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"China's top ten singles enclave, after Tianjin, Sichuan, China ranked second. ”

This is a survey of popular singles in the network a few days ago the results. Correspondingly, many reproduce press has published a National Civil Affairs Bureau, said, "China has nearly 200 million number of single men and women", "China's population living alone has risen from 6% in 1990 to 14.6% 2013."

Reporters contacted Sichuan Civil Affairs Department on the related data failed, but as China's fourth single the tide coming, increasingly large groups live in solitude is saw – various popular dating sites, dating show no evidence.

China's single list "second" of this "award", our correspondent has also consulted relevant experts, and to explore the causes of single boomers. Only in terms of experience and feelings, Chengdu city Association for family education expert, Li's view is a psychological intervention consultant--"Sichuan single population is increasing, and more women than men. ”

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Dating site investigations over 80% of men and women "fear of love"

This year, a dating site has a sample of China's 90 million members. Survey found that over 80% singles "love phobia", in fear of love group, 54% of people caused by the bad love experience "fear of love", 36% of the people affected by the side effects of failure examples of love and marriage, 10% of people because of divorce or family bland.

"Single, will be more choices. "Former head of dating sites, Qu Wei, said in an interview yesterday, as early as at the beginning of 21st century, merchants noted increasing single population, began dating sites. Then, in 2008, the single population reached a peak of, but many people do not realize. Since then, with the 2010 TV dating columns and dating websites hot, everyone realized that single men and women are so common in China.

Qu Wei believes that within the city, single women more, and in the context of rural, single men more. For single men and women, and most of the people still looking for partners, there are some swaying in the marriage and wedding, and a small group of people is definitely not married. Single men and women, and the urgent desire of marriage 30-40. Single men and women over the age of 40 are more likely to become "the ultimate singles."

"The concept of single men and women will continue to change. "Qu Wei said that overall, women looking for more than 20 years old, which leads with age, single female mate requirements become more and more low. For men, 30-40, charm in value, leading to single males increased with age, further improve the partner's standards.

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Singles is a phenomenon does not require correction

"Before the age of 30 at the marriage stage, men and women even if there is no object of that stage, also in search for objects. "Chengdu city family education experts, the Association for psychological intervention counselor Li believes that genuine singles should be defined after the age of 30. Single undergraduate degree or above more prominent, they have their own ambition in life, marriage has a lot of emotional needs. And now many dating survey, it was based on a sample of this group. In this group than any other single group more importance to emotional satisfaction, "probably account for the ratio of 60%".

Li believes that love and marriage at the age of 28 solid form before. During the 12-18 phase, the initial marriage form, during this period, family atmosphere the most. Then, at the age of 18-28 years after puberty, emotional experience, under the influence of a combination of factors such as their own conditions, opportunities, basic forms of marriage. Causes of single complex, each individual case is different. Worth noting is that after 85 and after the, a post-modern view of marriage has been formed, believe that marriage is no longer a necessity. Li stressed that the single is just a phenomenon does not need correction.

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Within Sichuan, single women outnumber men

"Sichuan single population is increasing, and more women than men. "Li explains, this comes from his survey of the dating website, number of persons counselled and his intuitive feeling. He said, with the elevation of women's economic empowerment, marriage made a source of less, women are more likely to find a soul mate, and before the right does not appear, is not willing to "on".

Single women are mainly divided into never been married and divorced categories. No experience of marriage and single women are less likely to consult experts, past emotional experiences become single of them major. Divorce group, single women more prominent. Most divorced women, divorce will remarry after 3 years, it is hard to meet after divorce, women who marry again within three months. Unlike the many men in divorce after two years, you will find object again, and even marriage.

Qu Wei said, "not really aware of their needs" single women a major factor. If single women just want to find a favorite, or the overall good of the other party, it would not be difficult to do. More single women having the comprehensive pursuit of emotional and economic conditions. Some women feel less demanding, for example, members of Ms LI, just looking for a nice guy to me. Really recommend good character, she does not accept.

"They are not a forked tongue. "Qu Wei said, in fact, they are not clear what kind of person they want. Many older men and women will suddenly Flash, to a large extent, but also "suddenly realize their position."

