Ignorance good or into eternal pain _ news

Author: Fu Dali

In city of overpasses on, and underground channel among, often will see ragged, kneeling to hard kowtow of beggars; railway station waiting room, occasionally will has took with disability proved of people, one by one to waiting of passengers motioned giving; Metro line Shang, or elderly, and or woman, with infant in the of baby, side play or singing sensational music, side random to money...... As above, surely we all witnessed, or familiar.

Faced with this scene, a lot of people surging spread of compassion, charity. Immediately the generosity, go all out to help. Who would have thought those disabled and disadvantaged groups, many of which are disguised masters, some of them stood up and quickly caught up with Yao Ming, Liu Xiang run game. More beggars to passing pedestrians make up their own tragic and bizarre stories, in Exchange for public compassion.

In fact, they trick isn't superior. But they did seize the good kind donor psychology, easily won the "success". Outrageous is that every night when these crooks get carried away and put on a suit and tie, use irregular channels lie to contributions to consumption of high-end hotels, dance hall, recreation.

"Born with Hao Li Yan", "born with hate evil". Since ancient times, that is, "in the beginning" is "good" or "evil" of discussion and analysis. Fake beggars on the street deception constantly, it is not difficult to find, many professional beggars, usually Prime, has hands feet, is a very good labor, but not complacent, don't go the right way, by dishonourable, disguised as beggars, even pretending to be a death of a loved one this way, cheating the goodness in people, winning the sympathy of others, and unashamedly "begging for money." Our country's social assistance system has been relatively healthy, but professional beggars pretending to win the sympathy of pedestrians on the street are still repeated, and even much more potential. These cling to urban blight, bugs, seriously undermining our social customs. Moreover, trafficking in children, savagery inflicted upon their bodies, after disabling to around, using poor children to beg for money, to embark on "road to riches". Such heinous acts not only infringe the penal law, broke through the line of human civilization.

A kind, it is a great virtue, but goodness, there is no principle of good, it will become a folly, a kind of connivance. Abduction mutilation of children, forced begging scam, which is a serious crime against humanity, but it is a cruel reality. Why does this bloody thing repeated to no end? "The money came fast and simple" this is the real answer when beggars face. Visible behind it are driven by powerful interests. So, the kind of "charity", your kindness, compassion, exactly what kind of impact on society? Begging for money is contributed scam this behavior, and even let some criminals to take the risk of trafficking, abuse of children begging, resulted in families heart "forever pain"! Good man, really need to kind eyes, because goodness line and principles are needed. If not, we will give those opportunities, it is not real charity, but rather in contributing to a vile evil.

Good "degree", but "intellectual." To those waiting for the pie in the sky, do not stand on their own feet, but by no market con-trick, how to correctly distinguish between poverty and deception, to true to help for the poor, the fraudsters have nowhere to hide, it requires not only a personal awakening, also required the parties to work together. Care good, not so good chilling, limit evil to humanity by evil for good. Whether it is moral, or legal norms, the establishment of rules and regulations, are scientific, reasonable, keep up with the times, adjust, and improve, to good and evil, order and justice, righteous. Wicked harsh punishment and punishment, cannot produce any deterrent effects; and for good without good care and cultivation, you cannot achieve a virtuous cycle of building a harmonious society. So, good needs social system, especially the last line of Defense protecting the law, so as to truly promote the positive energy community to eliminate violent negative energy.

In addition to the kind of charity is a kind of being deceived, there is also a kind of foolishness that it is even more terrible. Such as a relative, friend, committed a crime, but you hide. To help him, is harbored, is no kind of the bottom line. The result is not only not helping him, but also his own. He not only will eventually be brought to justice, and himself to be implicated. If you initially can remain calm and alert, he offered to surrender, and might even get lighter treatment.

In addition, we are in the world, always with people. What are friends for, at least respect each other, help each other. Sometimes people ask for your help, but beyond the scope of their abilities, still go all out, although this is humane, and there is considerate, but also need to have a degree. Because each person's ability is limited, and without that strength, "bent over backwards" to do, and makes it difficult to maintain, and even to go to the trouble to other friends, how can it! Moreover, your pay, it is often difficult to achieve results of patient gratitude. These phenomena, similarly worthy of reflection, awareness. Moreover, such practices are not sustainable.

Kind of foolishness could become a permanent pain. This is not to say not to good, but rather that people kind of have, bottomline limited more to wisdom. In fact, whatever you do, do all bottom limit. Helping others to lose. Everyone should not care too much about perfect, because the pursuit of more tangled more and will have more pain. In real life, some sickness, even death is inevitable. All we do, just not despair despite the difficulties and setbacks, in the face of hope and good will never give up. Who does his own life Director. So, we hope to have more scientific and reasonable, keeping pace with the rules and regulations, laws and regulations, good and evil, promote positive energy. We need to remind ourselves and the people around him, so that the "kind of foolishness" disappears and is no longer a "permanent pain." (Fu Dali)

Source: the light network

Responsible editor: Mao Minmin SN184

愚昧的善良或成永远的痛_新闻资讯

　　作者：傅大利

　　在城市的过街天桥之上、地下通道之中，经常会看到衣衫褴褛，跪地卖力磕头的乞丐；火车站候车室，偶尔会有拿着残疾证明的人，逐一向等候的乘客示 意布施；地铁线上，或老人、或女子，带着襁褓中的婴儿，一边播放或演唱煽情音乐，一边随机要钱……如上场景，想必大家都亲眼见过，或者似曾相识。

