Test cell phones blocked, teenage runaways-exam in grade three, the Middle-IT information
"Son had already one days and nights away from home, I now finally understand that life is not a test to decide, the child's safety is the most important, MOM and dad love you! Looking forward to return! "A circle of friends in search of news affecting the heart of many users, because cell phones blocked a third boy running away from home, so far did not return.
June 18, at 11 o'clock, the reporter contacted the boy's father Chen Qingming, children run away from home, he said he was worried, and remorseful.
Chen Shih-hua experimental middle school in Urumqi to read will be supplemented by senior high school entrance examination on June 20. June 16 after coming home from school, he wrote a will the job require cell phones. Chen Qingming immediately stop, persuaded him to take the time to review. "There are tests in three days, Drake also wanted to play, I had criticized his remarks. "Chen Qingming recalls, see kids looking depressed I didn't say too much.
21:30, Drake was wearing a coat and walked out of the House. MOM's back as he left home, quickly ran out, but the Dragons walking fast, only a couple of minutes, he disappears without a trace.
"Didn't eat any dinner and had no money, really worried that he went out to meet the bad guys. "Then asked Chen Qingming around Drake's whereabouts, and friends said they did not see.
The morning of June 17, worried Chen Qingming went to school, found his son did not come to class, children run away from home after a trip to circle of friends spread. School dragons after teachers and students expressed concerns that have micro-credit, micro-blogging forward search information.
June 17, at 12 o'clock, Chen Qingming seven Bay police station. As of June 18, at 14 o'clock, Drake still no further news.
According to Chen Qingming introduction, dragons usually stay at home, and genial, than boys of the same age, he was more obedient to understand. When the little dragon on the first, second, and grades are above average in the class, entered the third day after the review stage, slight decrease in his study, parents discipline more strictly. However, approaching the entrance examination in recent months, Drake mood is not too stable, more positive attitude towards learning.
Sons run away from home, said Chen Qingming also reviewed, usually preach too much and too little communication, sufficient attention to children's inner world. "Son, come back, you want to go out and dad accompanied you to trip, something our family together to discuss and share. "Chen Qingming saying.
Expert: it will be parents and children the opportunity to grow together
June 17, at 13 o'clock, contacted the League school, adolescent psychologist Zhou Xiaoxi, an associate professor of the autonomous region of Xinjiang, after understanding what happened, she thinks that it will be the parents and children the opportunity to grow together, and gives suggestions to relieve stress.
Near the entrance examination, parents should pay attention to both, and to maintain equanimity. The study, parents should be reminded, discuss the tone of the review plan developed with children, appropriate arrangements for some releases, rest room. Emotionally, parents should try to take care of the children, not should be oriented to their anxiety, just criticism and preaching will have a superior attitude, causing pressure to children.
Candidates test leads, under pressure to make their own maturity. Ease the pressure to take the form of benefit to themselves, harmless to others, such as meditation, torn paper, loud singing, going out for a walk and so forth to give vent to their feelings. In addition, you can also try trouble delayed method, if something daring, nerves, can divert attention, force yourself to trouble about ten minutes, will gradually smooth mood.
"There are no perfect parents, no child is perfect, love is a deep understanding and acceptance, should learn to love wisdom, let us be behind forever family, love and power. "Zhou Xiaoxi said.
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手机受阻，初三少年离家出走 - 中考,中学生 - IT资讯
“儿子离家已经一天两夜了，我现在终于明白，人生不是一场中考能决定的，孩子的安全最重要，爸爸妈妈爱你！盼回！”一条在朋友圈里寻子的消息牵动了众多网友的心，一名初三男孩因玩手机受阻离家出走，至今未归。
6月18日11时，记者联系到男孩的父亲陈庆明，对孩子的离家出走，他表示十分担忧，又懊悔不已。
陈世龙在乌鲁木齐市华兵实验中学读初三，将于6月20日才加中考。6月16日放学回家后，他写了一会作业便要求玩手机。陈庆明立即上前阻止，劝他抓紧时间复习。“还有三天就中考了，小龙还想着玩，就忍不住批评了他几句。”陈庆明回忆道，看到孩子神情郁闷就没再多说。
21时30分许，小龙穿了件外套便径直出了家门。妈妈看到他离家的背影，急忙追了出去，但小龙走得飞快，仅仅两分钟时间，他便消失得无影无踪。
“晚饭都没吃，身上也没带钱，真担心他出去遇到坏人。”随后，陈庆明四处询问小龙的下落，亲朋好友们均表示没有看到。
6月17日一大早，心急如焚的陈庆明赶去学校，发现儿子没来上课，将孩子离家出走的经过发在朋友圈传播。校方得知小龙的事后，老师和同学都表示担心，纷纷在微信、微博转发寻人信息。
6月17日12时，陈庆明来到七道湾派出所报案。截止6月18日14时，小龙仍然音讯全无。
据陈庆明介绍，小龙平时不爱出门，性格温和，比起同龄的男孩子，他显得更听话懂事。小龙上初一、初二时，学习成绩在班里属于中等偏上，进入初三复习阶段后，他的学习略有下降，父母因此管教更加严格。然而，临近中考的这几个月，小龙的情绪不太稳定，学习态度愈加不积极。
对于儿子的离家出走，陈庆明表示自己也进行了反思，平时说教过多而沟通太少，对孩子的内心世界关心不足。“儿子快回来吧，你想出去散心爸爸陪你去，有事我们一家人一起商量，共同面对。”陈庆明说。
专家：中考是家长和孩子共同成长的机会
6月17日13时，记者联系了新疆自治区团校副教授、青少年心理专家周小西，了解了事情经过后，她认为中考是家长和孩子共同成长的机会，并分别给出了减压的建议。
临近中考时期，家长的态度应当既重视，又保持平常心。学习上，家长应以提醒、商量的语气与孩子共同制定复习计划，适当安排一些释放、休息的空间。情绪上，家长要尽量照顾孩子，不应以自己的焦虑为导向，一味地批评和说教会有一种高高在上的姿态，给孩子造成压迫感。
考生是中考的主角，在承受压力的同时也要让自己逐渐成熟。缓解压力要采取对自己有利、对他人无害的方式，比如冥想、撕纸壳、大声歌唱、外出散步等等来宣泄情绪。此外，还可以试试烦恼推迟的方法，如果在某事某刻感到烦躁，可以转移注意力，强制自己将烦恼的事忘记十分钟，会使情绪逐渐平稳。
“天下没有完美的父母，也没有完美的孩子，爱是深深的理解与接受，应当学会智慧地表达爱，让彼此受到背后永远有亲人的爱与力量。”周小西说。