Man dating sites female NET friend entanglement: make hundreds of calls a night-dating sites, users-IT information
Met a girl through the dating sites, even the face is never seen, but being identified as "destiny", after the man refused to put forward, in a year-long, frequently being the woman of "harassment", and even close friends are frequently suffer. At its peak, the woman gave the man a night more than 100 telephone calls, which are hurting marine (not his real name) in pain.
Dating online to meet older women
32 years old ocean, a construction engineer, as a result of work, girls rarely have access to the opposite sex. In order to find the right girlfriend as early as 2010, he is an account registered on the dating site dating.
Last May, he met through the website in the 35-year-old yan of Xian (not his real name). "At the beginning we leave each of the phone, I understand, know each other's work and some basic information, she gradually took a liking to me in the chat, often telling me and felt I would be in her life who would go to the trouble. "The marine said, because look at the other photos had no eye margin, gradually feeling each other in the communication a little bit paranoid, did not meet with her.
Refused were "harassment"
Know a month after marine clear that inappropriate in terms of both character and hope that no longer connect. His thought is, she not only did not listen, instead of attacking him more crazy "offensive".
"The woman contact me in various ways, worse than before, make phone calls, send text messages, can think the way she wanted to, the most crazy, to play more than 100 telephone calls a night. "The marine said, now Xian to see the strange number and he couldn't answer.
Yesterday morning, reporters at the marine on the phone and saw Xiao yan sent part of his message. "You don't answer the phone I have been calling, free," "you owe me, generation owes me, have to find you in this life", Ocean no response, he said, "the other texting every day, one year, hiding hiding away. "Marine police, but this harassment, the police station and can't handle, it is does not know how to be good.
She said just have problems communicating
At noon yesterday, according to the marine's phone number, reporter contacted a small leap. Xiao yan said, "we are met on a dating website, known to date more than a year, is not met, the two are friends, going in the direction of male and female friends. ”
Responding to harassment of marine, Xiao yan said, "we just approach to communication problems, there is no harassment of marine. ”
In this regard, the reporter consulted kinsmart what lawyers in a law firm. What lawyers say such things belong to the category of civil, if other cases of harassment and defamation, can bring the matter to the Court, before the proceedings, call records and text messages and other evidence should be kept.
男子遭婚恋网站女网友纠缠：一晚打上百电话 - 婚恋网站,网友 - IT资讯
通过婚恋网站认识了一个女生，连面都没见过，却被对方认定为“真命天子”，男方提出拒绝交往后，在长达一年时间里，频频遭到女方“骚扰”，甚至连身边的朋友都频频遭殃。最多时，女方一晚要给男方打100多个电话，这让深受其害的海洋（化名）痛苦不堪。
婚恋网上认识大龄女子
今年32岁的海洋，是一名建筑工程师，因为工作的缘故，平时很少能接触到异性女生。为了找到心仪的女友，早在2010年他就在一家婚恋网站上注册账号交友。
去年5月份，他通过网站认识了在西安工作的35岁小闫（化名）。“刚开始我们互留了电话，进行初步了解，也互相知道了对方的工作单位和一些基本情况，女方在聊天中渐渐对我产生了好感，时常告诉我，越来越感觉我会是她一辈子都会去麻烦的人。”海洋说，因为看对方照片没有眼缘，在逐渐沟通中又感觉对方的性格有些偏执，就没有跟女方见面。
拒绝后频遭对方“骚扰”
在认识一个月后，海洋明确提出，两人性格等方面不合适，希望以后不再联系了。令他没想到的是，女方不但没听，反而更疯狂地向他发起“攻势”。
“女方通过各种方式跟我联系，比以前更变本加厉，打电话，发短信，能想到的办法她都想了，最疯狂时，一晚上要打100多个电话。”海洋说，现在凡是见到西安的陌生号码他都不敢接听。
昨日上午，记者在海洋的手机上，看到了小闫发给他的部分短信内容。“你不接电话我一直打，有空就打”“你就是欠我，上辈子欠我，这辈子一定要找你”，海洋基本不予回复，他说，“对方天天发短信，一年时间了，躲都躲不及。”海洋报过警，但这种电话骚扰，派出所也无法处理，实属不知如何是好。
女方称只是沟通有问题
昨日中午，根据海洋提供的电话号码，记者联系上了小闫。小闫称，“我们确实是在婚恋网站上相识，认识至今一年多，没有见过面，两人是朋友，正在往男女朋友的方向发展。”
对于海洋提出的骚扰问题，小闫说，“我们只是沟通方式上出了问题，并没有骚扰海洋。”
就此事，记者咨询了智冠律师事务所的何律师。何律师表示，这类事情属于民事范畴，如果海洋觉得对方有骚扰和诽谤的情况，可以向法院提起诉讼，在提出诉讼之前，应保留通话记录和短信等方面的证据。