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The author:(作者)aaapublished in(发表于) 2013/12/24 8:45:09 Much talk about Yuan left abandoned
Yuan days of sick leave an abandoned child
Yuan badly, born in 1966, Kaifeng Lankao County in Henan province, and carried on by pancake stalls, selling sesame oil delivery, help people doing odd jobs for a living, is known due to adoption of abandoned orphans in Henan lankao County, known to users as "loving mother". On January 4 this year, remembers much adopted foundling home fires, adoptive children killed 7 people in and the youngest is only 7 months old.
Bad as peasant women Yuan quietly appeared last Saturday in Guangzhou "good forum" about her adopted foundling orphan experience, the next day she went to thank the benefactors Huizhou---for her "Kingdom of aborted babies" donated 100,000 Yuan Tan Weiguang.
27 adopted over more than 100 abandoned orphan products, and netizens have been referred to as "mother", but an unexpected fire early this year, took her adopted 7 children, her behavior is officially recognized as illegal adoption.
Yuan severe turmoil is Gaunt, the inflation hawks locked and hair is almost gray, feet swollen walking difficulties. Came to mention the adoption of abandoned, lost control and broke down and wept.
This year, remembers much experienced house burned, heart attack, hospitalization, moving, children were taken home a number of changes. Days of leaving the baby, she looked tired and depressed, in the face of controversy, and she no longer excited to justify.
Family said this year, remembers much leisure, but had a bad day baby.
About kids excited to tears
This is bad first came to Guangzhou Yuan, who also wore dark-colored floral jacket, cotton-padded shoes, with two neighbors, daughter, son-in-law and nephew, she suffers from diabetes and high blood pressure, up and down stairs need little help, walked a few steps and panting.
"Good net in China" invited, remembers much "good forum". Speech, said the fire left in children, severe emotional Yuan, a tear my nose and chest, "Oh, my baby." Hosts talking about her questioning, she went on to beat their breasts, repeating "no matter what people say, we are conscience person."
Forum for her 15 minutes, she got out of control said five minutes, said he was "there's no culture, don't know how to say" closed his speech in a hurry.
"We donated her $ 10,000, she does not accept, said he would leave more children in need, how could she possibly a bad guy? "" China good network "founder, South China Normal University Professor Tan Fang said they use that money to set up a" powerful Yuan Fund ", and the rescue of a child abandonment in Xinjiang. Talk about hope through civil rescuers tell of, civil aid legislation.
Benefactors help baby to find work
Taking advantage of an opportunity of Cantonese speaking, ill the day before yesterday to go to Huizhou Yuan to finance her entrepreneur Tan Weiguang banner. In 2011, the Tan Weiguang learn powerful Yuan on the Internet exploits, to visit her lankao, offered to donate 1 million, were powerful Yuan refused. Tan Weiguang from sick daughter cuckoo that Yuan took the ID cards to open bank accounts, deposit 100,000 for her charity.
"My kid can find you the job? I can give you clean, no? "The Yuan good sight of benefactors, adoptions for the first time or thinking of those children. Tan Weiguang and generous promise, a trip and said it would take time to elongata, and see if we can discuss this with welfare Huizhou received some of the older children come to life.
Family: she was idle, one is grey
Powerful son-in-law Guo Haiyang Yuan said that after the fire, hospitalized with burns on in addition to a 8 year old dumb and a massage for the Blind boy of 13, remembers much adopted 12 children over to welfare homes. Yuan ill move in Lankao County living with son, has no children, but the children's account followed Yuan also badly. The burned child hasn't released. Because much of the body, remembers much of pancakes have been transferred to the family business, themselves more stay home, granddaughter, sometimes doing odd jobs to help people deliver.
Due to normally take care of an abandoned child, Yuan great five-year old granddaughter, told her to draw near. "Haven't seen her many children," said Guo Haiyang, Yuan badly missed orphanage children every day, ride to watch them every week, always a knee-jerk climbed up early this morning, trying to take care of the kids. In the eyes of the home, and now she couldn't, when the body is not used to take 20 kids spirit, the people are old.
Dialog
After having abandoned, but not to die
Talk about changes weekly to homes watched the kids
Reporter: just when the podium, crying so much?
Yuan is severe: remind me of my baby, my heart is sick! (Crying) roots, sanmao, jingjing, bulk and loose, light rain ... ... (Were counting the number of) my baby is not here with me.
