly elders give red envelopes for his birthday and bought a cell phone, parents find out after he criticized him, persuaded him to put the phone back, also make a fish out of water. Later, the parents use their cell phones confiscated, but he unexpectedly while the family took the phone go here to play. "He knows my brother go out these days, just come here to get network soon, tests, still so confused."

Civilian police to educate the CAO, Cao said it would resolve to quit playing mobile phone addiction, serious preparation. Police also reminded mother Jo, usually to communicate with children and divert attention from his cell phones, have a bad habit of timely advice. After the bilateral exchanges, Cao went home with her.

Parents worry about

Pear-shaped mobile phone, niangerliang to cry

To stop now for my daughter? Mothers are in a dilemma

"I regret should be used to describe the mood today is in a dilemma! "Lai Feng Xiao Zhang in Nanjing told the Yangtze evening news reporter, her daughter on the first day, to facilitate communication before, bought a children's mobile phones, can only receive calls.

But then my daughter always said there students are using smart phones and Smartphone Internet learning materials. Zhang at first was hesitant, after she and her husband, in the development of the times, daughter's ideas have merit, use Smartphones to access information may be helpful to learning. Later, her daughter bought a smart machine more than 1000 Yuan. After smartphones on the daughter, will soon play on micro-credit, micro-blog.

"We thought that using Twitter was nothing bad, but now the situation is getting worse. "Zhang said, daughters grades plummeted, play mobile teachers even found her in the classroom.

After you found the problem, start control using mobile phones. Daughters homework, every now and then to her cell phone say access to information, but sometimes only to find that she was using QQ or the app.

Zhang asked his daughter how to chat? Daughter's answer was to communicate with students learning issue. In this way, the daughter is learning more and more inefficient. Not long ago, found his daughter playing games into the wee hours, phone search traces of a novel, click Open found his daughter to read is "a mess" article. In this way, the phone arguing mother and daughter multiple times, eventually, infuriated, she smashed the phone.

"Hit her over the phone, niangerliang cry, she didn't talk to me for two weeks, I was heart-broken. "Said that recently she has repeatedly assured her to study hard, proposed to buy the phone and promise only to access to information and exchange of students. "I'm confused and afraid to buy her that she can't control. "Zhang said.

Online survey

Forbid your kids with your Smartphone? Not all opposition

Two examples, children have become "mobile phone control" allow parents to worry about, and then in smart phones so popular now, what should give their children using a smart phone? Reporters through his circle of friends was doing a little research.

Students should use a smart phone?

This online survey lasted one hour, 51 people participating in the vote. A dissenting account for about 84%. Part of the stated reasons for parents that, minor student competitor opportunity addiction, uncontrollable, mostly used for entertainment. B there is 1 fully endorse the views of parents. The parents think that the Smartphone is the trend, otherwise they will be alienated from society. C supporting approximately 14%, that some parents believe that children use their smart phones need to condition, what is the point if you want to be sure to know the child, if learning materials are allowed.

Teacher comments

Parents ' meeting at a time, and many parents to ridicule the teacher, the children all day without cell phones, how to not give children? How to get rid of cell phone addiction? Senior teacher in a high school grade team leader, Jiang Bo in Nanjing said--

Even if you are using phone records that disadvantage is also great

Jiang Bo believe that students using smart phones only advantage is ease of contact.

"Access to information is a cover, I found some so-called learning software questions and answers are copied to each other, and full of errors and typos, used on the Web to find the answer of the students will lose the ability to think independently, I strongly appeal to students from elementary school to high school away from the Smartphone. "Jiang Bo believes that when used to the student via the Internet to find the answer, use reference book habits and abilities will decline, but inefficient, often click on a window, Internet pop-up, curiosity and strong students, unable to control the reading, that they can't concentrate on what should be done my homework. Indulge in mobile phones bad for your health, typical is the decreased vision, looked up to see further, holding cell phones all day cause some students face to face communication skills are very poor; some parents fear their children are not using smartphones will be alienated from society, such worries are unnecessary, like cell phones and computers, a school will be, no need to hold every day. Mobile network has a search function, they are seeing the health, parents is difficult to monitor.

Let your child quit addiction to cell phones, parents need to set an example

How to get rid of cell phone addiction? Jiang Bo says, some parents a strong radical, the demands on their children not accepted it is not promised, confiscated cell phone, turn off the network. Student problems in early education, parents also did not establish authoritative image, done deal, even confiscating cell phones, breaking the network effect is poor, some parents could not resist importuning, or put your phone back to them. Phone, and network pass, inspires such child's rebellious and more intense curiosity for the Smartphone. Good practice is, parents themselves don't bow to play all day, subtly close in the network, such as changing a password, restrict the flow, limiting airtime, to read classics adhere to the paper. To let them know that the phone is just a tool and toy, nor deny the phone more and more fun, but there are more exciting things in life, days off, parents bring their kids to a variety of outdoor activities, transferred her attention in a mobile phone.

