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Ling Tong, male, born in 1958, originally named Xu, in 1961 by the adoptive parents from the Suzhou huqiu baoyang to Yu Xin an Zhen.



Bu Liansong, male, was born on January 15, 1958, originally known as Yuan Xu, on October 23, 1961 from the Suzhou huqiu baoyang to Yu Xin an Zhen. The head has a small scar on the left side.



Xu Bing, male, born November 22, 1960, the original name. On January 23, 1961 from the Suzhou huqiu baoyang to Yu Xin an Zhen. Have a circular scar on the right side of the head, and left thigh root moles.



Hui Kanglun, male, born in 1959, came from Suzhou huqiu, baoyang time is unknown.



Hui Meijun, male, born on September 9, 1957, formerly known as Li Feng, on October 23, 1961 from the Suzhou huqiu baoyang to Yu Xin an Zhen. Have a mole after his neck, left inner thigh had birthmarks.



Fang g-z, female, born February 19, 1959, formerly known as Jiang Pei. On October 23, 1961 from the Suzhou huqiu baoyang to Yu Xin an Zhen.



Zhang Shujun, male, was born around 1960, time unknown. On July 18, 1961 from the Suzhou huqiu baoyang to Yu Xin an Zhen.



Hui Meiyou, male, born April 8, 1957, formerly known as Tang Liang, from the Suzhou huqiu baoyang.

"We now live a happy life, just want to find them, make some arrangement......" in guannan County in Lianyungang, Ling Tong on the modern Express Reporter, 58, said. More than 50 years ago, "three years of difficult times", many Suzhou foundling adopted by Yu, Yu Xin an Zhen Xin min communities only have at least 9, Ling Tong was one of them.

Adoptive parents have died, more than 50 years old they have grandchildren, but the root idea more strongly. A few years ago, 8-bit has the same story uncle aunt and 1 on the road to tracing. It is regrettable that, still without their loved ones whereabouts.

/ZAKER Nanjing modern Express Reporter

Wang Xiaoyu song prose/photo

　　More than 50 years ago

They were adopted from Suzhou to Yu

Lexus through the original XING Xu, Suzhou. In 1961, 4, guannan County, Lianyungang, Ling Tong being adoptive parents to, and since then has been living in Yu Xin an Zhen.

"Childhood play with neighborhood children, play up, they call me a hug to the child, later heard neighbors say, but doubtful. "Lexus says, parents have added to their love, hold whenever someone called him a" wild child ", door to the theory, the" don't allow others to say that. " Also for this reason, even though Laura Ling Tong had a sense that his complex, but does not mind.

Ling Tong has a sister, is also a foster parent adoption. A few years ago, 83 years after mother's death, his sister through various relationships in Huaian lianshui found his biological parents. It inspired the idea of Lexus through tracing, in support of their families, who are on their way to search.

And Laura Ling Tong experienced, Fang Guizhen was also the adoptive parents in three years from Suzhou baoyang for tough times. However, the mystery of her story has long been in the open. "When I graduated from junior high school to work in a radio factory, and later home to the objects I introduced a rural, I don't want to because it disagreed with them. "Fang Guizhen said, because no obedience to parents views on marriage, adoptive mother gets mad out Fang Guizhen was adopted from Suzhou's secret. Later, Chiang Fang Guizhen, who married a local family, the adoptive parents were story cards.

Baoyang of someone's child, neighbors will talk about in private, and it is through this channel, Ling Tong Fang Guizhen was informed that when adopted by Yu Suzhou children far more than the two of them, Xin an Zhen Xin min neighborhood had at least 9, while in other towns, and residents ' committees have similar situations. "I guess there are two hundred or three hundred. "Lexus says.

Public reports indicate that more than 50 years ago, three years of hard times, at least 50,000 "South of abandoned children" scattered around, and many of them even baoyang to northern cities.

It is understood that the earliest baoyang to Suzhou Xin an Zhen boy named Mr Sun Jianguo. Sun Jianguo's father was a Barber, due to contact with more people, since he introduced some childless families have to Suzhou baoyang abandoned on the ground.

　　Foster parents after his death

On the road to tracing

On August 30, Xin an Zhen Ling tongjia in guannan County, learned that express reporter came to interview, another 8 "Suzhou outcast" by design. It is understood that all 9 of them are foster parents adopted from Suzhou to before and after 1960, now both be close on sixty years of age. They were adopted after Yu, has been very well taken care of. Also for this reason, even though they already know life, but due to the adoptive parents, did not rush to search. After the parents die, they "tour tracing".

"I'm the only child in the family, and they had no child, so to Suzhou baoyang I. "59 Hui Meijun told reporters, as conservative, adoptive parents take him back home, does not want him to know life. Since then, although vaguely know the secrets of life from the neighbouring, but mindful of the kindness of foster parents, he never initiate. Until mother died, Hui Meijun confirm mystery of life from its mouth.