Reporter: out of 7 children, isn't it bad?
Yuan badly: the dead live is oh, my baby, grew up with a large, passionate. Their URNs in lankao crematorium, I have never seen. Qingming Festival, I went to the hospital, crossroads, they burn bullions clothes money.
Reporter: do you have children around you?
Yuan good: previously adopted with my account, and there are a dozen, two high schools, two medical schools, a job in the Internet Cafe, and a sister, some already married, I don't have to care. Following me around just a little mute (mute children).
Reporter: ten other children in institutions, did you go see?
Yuan ill: when not hospitalized, once every week, I brought bananas, apples, and cook in a large pan of mala Tang, take a 1.5-hour train to the orphanage to see baby, stay all day. Baby Hammond organ shortages, school bags, I'll make a note next to him.
Reporter: how are children in institutions?
Yuan badly: go back and look at them, they pulled my hand down, don't let me go, asked: "MOM, when are you going to take me home? "Those grey hairs, harelip children, I grew up with, every time you leave the orphanage I spluttered tears drop, agony.
Reporter: after the fire broke out, was also sending baby come?
Yuan good: none. On one occasion, hospital attendants found a couple harelipped baby, talk to me, I tell them not to throw it away, they contacted the hospital to do surgery.
Reporter: fire in the past for almost a year, to the House before?
Yuan badly: I can't go back, nor from that passed by, stay out of detour. Now my brother-in-law live I a year in total, been back three times, twice with reporters, again with a good network of people.
Reporter: will adopt abandoned babies in the future?
Yuan badly: does not have the body too much, the Government has not told me not to adopt a child. Unless they see it, that was delivered, I can't die.
Talking about disputes I'm not culture, doing things according to their conscience
Reporter: now what?
Yuan good: sometimes goes out to one delivery, the Mid-Autumn Festival to send a batch of water, made more than 1000 bucks, not body, do not move. Basic home now with a granddaughter.
Reporter: did the Ministry of Civil Affairs has given grants?
Yuan badly: in 2006, the Government gave a $ 5,000 House, holidays altogether for seven years and delivered 2000 kg. Adopted 20 kids, each quarter by the Government to $ 4,000 this year Government helped rebuild the House on fire after fire. Kids go now, it's Matt and I both eat the low, $ 110 a month.
Reporter: contributions received for so many years, how much is left?
Yuan badly: boss Tan (Tan Weiguang) 2011, donated NT $ 100,000, and the rest don't count. Eva to heal every day to buy diapers, milk powder, wet, earned enough money to spend, and donated some money to pay off debt now don't have any left.
Reporter: you keep abandoned for many years and feel relief not enough?
Yuan badly: I don't understand any of this, I was uneducated. I regret (the fire) was out running errands, leave her alone.
Reporter: island of Guangzhou plans to build an abandoned child, do you think this is a good idea?
Yuan badly: If can give baby a good environment for him for he lives, jolly good. I used to put baby in a orphanage, they asked me to provide evidence, until now where am I going to get these certificates?
Reporter: "good net" you rated as a good man, but others question your purpose of saving.
Yuan badly: I want ye say ye say, we do things according to their conscience.
Reporter: someone once said you were making money on adoption of a child, think of those you have wronged you?
Yuan badly: was angry, I was uneducated, have no money for a lawyer, very slightly, now don't want these things. (Hand-shake)
Reporters also reported you in lankao contacts is very broad, by introducing the business to make money?
Yuan is severe: saying nonsense, I've described are a good thing, my child is hospitalized, hospital help somebody find me, I'm going to treat about a hospital, or help people find a House. Most people are sending me some instant noodles, send their children to a couple of quilts, I didn't want to be the money.
Talk about life can not sleep at night, often dreamed of children
Reporter: now you won't have to adopt a child, idle down, how was life?
Yuan great: no, not sleep all night and cuddle the baby before sleep, for many years, sometimes dreams that my old House, take root, yellow, round and round, talking to a dozen baby sitting on the Kang, wakes up alone in the Middle, have nothing to do.
Reporter: what are your plans in the future?
Yuan much: step calculates step, doing a little business, life is good.