Child voice

Hungry for respect repugnant parents hit cell phones

Yangtse evening post reporters also communicated with a number of high school students, some students also said mobile phones in addition to phone and find the answer, but are mostly used for entertainment, sometimes playing just an hour or two, parents will snap at them.

"More disgusted parents talking tough, even more unacceptable was smashed phone. "Liu said, sometimes cell phones without knowing the night, know this is bad, but my father rushed in and momentum, so sad.

Liu said that even if he made a mistake, so that the parents can communicate in an equal tone. "Confiscation is not respected, does not trust," Liu told reporters.

Teacher said it was in place, the child should also listen. But if you pay attention, the same problems, your children are adults and we're at a level of concern. It is more about the parent attitude in dealing with the question of cell phone use, rather than use the phone itself.

Therefore, we would like to remind parents to be, each child has its own personality, parents should consider the situation of their children, find their way to communicate, to deal with this "mobile phone problem".

初三少年翘课一天，蹲草丛中蹭WiFi玩手机 - WiFi,手机 - IT资讯

2日上午，家住南京六合区龙池街道某小区的林女士一早出门发现，一身穿校服的少年蹲在单元楼旁的草丛里；林女士傍晚5点钟回家时，依然看到这孩子坐在那，姿势几乎没变，喊他一声，他也不理。少年异常举动让林女士担忧，她报警求助。民警到场了解到，该少年是初三学生，他舅舅家住在这幢楼，当天他翘课一天待在这里，为的是蹭舅舅家的WiFi玩手机游戏，这让赶来现场的母亲于女士窝火不已。

记者调查发现，智能手机的普及，孩子成为“手机控”已是许多家庭的普遍烦恼。

疯玩的少年

坐草丛里蹭舅舅家无线网玩游戏

少年翘课一天蹲到腿脚麻木

“我家楼下有个不认识的大男孩坐草丛一整天了，喊他也不理，你们来看看。”2日傍晚5点多钟，林女士报了警。

龙池派出所民警接警后到场查看，该小区一单元楼下坐着一少年。他把书包垫坐在身下，目不转睛地捧着手机。

“他一直保持这样的姿势坐在这里，早晨我出门时看到他，没想到傍晚我回来他还在这儿，也不知道怎么回事，我叫他一声，他也不理。”林女士说，她留意这孩子也是出于热心，担心他遇到什么不好的情况。

民警走到少年旁边，他依旧全神贯注玩手机，丝毫没察觉到民警靠近。民警拍拍他的肩，那少年突然起身，却因腿脚麻木差点跌倒。“你蹲在这里做什么？”面对民警的问话，孩子低头不答，只说自己有事。

民警再三询问下，他才说自己姓曹，在附近一所中学上初三，他的舅舅住在这幢楼上，他蹲在这里是为了蹭舅舅家的WiFi上网玩游戏。“我没有做坏事，就是想上网。”他说。

随后，民警联系了曹某的母亲。曹母接到电话表示很惊讶，说没想到儿子竟然翘课去玩游戏，为蹭网竟跑到弟弟家楼下蹲了一天。

不久，曹某母亲很生气地赶到现场，当即数落他为了上网一次次没原则。曹某母亲说，儿子一个月前，偷偷用长辈给他的生日红包买了一部手机，家长发现后对他批评过，也劝他把手机退了，还闹了别扭。后来，家长把手机没收，没想到他竟然趁家人不注意拿走了手机跑到这里来玩。“他肯定知道我弟弟这几天外出，才跑到这里来蹭网的，马上就要中考了，还这么糊涂”。

民警对曹某也进行说服教育，曹某表示会下决心戒掉玩手机的瘾，认真备考。民警也提醒曹某母亲，平时要多与孩子交流，转移他玩手机的注意力，有不良习惯要及时规劝。双方交流之后，曹某跟随母亲回家了。

家长的烦恼

砸了手机，娘儿俩都伤心地哭了

现在要不要再给女儿买？妈妈很纠结

“我要用悔不该当初来形容现在的心情，如今是进退两难！”南京来凤小区的张女士告诉扬子晚报记者，她的女儿上初一，以前为了方便联系，买了一部儿童手机，只能接打电话。

但后来女儿总说身边同学都用智能手机，而且用智能手机上网查学习资料。张女士一开始也很犹豫，她和丈夫商量后，觉得时代在发展，女儿的想法也有一定道理，使用智能手机查阅资料或许对学习有帮助。后来，就给女儿买了一部1000多元的智能机。女儿用上智能机后，很快玩上了微信、微博。