This huaxi City newspaper reporter Mao Yuting

(Original title: China's "single list" of Sichuan came second? ）

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中国十大单身聚集地排名:天津第一 北京第九|单身|单身男女_新闻资讯
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　　“中国十大单身聚集地中，四川仅次于天津，位居中国第二。”

　　这是一项日前风行于网络的单身调查所给出的结果。与之相应，不少转载媒体还刊出了国家民政局相关数据称，“中国单身男女人数已近2亿”，“中国的独居人口已从1990年的6%上升至2013年的14.6%”。

　　记者虽就此向四川民政部门查证相关数据未果，但随着中国第四次单身潮的到来，单身独居群体日益庞大却是眼见的事实——各种火爆的婚恋网站，相亲节目无不予以了佐证。

　　而就中国单身榜“榜眼”这一“殊荣”，本报记者亦征询了相关专家，并探求了单身潮的成因。仅就从业经历及感受而言，成都市家庭教育促进会专家、心理干预咨询师李旭东给出的看法是——“四川单身人口确实在逐年增多，其中又以女性居多。”

　　单身如潮

　　婚恋网站调查，超八成男女“恐爱”

　　今年，一家婚恋网站曾对中国9000万会员进行了抽样调查。调查发现，超八成单身男女有“恋爱恐惧症”，在恐恋族群中，54%的人因糟糕恋爱经历导致“恐恋”，36%的人受身边人失败婚恋例子的影响，10%的人因父母离异或对家庭亲情寡淡。

　　“单身，将会成为更多人的选择。”前婚恋网站负责人瞿伟昨日在接受记者采访时说，早在21世纪初，商家注意到单身人口增多，就开始兴起婚恋网站。随后，2008年，单身人口达到一个高峰期，但很多人并没意识到。此后，随着2010年，电视相亲栏目及婚恋网站的红火，大家才意识到，原来中国单身男女已经如此普遍。

　　瞿伟认为，城市范围内，单身女性更多，而在农村范围内，单身男性更多。对于单身男女而言，大部分人依然在寻觅伴侣，还有部分在不婚和要婚中摇摆，而少部分人则是绝对的不婚主义。单身男女中，又以30-40岁的结婚欲望最为迫切。40岁以上的单身男女更容易成为“终极单身者”。

　　“单身男女的择偶观会不断变化。”瞿伟称，总体而言，20多岁的女性最好找对象，这导致随着年龄增长，单身女性的择偶要求变得越来越低。而对男性而言，30至40岁，魅力却在增值，这导致单身男性会随着年龄的增高，进一步提升对伴侣的标准。

　　婚恋观念

　　单身只是一个现象，并不需要矫正

　　“30岁以前处于适婚阶段，这个阶段的男女即使没有对象，也多处在寻求对象中。”成都市家庭教育促进会专家、心理干预咨询师李旭东认为，真正的单身群体应定义在30岁以后。单身现象在大学本科学历以上更为突出，他们有着自己的人生追求，对待婚姻有着更多的情感需求。而现在许多的婚恋调查，其实也正是以这个群体作为样本的。在这个群体较其他单身群体更重视情感满足，“大概能占到六成比例”。

　　李旭东认为，婚恋观在28岁之前就会牢固地形成。在12-18岁阶段，初步的婚姻观会形成，在这一时期，家庭氛围影响最大。随后，在18岁-28岁的后青春期，情感经历、自身条件、机遇等因素的综合影响下，婚姻观基本形成。造成单身的原因十分复杂，每个个体具体情况不一样。值得注意的是，在85后和90后中，一种后现代的婚姻观已经形成，不再认为结婚是一种必然。李旭东强调，单身只是一个现象，并不需要矫正。

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　　四川范围内，单身女性多于男性

　　“四川单身人口确实在逐年增多，其中又以女性居多。”李旭东对此解释说，这源自他对婚恋网站的调查，以及他对接受咨询者人数的直观感受。他说，随着女性经济能力的提升，依附结婚取得生活来源的现象减弱，女性更愿意找到一个情投意合的伴侣，而在意中人没有出现之前，并不愿意“将就”。

　　单身女主要分为没结过婚和离异两类。没有婚姻经验的单身女较少地向专家咨询，过去的情感经历则成为她们单身的一大主因。而在离异群体中，单身女性现象更为突出。多数离异女性，在离婚3年以后才会再婚，几乎很难遇见离异后，三个月内再次结婚的女性。不同的是，很多男性在离婚两年内后，就会再次找到相处对象，甚至结婚。

　　瞿伟说，“没有真正意识到自己的需求”成为单身女的一大因素。假如单身女性只是想找一个自己喜欢的，或者对方综合条件不错的，其实并不难办到。更多单身女性其实有着情感和经济条件的综合诉求。有些女性认为自己要求不高，比如，会员李女士，称只是想找一个对我好的人。真的推荐了人品不错的，李女士并不能接受。

　　“她们并非口是心非。”瞿伟说，实际上，她们并不明确自己到底需要什么样的人。许多大龄男女会突然闪婚，很大程度上，也是“突然明白了自己的定位”。

　　华西都市报记者 毛玉婷

　　（原标题：中国“单身榜”四川排第二？）

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