Many years ago, when Ling Tong Fang Guizhen and life were neighbors when, Hui Kanglun and the Bu Liansong, and Hui Meijun, and Hui Meiyou, Zhang Shujun, Sun Jianguo and Xu Bing, into, but also because of "the wild child" identity bullied by children of the same age.

In fact, by adoptive parents died early, 59, of Hui Meiyou searching for birth parents as early as 1986 to Suzhou. It is regrettable that, and no results. In 2002, that neighbor Fang Guizhen, Hui Meijun, Bu Liansong 3 men to Suzhou after abandoned children, Hui Meiyou tracing with them, and then write to Suzhou City Civil Affairs Bureau, an orphanage and several media for help. Although no relatives were found, but they are, Suzhou City Civil Affairs Bureau, said in a letter, has helped them find adoption records. Among them, their original name and adoption times were recorded.

Hui Meijun says this email of the Civil Affairs Bureau, Suzhou hardened their determination to locate. After that, they have 4 people contacted Ling Tong, 5.

It was from that moment on, Uncle Yu 8 and 1 aunt, to work together on the road to tracing.

　　Understanding biological parents

Never blame them

Fang Guizhen introduction, mother told her, was abandoned by her biological parents, because hard times won't support will be less kids, "so I understand them, never blame them. ”

After the family, Fang Guizhen gave birth to two sons, and later baoyang a girl. Today, the three children were married. The coincidence is, their daughter and two sons are settled in Suzhou. In Fang Guizhen's view, this is her and untied the fate of Suzhou.

9, Laura Ling Tong for tracing out the run up, besides participating in tracing around outside of the General Assembly, when they hear any news, he tried to contact. After he hung up the tracing of information networks, there have been more than 40 years old female and his contacts, also sent a family photo, "her house is three brothers, one looks to me like we found the name, blood type, and abandonment of the time, only depending on which this information is not sent to the orphanage of the police station on it. "Lexus says, this is probably his closest relatives, it is regrettable that, later, and linked up with each other.

Tracing roads for many years, full of hardships, but at 9 "Suzhou outcast" eyes, if you can find their roots, these are nothing. Their life is good now, tracing is also very simple, they say: "we want to know where the birth parents, after all, they are the birth a person. We don't blame our parents, I just want to do a little honor. ”

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9名“苏州弃儿”50年后集体寻亲:想尽点孝心|苏州弃儿|寻亲|饥荒_新闻资讯

八位寻亲的大叔



凌志通，男，1958年生，原名徐产，1961年被养父母从苏州虎丘抱养至灌南新安镇。



　　卜连松，男，1958年1月15日出生，原名袁旭，1961年10月23日从苏州虎丘被抱养至灌南新安镇。头部左侧有一小疤痕。



　　徐兵成，男，1960年11月22日生，原姓毛。1961年1月23日从苏州虎丘被抱养至灌南新安镇。头部右侧有圆形疤痕，左大腿根部有黑痣。



惠康伦，男，1959年生，来自苏州虎丘，具体被抱养时间不详。



　　惠美俊，男，1957年9月9日生，原名李凤，1961年10月23日从苏州虎丘被抱养至灌南新安镇。其脖后有一颗黑痣，左大腿内侧有胎记。



方桂珍，女，1959年2月19日生，原名蒋佩。1961年10月23日从苏州虎丘被抱养至灌南新安镇。



张树军，男，1960年前后出生，具体时间不详。1961年7月18日从苏州虎丘被抱养至灌南新安镇。



惠美友，男，1957年4月8日出生，原名唐亮，从苏州虎丘被抱养。

　　“我们现在的生活很幸福，就是想找到他们，尽一点孝心……”在连云港灌南县家中，58岁的凌志通对现代快报记者说。50多年前的“三年困难时期”，不少苏州弃儿被灌南人领养，仅灌南新安镇新民社区就有至少9个，凌志通是其中之一。

　　养父母相继离世，50多岁的他们也已有了儿孙，但寻根的想法愈加强烈。几年前，8位有着相同身世的大叔和1位大妈走上寻亲之路。遗憾的是，至今仍无亲人下落。

　　现代快报/ZAKER南京记者

　　王晓宇 宋体佳 文/摄

　　50多年前

　　他们从苏州被领养到灌南

　　凌志通原姓徐，苏州人。1961年，4岁的凌志通被养父母带至连云港灌南县，此后便一直在灌南新安镇生活。

　　“小 时候跟邻居家小孩一起玩，打闹起来，他们就骂我是抱来的孩子，后来也听邻居这样讲，但一直半信半疑。”凌志通说，养父母对自己疼爱有加，每次有人骂他是抱 来的“野孩子”，都会上门去理论，“不允许其他人那么说”。也正因此，尽管那时凌志通已隐约感觉到自己身世的复杂，但并未放在心上。

