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The author:(作者)aaapublished in(发表于) 2013/12/6 12:10:32 Children’s community protection： deal with “invisible violence“ common responsibility _ Sina news
Xinhuanet, Kunming, December 4 (reporters Yuan Quan and Jia Zhao and Wang Jinyuan)-left the campus after 6 years, 13 years old, Xiao gang (not his real name) at the end of November this year, went back to school. Higher by a number of his classmates, he sat in the last row of the classroom, together with the students saying "huaisu writes" the texts.
Small fry, cattle grazing, do lots of farm work, but don't talk much, always shakes his head and silence in response to concerns. He went through a lot of kids her age could not imagine the pain: a father's alcoholism, injured his right leg a few years ago, leaving behind scars; after his parents divorced, he followed his mother into a new family, but has long been the stepfather beating and scolding. Family changes made in second grade, he dropped out.
Last year, aunt just got a little home. Aunt said that he was "balls to small", sometimes can't sleep at night, and for a long time reluctant to go to school, send "total home runs".
Xiao gang back to school resulted in a turning point was the national women's Federation and the United Nations Children's Fund launched in Yunnan "community child protection project".
Kunming 148 km to projects this year in a county of Yuxi city to start pilot aims to mobilize and coordinate the variety of strengths and resources within the community to help kids like little out of the shadow of domestic violence, and the establishment of a preventive mechanism to reduce violence against children.
4th, the interests of ACWF and UNICEF initiative again in Beijing: acting together--to stop violence against children and promote child protection.
Village head of Xiaogang village, where elohim said high divorce rates in poor areas, single parent families, and many parents are migrant workers, leave your children or other family care for the elderly.
"Parents may in respect of food and clothing, but rarely and kids Exchange, kids don't know their own rights, to tell kids how to protect their rights. "Elohim said.
Interests of ACWF, Minister Jiang Yuee said that family protection in current child protection work indifferent and inadequate community protection service, legal protection measures lag issues.
Chinese traditional concept that "spoil under the sticks", "kids is for children", and even many children also think they won't listen to their parents, to be playing is very normal, and little kids would tell outsiders their beaten at home, so that child victims of violence also were said to be "invisible violence." In addition to domestic violence, and in recent years the media has exposed numerous cases of sexual assault against children. For many forms of violence, projects designed especially for students, single parents and teachers to prevent the shaft for the purpose of training courses.
Backbone training class for children, kids from the provincial Tutoring experts in your mouth the first time heard about the United Nations Convention on the rights of the child, and learned how to protect themselves.
"When youpo, grasping, biting, kicking, to places many people run; to tell a trusted adult; you can also dial the hotline for help. "This is the summary of Li Shuoyu, after attending the training methods. The 13-year old boy in the classroom for the first time I heard a number of cases of violence against children, knowing that boys are also victims of sexual violence.
Support of the project, single mother, Chang Jung (a pseudonym), participated in community family support groups. She live in communities more than more than 80 one-parent families.
Family support groups, and Chang Jung-with more than more than 30 parents of single parent families, and receive expert training, learning how to communicate with kids, in a positive way rather than physical punishment to help children grow up healthily, and parents talk to each other, have difficulty with for advice. People back panel is named "single-winged fly", was intended to "single-parent families to be strong".
United Nations UNICEF resident representative maijilian said, hoping to promote pilot in Yuxi, Yunnan province in the country-wide results achieved, for each community to establish practice provides guidance to prevent and respond to violence against children.
Jiang Yuee says, very much welcome the increased number of United Nations agencies and social organizations in promoting child protection support, we work together to put an end to violence against children, promoting children's health security development to create a favorable environment.