Interview: the South reporter Li Chunhua
(Original title: Yuan days of sick leave an abandoned child)
袁厉害 离开弃婴的日子
袁厉害 1966年生，河南省开封市兰考县人，靠开煎饼摊、卖香油、帮人送货打零工为生，因收养弃婴孤儿闻名河南兰考县城，被网友称为“爱心妈妈”。今年1月4日，袁厉害收养弃婴的住所发生火灾，收养的孩童中7人不幸丧生，最小的仅7个月大。
农妇袁厉害上周六悄然现身广州“好人论坛”，讲述她收养弃婴孤儿的经历，次日她特意赴惠州感谢恩人———曾为她的“弃婴王国”捐款十万元的谭伟光。
27年收养100多个弃婴孤儿的袁厉害，曾被网友称为“爱心妈妈”，但今年初一场意外的大火，带走了她收养的7个孩子，她的行为被官方认定为非法收养。
风波过后的袁厉害面容憔悴，愁眉深锁，头发几近花白，双脚浮肿走路困难。上台一提起收养的弃婴，便失控痛哭起来。
这一年来，袁厉害经历了房子被烧、孩子被带走、心脏病发住院、搬家回归家庭一系列变故。离开弃婴的日子，她神情疲惫且消沉，面对争议，她不再激动辩解。
家人说这一年，袁厉害变清闲了，但过得不愉快，天天想孩子。
讲起孩子 激动落泪
这是袁厉害第一次来广州，身上还穿着暗色碎花棉袄、棉鞋，同行的还有两个邻居、女儿、女婿和外甥，患有糖尿病和高血压的她，上下楼梯需要人扶，走快几步便气喘吁吁。
受“中国好人网”邀请，袁厉害登上“好人论坛”。演讲中，说起火灾中离去的孩子，袁厉害情绪激动，一把鼻涕一把泪，时而捶胸“我的娃啊”。主持人聊起外界对她的质疑，她继续捶着胸，不断重复“不管别人说啥，咱是凭良心做人”。
原本论坛为她准备15分钟发言时间，她情绪失控只说了五分钟，称自己“也没什么文化，不懂怎么说”，匆匆结束了演讲。
“我们捐她一万块，她都不收，说要留给更有需要的孩子，她怎么可能是坏人？”“中国好人网”的创办人、华南师范大学教授谈方说，他们用那笔善款设立了“袁厉害基金”，并救助了一个新疆的弃婴。谈方希望通过民间救助者现身说法，推动民间救助立法。
请恩人帮弃婴找工作
趁着来粤演讲的机会，袁厉害前日还赶去惠州为资助过她的企业家谭伟光送锦旗。2011年，谭伟光从网上了解到袁厉害的事迹，到兰考看望她，提出要捐100万，被袁厉害拒绝。谭伟光从袁厉害的女儿杜鹃那拿了身份证开银行账户，为她存十万善款。
“我的娃能不能来你这工作？我也可以过来给你打扫卫生，中不中？”袁厉害一见到恩人，第一时间还是想着那些被收养的孩子。谭伟光大方答应，并表示会再抽时间去兰考一趟，看能不能和福利院商量把部分年纪大点的孩子接到惠州来生活。
家人：她清闲了，人却苍老了
袁厉害的女婿郭海洋说，火灾过后，除了一个因烧伤住院的8岁哑儿和一个去盲人按摩院的13岁男孩，袁厉害收养的12个孩子全转交到福利院。袁厉害搬去兰考县与大儿子同住，已经没有带小孩，但这些孩子的户口还是跟着袁厉害。那个烧伤的孩子现在还没出院。因为身体吃不消，袁厉害的煎饼摊已经转给亲戚经营，自己更多是呆在家里，带带孙女，偶尔打打零工帮人送货。
由于平日里照顾弃婴，袁厉害五岁大的孙女，跟她反而不亲近。“她太久没见孩子了，”郭海洋说，袁厉害天天念叨着福利院的孩子，每周坐车去看他们，凌晨常常条件反射似的爬起来，想去照顾孩子。在家人眼里，现在的她虽然清闲了，身体却不如以前带20个孩子时精神，整个人都苍老了。
对话
以后不养弃婴了，但不能见死不救
谈变故 每周去福利院看孩子
记者：刚刚上台演讲的时候，怎么哭得那么厉害？
袁厉害：想起我的娃，我的心难受啊！(哭)扎根、三毛、晶晶、松松，小雨……(掰着手指数)我的娃都不在我身边了。