“我们觉得发微信微博也没什么不好，可如今情况越来越糟。”张女士说，女儿成绩直线下降，老师甚至发现她在课堂上玩手机。

张女士发现问题后，开始控制女儿使用手机。可女儿做作业时，时不时向她要手机说查阅资料，但有时却发现她在使用QQ或微信。

张女士问女儿怎么聊天了？女儿的回答是与同学交流学习问题。就这样，女儿学习的效率越来越低。前不久，发现女儿玩小游戏到凌晨，手机搜索痕迹有小说，点击开了发现女儿阅读的是“乱七八糟”的文章。就这样，为了手机母女俩多次争吵，最终一气之下，她将手机砸碎。

“砸了女儿的手机，娘儿俩都哭了，两个星期她都不搭理我，我也是心碎了。”张女士说，最近女儿一再向她保证好好学习，提出再买手机并承诺只用于查阅资料和同学圈交流。“我很纠结，就怕给她买了，她又无法控制。”张女士说。

在线小调查

禁止孩子用智能手机？并非都是反对声

两个例子，孩子都成了“手机控”让家长烦恼不已，那么在智能手机如此普及的当下，到底该不该给孩子使用智能手机呢？记者通过自己的朋友圈做了一个小调查。

中小学生该不该用智能手机？

这个线上小调查持续一个小时，参与投票的共有51人。A持反对意见的占到约84%。部分注明理由的家长认为，未成年学生对手机会有瘾，难控制，多数是用来娱乐。B完全赞成意见的家长有1例。这位家长认为智能手机是大势所趋，否则会与社会脱节。C条件支持的约14%，这部分家长认为，孩子使用智能手机需要附带条件，如果要用一定要知道孩子目的是什么，如果查学习资料是可以的。

老师意见

每次开家长会，都有许多家长向老师吐槽，孩子整天离不开手机，到底给不给孩子用？如何才能戒掉手机瘾？南京某高级中学年级组长、高级教师姜波说——

即使是用手机查资料，弊端也很大

姜波认为学生用智能手机唯一好处就是便于联系。

“查阅资料是幌子，我发现一些所谓的学习软件的题目和答案是互相抄袭，而且错误和错别字百出，习惯在网上找答案的学生就失去独立思考的能力，我强烈呼吁从小学到高中的学生远离智能手机。”姜波老师认为，习惯通过网络找答案的学生，使用工具书的习惯和能力会下降，而且学习效率很差，通常点击一个窗口，网上又弹出一个，学生们好奇心又强，无法控制阅读，以至于没法集中精力完成应该完成的功课。沉迷手机不利于健康，典型的就是视力下降，抬起头来才能看得更远，整天捧着手机造成一些学生面对面交流能力很差；有些家长怕孩子不使用智能机就会与社会脱节，这种担忧是没必要的，手机和电脑一样，一学就会，没必要天天捧着。手机网络有搜索功能，他们看的内容是否健康，家长难以监控。

让孩子戒手机瘾，家长要做好榜样

如何戒掉手机瘾？姜波老师说，要分情况，有的家长强势激进，对子女提出的要求不答应就是不答应，没收手机、关闭网络。有的学生早期教育就存在问题，家长在家中也没有树立权威的形象，做不到约法三章，即便没收手机、断了网络效果也不佳，有的家长经不住软磨硬泡，还是把手机还给他们。手机一砸，网络一关，会激发这类孩子的逆反心理和对智能手机更强烈的好奇心。比较好的做法是，家长自己不要整天低头玩手机，要巧妙地关闭家中网络，诸如更改密码、限制流量、限制话费，阅读名著坚持纸质阅读。要让孩子知道手机只不过是个工具和玩具，也不否认手机越来越好玩，但生活中有更精彩的东西，休息日家长多带孩子参加丰富多彩的户外活动，转移孩子对手机的注意力。

孩子心声

渴望得到尊重反感家长砸手机

扬子晚报记者也与一些中学生交流过，一些同学也坦言手机除了打电话和找答案外，基本都是用于娱乐，有时一玩就是一两个小时，家长也会对他们发火。

“比较反感父母语气强硬，更不能接受的是把手机砸了。”小刘同学说，有时玩手机不知不觉就到了深夜，也知道自己这样不好，但是爸爸冲进来的气势，让人难过。

小刘同学表示，就算自己犯了错，希望家长能用一个平等的语气交流。“进来就没收，就是不尊重，不信任”，小刘告诉记者。

老师的道理说得很到位，孩子的心声也应该听听。但您是否留意，同一个问题，孩子其实关注的和我们大人不在一个层次上。他们更在意家长在处理手机使用问题时的态度，而非用不用手机本身。

所以，我们想提醒家长的是，每个孩子都有各自的性格特点，家长更应该综合考虑自家孩子的情况，找到适合他们的沟通方式，处理好这个“手机难题”。