Is not the perfect place for the existing criminal law, Beijing juvenile legal aid and Research Center Director Tong Lihua, called as soon as possible for the protection of children launched a special amendment to the criminal code, specifications, by modifying the legal combating offences against children comprehensively and effectively to guarantee the healthy growth of children, and to convey to the community a clear voice: "those who commit crimes against children, will be severely punished. ”
(Edit: SN080)December 06, 2013 The website(儿童社区保护：应对“隐形暴力”的共同责任 _新闻资讯
新华网昆明12月4日电(记者袁全 贾钊 王晋源)离开校园6年后，13岁的小刚(化名)在今年11月末再次回到学校。高出同学们一头多的他坐在教室的最后一排，跟着同学们一起念“怀素写字”的课文。
小刚会炒菜，会放牛，能干很多农活，但不怎么说话，总是用摇头和沉默来回应关注。他经历过很多同龄孩子不能想象的痛苦：父亲酗酒，几年前打伤他的右腿，留下伤疤；父母离婚后，他随母亲走进新的家庭，但又长期遭到继父的打骂。家庭的变故让他在二年级时就辍学了。
去年，姑姑把小刚接到了自己家里。姑姑说他显得“胆子小”，晚上有时候还不能一个人睡，而且很长时间不愿去上学，送过去也“总往家里跑”。
促成小刚重返校园的一个契机是全国妇联和联合国儿童基金会在云南发起的“社区儿童保护项目”。
这个项目今年在距离云南昆明148公里的玉溪市的一个县启动试点，旨在通过调动和协调社区内多种力量和资源，帮助像小刚这样的孩子走出家暴的阴影，并建立一个预防机制，减少针对儿童的暴力伤害。
4日，全国妇联权益部和联合国儿基会在北京再次发出倡议：共同行动——停止对儿童的暴力，促进儿童保护。
小刚所在村的村委会主任罗欣说，贫困地区离婚率高，单亲家庭多，而很多家长都外出打工，把孩子交给老人或者其他亲戚看管。
“父母可能就管温饱，很少和孩子有交流，自己不懂孩子的权利，也更没有机会告诉孩子该怎样保护自己的权利。”罗欣说。
全国妇联权益部部长蒋月娥说，当前中国儿童保护工作中还存在家庭保护意识淡漠，社区保护服务不足，法律保护措施滞后等问题。
中国传统观念认为“棍棒底下出孝子”，“打孩子是为孩子好”，甚至很多孩子也认为自己不听父母的话被打也是很正常的，也很少有孩子会告诉外人自己在家里挨打，因此儿童遭受的暴力也被称作是“隐形暴力”。除了家暴，近年来媒体也曝光了多起针对儿童的性侵案件。针对多种暴力伤害形式，项目特别为学生、老师和单亲家长设计了以预防为目的的骨干培训课程。
在儿童骨干培训课上，孩子们从省里来的辅导专家口中头一次听说了《联合国儿童权利公约》，并学会了怎样去保护自己。
“受到诱迫时，要抓、咬、踢，往人多的地方跑；要告诉自己信任的成年人；还可以拨打热线求助。”这是李朔宇在参加完培训后总结的方法。这个13岁的小男孩在课堂上第一次听到了很多对儿童的暴力侵害案例，知道男孩子也会受到性暴力。
在项目支持下，单亲妈妈张荣(化名)参加了社区家庭互助小组。她生活的社区共有80多个单亲家庭。
在家庭互助小组里，张荣和30多个单亲家庭的父母一起接受专家培训，学习如何与孩子交流，用积极的教育方式而不是体罚来帮助孩子健康成长；家长们也相互倾诉，有了困难一起出主意。大家还给小组取名“单翅飞吧”，意在“单亲的家庭也要坚强”。
联合国儿基会驻华代表麦吉莲说，希望能够在全国范围内推广云南玉溪试点取得的成果，为每一个社区建立预防和应对针对儿童的暴力实践提供指导。
蒋月娥说，非常欢迎更多的联合国机构和社会组织在推动儿童保护工作方面提供支持，大家携手共同为停止对儿童的暴力，促进儿童健康安全成长创造良好环境。
针对现行刑法中不完善的地方，北京青少年法律援助与研究中心主任佟丽华呼吁尽快为保护儿童推出一个专门的刑法修正案，通过修改法律来规范、全面、有效地打击针对儿童的犯罪行为，保障儿童健康成长，同时向社会传达清晰的声音：“凡是对儿童实施犯罪的，都要受到严惩。”
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