记者：想起离开的7个孩子，会不会很愧疚？
袁厉害：死的活的都是我的娃啊，从小带大，都是有感情的。他们骨灰盒在兰考火葬场，我都没看过。清明节，我就到医院十字路口，给他们烧元宝衣钱。
记者：现在还有孩子留在你身边吗？
袁厉害：以前收养的跟我户口的还有十几个，两个上高中，两个上医学院，一个在网吧打工，还有一个住姐姐家，有些已经结婚了，基本不用我顾了。身边跟着我的就一个小哑(哑巴孩子)。
记者：其余十个在福利院的孩子，你去看过吗？
袁厉害：不住院的时候，每个星期都去一次，我带香蕉、苹果啊，再煮一大锅麻辣烫，坐一个半小时车去福利院看娃，一去就呆一整天。孩子缺电子琴、书包，我就记下，下次给他带。
记者：孩子们在福利院过得如何？
袁厉害：每回去看他们，他们都拽着我的手不放，不让我走，问“妈妈啊，你什么时候带我回家啊？”那些白头发、兔唇的孩子，我从小带到大，每次离开福利院我眼泪就啪啪滴，难受啊。
记者：火灾发生后，还有人送弃婴来吗？
袁厉害：没有了。就有一次，医院妇产科的助产士发现一对夫妇生下兔唇孩子，跟我说，我去劝他们不要扔了，给他们联系医院做手术。
记者：火灾过去快一年，去原来的房子看过吗？
袁厉害：不敢回去，也不敢从那路过，离远就绕路走。现在是我小叔在那住，我一年总共就回去过三回，两次带媒体记者，一次带好人网的人。
记者：以后还会收养弃婴吗？
袁厉害：不养了，身体吃不消，政府不是都说不让收养孩子了。除非自己看到了，有人送来了，我就不能见死不救。
谈争议 我没文化，做事凭良心
记者：现在生活靠什么维持？
袁厉害：有时候出去给人送货，中秋节给人送过一批水，赚了1000多块钱，身体不行，干不动了。现在基本在家带孙女。
记者：民政部有没有给过资助金？
袁厉害：2006年政府给了5000块修房子，七年来逢年过节一共送过2000斤面。收养20个孩子时，政府每个季度给4000块钱，今年火灾后政府帮忙重修了失火房子。现在孩子送走了，就剩我和哑儿两人还吃低保，每个月110块钱。
记者：这么多年来一共收到多少捐款，还剩多少？
袁厉害：就谭老板(谭伟光)2011年时一次捐了十万，其余的没算过。那些娃有的要治病，每天都要买尿不湿啊奶粉啊，钱挣的不够花了，有些捐的钱拿去还债，现在没得剩了。
记者：你救助弃婴多年，觉得个人救助有不足吗？
袁厉害：我不懂这些，我又没文化。我就是后悔(火灾)当时出去办事，让娃自己呆家了。
记者：广州计划建弃婴岛，你觉得这个做法好吗？
袁厉害：如果可以给娃好环境，供他吃供他住，那好得很啦。我以前把弃婴送去福利院，他们让我提供证明，才肯接，我上哪去弄这些证明？
记者：“好人网”把你评为好人，但也有人质疑你救人的目的性。
袁厉害：人家想咋说就咋说，咱做事凭良心。
记者：曾有人说你是靠收养孩子来赚钱，想起这些你还委屈吗？
袁厉害：当时很生气，我又没文化，也没钱请律师，算咯，现在都不想这些事了。(摆手摇头)
记者：也有报道说你在兰考人脉很广，通过介绍业务赚钱？
袁厉害：说的都瞎话，我介绍的都是好事，我孩子患病住院，得到医院帮助，有人找到我，我再给人介绍个医院治病，或帮人找个房子。人家最多就送我些方便面，送孩子几床棉被，我就没想要人钱。
谈生活 晚上睡不着，常梦到孩子
记者：你现在不用收养孩子，清闲下来，生活过得怎么样？
袁厉害：不好，晚上睡不着，以前都抱着娃睡，好多年了，有时梦到我在老房子，和扎根、黄黄、圆圆啊十几个娃坐在炕上说话，半夜醒来自己一个人，没事做。
记者：未来有什么打算？
袁厉害：走一步算一步呗，做点小生意，过过生活就好了。
采写：南都记者 李春花
(原标题：袁厉害 离开弃婴的日子)
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