　　面对此情此景，很多人同情心泛滥、慈善情涌动。马上慷慨解囊、倾力相助。可谁会想道，那些看似残疾的弱势群体，很多都是伪装高手，他们有的站起来快赶上姚明，有的跑起来赛过刘翔。更有假乞丐，向过往的行人编造自己的悲惨离奇故事，来换取公众的怜悯。

　　其实，这些人的骗术并不高超。但他们却抓住善良人好心捐助的心理，轻而易举便获得“成功”。令人气愤的是，每到夜深人静的时候，这些骗子还得意忘形，换上西装、打上领带，用非正常渠道骗来的捐款，去高档酒店、歌舞厅消费、消遣。

　　“生而有好利焉”、“生而有疾恶焉”。自古至今，即有“人之初”究竟是“性本善”还是“性本恶”的讨论、辨析。街头假乞丐行骗现象不断上演，不 难发现，很多职业乞丐，他们通常正值壮年，有手有脚，是非常好的劳动力，但却不思进取，不走正道，以旁门左道、假扮乞丐，甚至还冒充亲人去世这种极端方 式，欺骗路人的善良，博得他人的同情，恬不知耻地“乞讨赚钱”。其实我们国家的社会救助制度已经相对健全，但街头职业乞丐假扮博取行人同情的现象依旧屡禁 不止，甚至大有愈演愈烈之势。这些黏附于城市的毒瘤、病菌，严重破坏了我们的社会风气。更有甚者，竟然拐卖儿童，惨无人道地摧残他们的肢体，致残后带到各 地，利用可怜的孩子去行乞讨钱，从而走上“致富之路”。这种令人发指的行为不仅触犯刑法，更突破了人类文明的底线。

　　一个人善良，本来是一种很好的美德，但是一味的善良，毫无原则的善良，就会变成一种愚昧、一种纵容。拐卖残害儿童，逼其乞讨骗钱，这是违背人道 的严重犯罪行为，但却是残忍的真实存在。为什么这样血淋淋的事会一再发生，没有止境？“钱来得快、简单”这是行乞者面对警察时的真实回答。可见，这背后有 强大的利益驱动。那么，好心的“布施者”，你们的善良、同情，到底对社会产生了什么样的影响？是不是助长了乞讨骗钱这种行为，甚至让一些不法之徒铤而走险 拐卖、残害儿童去行乞，造成多少家庭心头“永远的痛”！好心的人，真的需要擦亮善良的眼睛，因为善良也需要底线和原则。不然的话，就会给那些骗子有可乘之 机，这就不是真正的施舍，反倒是在助长其下流的恶行。

　　善良有“度”，更要有“智”。如何让那些坐等天上掉馅饼，不自食其力，而是靠行骗伎俩的人没有市场，如何正确区分贫困与骗术，给真贫者以帮助、让行骗者 无处藏身，这不仅需要个人的醒悟，还需各方共同努力。呵护善良，不让善良心寒；限制恶行，才能将人性由恶引向善。无论是道德教化，还是法律规范，规章制度 的设立，都要科学、合理，紧跟时代发展，有所调整、完善，才能惩恶扬善、匡扶正义、弘扬正气。对恶行没有严厉的处罚与惩治，达不到以儆效尤的效果；而对善 行没有精心呵护与培养，则无法实现建设和谐社会的良性循环。所以，善良需要社会制度，特别是法律最后一道防线的保护，这样才能真正弘扬社会的正能量，消除 暴戾的负能量。

　　除了好心的施舍是一种被蒙蔽的善良，还有一种愚昧的善良，则更为可怕。比如一个亲戚、朋友，犯了罪，却到你这里躲藏。帮助他，就是窝藏，就是无 底线的善良。其结果，不仅不是在帮他，反倒还害了自己。不仅他最终会受到法律的制裁，自己也要受到牵连。如果最初能保持冷静和清醒，让他主动投案，或许还 能得到从轻的处理。

　　此外，我们身在人世，总要与人交流。什么是朋友，起码要相互尊重、互相帮助。有时别人求你帮忙，可是却超出自己的能力范围，自己还依然全力以 赴，这虽然是有情有义、是知恩图报，但同时还需要掌握一个度。因为每个人的能力都是有限的，如果没有这个实力，却“两肋插刀”去做，结果使得自己难以维 持，甚至还要再去给别的朋友添麻烦，这怎么可以！况且，你这么大的付出，却往往难以实现求助者感恩的结果。这些现象，同样值得反思、警觉。更何况，这样的 做法，根本是不可持续的。

　　愚昧的善良可能成为永远的痛。这并不是说做人不要善良，而是说人的善良要有度，要有底限，更要有智慧。其实无论做什么、干什么，都要有底限。帮 助别人，一样要量力而行。每个人都不应该太在乎完美，因为追求的越多，纠结越多，也就有更多的痛苦。现实生活中，有些病痛，甚至生老病死都是难免的。我们 要做的，只是面对困难和挫折不悲观失望，面对希望和美好绝不轻言放弃。人，必须做好自己生命的导演。所以，我们希望能够拥有更加科学、合理，与时俱进的规 章制度、法律规范，惩恶扬善，弘扬正能量。我们更有必要告诫自己和身边的人，让“愚昧的善良”消失，不再成为“永远的痛”。（傅大利）

　　来源：光明网

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