　　凌志通有个姐姐，同样是养父母领养的。几年前，83岁的养母过世后，他的姐姐通过各种关系，在淮安涟水找到了自己的亲生父母。这件事激发了凌志通寻亲的想法，在获得家人支持后，他也踏上了寻亲之路。

　　和 凌志通的遭遇一样，方桂珍也是养父母在三年困难时期从苏州抱养的。不过，她的身世之谜很早就被揭开了。“我初中毕业后就在无线电厂上班，后来家里给我介绍 了一个农村的对象，我不愿意，因为这个跟他们产生了分歧。”方桂珍说，因为在婚姻问题上没有顺从养父母的意见，养母一生气就说出了方桂珍是从苏州领养的秘 密。后来，方桂珍嫁到当地一蒋姓人家，养父母也就将其身世和盘托出。

　　谁家抱养了孩子，邻居私下都会议论，也正是通过这个渠道，凌志通与方桂珍得知，当年被灌南人领养的苏州孩子远不止他们两个，单新安镇新民居委会就有至少9个，而在其他乡镇和居委会有类似情况。“我估计得有两三百个。”凌志通说。

　　公开报道显示，50多年前，三年困难时期，至少有5万名“江南弃儿”星散各地，其中不少甚至被抱养至北方城市。

　　而据了解，最早被抱养到新安镇的苏州男孩名叫孙建国。孙建国的养父是个理发匠，因为接触人比较多，此后经他介绍，当地一些无嗣家庭陆续前往苏州抱养弃儿。

　　养父母离世后

　　踏上寻亲之路

　　8 月30日，在灌南县新安镇凌志通家中，得知快报记者来采访，另外8名“苏州弃儿”特意赶来。据了解，他们9人全部都是养父母1960年前后从苏州领养来 的，如今都已年近花甲。他们被领养到灌南后，都受到了很好的照顾。也正因此，尽管他们早已知晓身世，但碍于养父母的感受，并未急于寻亲。在养父母离世后， 他们才“组团寻亲”。

　　“我是家里唯一的孩子，他们没有生养，所以到苏州抱养了我。”59岁的惠美俊向记者透露，因观念保守，养父母将他 领回家后，并不希望他知道身世。此后，尽管从邻居口中隐约得知了身世的秘密，但念及养父母的恩情，他也从未主动提起。直到养母去世前，惠美俊才从其口中证 实身世之谜。

　　多年前，当凌志通和方桂珍的身世被邻居们议论时，惠康伦、卜连松、惠美俊、惠美友、张树军、孙建国和徐兵成，也因“野孩子”身份受到同龄孩子的欺负。

　　实 际上，因养父母过世较早，59岁的惠美友早在1986年就到苏州寻找过亲生父母。遗憾的是，此行并没有结果。2002年，在得知邻居方桂珍、惠美俊、卜连 松3人同为苏州弃儿后，惠美友与他们一同寻亲，并于当年给苏州市民政局、孤儿院以及多家媒体写信求助。虽然没有找到亲人，但令他们兴奋的是，苏州市民政局 在回函中称，已帮他们找到领养档案。其中，他们原本的姓名以及被领养时间均记录在案。

　　惠美俊称，苏州市民政局的这封回函更坚定了他们寻亲的决心。在此之后，他们4人又相继联系到凌志通等5人。

　　正是从那时候起，灌南这8位大叔和1位大妈，携手踏上寻亲之路。

　　很理解亲生父母

　　从没怪过他们

　　方桂珍介绍，养母曾告诉她，亲生父母之所以将她遗弃，是因为困难时期家里实在养活不了那么多孩子，“所以我很理解他们，也从没怪过他们。”

　　成家以后，方桂珍先后生了两个儿子，后来又抱养了一个女孩。如今，三个孩子均已成家。巧合的是，其女儿和二儿子都在苏州安家。在方桂珍看来，这是她和苏州解不开的缘分。

　　在 9人中，凌志通为寻亲在外奔走最多，除了多次参加各地寻亲大会外，只要听到什么消息，他都会想尽办法去联系。在将自己的信息挂上寻亲网之后，曾有个40多 岁的女子主动和他联系，还发来一家人的照片，“她家是兄弟三个，其中一个跟我长得很像，我们的姓、血型以及遗弃时间都对上了，只有具体由哪个派出所送到孤 儿院这个信息没对上。”凌志通说，这可能是他最接近亲人的一次，遗憾的是，后来与对方又联系不上了。

　　多年寻亲路，充满艰辛，但在9名“苏州弃儿”眼里，如果能找到自己的根，这些都不算什么。他们现在的生活很好，寻亲目的也非常简单，用他们的话说：“我们想知道亲生父母在哪儿，毕竟他们是生育我们的人。我们不怪父母，只想尽点孝心。”

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