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published in(发表于) 2014/8/14 8:18:57
Sons and daughters take care of 87 year old paralysed mother 27： can’t hurt her enough

Meng Hongying was 24 years, mother seriously ill in a coma for 10 days and 10 nights. When finally came, and said to her mother's first words were: "go find your mother. ”

Who had grown up under parents, she never thought of herself not, daughter.

After the mother was seriously ill, had been confined to bed. Knowing her story, but she still never abandon, has waited at the seriously ill mother around for 27 years. She said her mother, "can't love her enough. ”

　　Touched by somebody else

　　She is taking care of the elderly is too careful, but was adopted

Recently, the reporter interviewed the mother and child, first came to Shijiazhuang hospital. In the ward, 51, Meng Hongying sat at the bedside, fold a small towel in her hand. Bed, and a body fat old man was lying on his side, nose, throat sported a variety of pipes.

The old man is Meng Hongying's mother, is 87 years old. Due to sequela of cerebral hemorrhage left, the old man paralyzed in bed for 27 years, this time because of a lung infection, has once again admitted to hospital.

Family members of Ward patients with Ms Wu said that ten days, watching Meng Hongying mother will take care of every day, she silently admire that this girl it's good. "The old man in bed for so many years, who don't have any bedsores, which look more carefully. "Wu said during a chat in a couple of days ago, she learned that Meng Hongying was adopted. "Say long before bed no son. "Madam Wu regrets, her old man in poor health, these years saw a wide variety of children, can do Meng Hongying too rare.

Made his living with roommates, Meng Hongying a bit shy, she waved and said: "Although not own, may be different from real mother didn't. "Speaking of which, her head looked at his mother in the hospital bed, and her lips with a smile.

　　Endearment

　　Wake up and the first word after the adoptive mother in a coma for ten days "to find your real mother"

Recalls his life, Meng Hongying's memory was back 27 years ago.

That year, father is seriously ill and mother Liu Guifen, 60, Meng Hongying's son was born before 6 months. Every generation grandson or not rare enough, Liu Guifen fell ill with cerebral hemorrhage stupor. After 10 days and 10 nights, and Liu Guifen woke up, she called her daughter to the bed, give a garbledaccount of the first sentence, "go find your mother. ”

Meng Hongying head "buzz", thought mother was in delirium. Her composure, deliberately teasing mother, "my mother is not you? "Old man eyes tears, vigorous shaking his head.

Meng Hongying seemed to detect something, did not dare to ask. Later, she found an old neighbor aunt asked what was wrong.

In fact, because the father was transferred, and Meng Hongying grew up with my parents from Beijing to Baoding, Shijiazhuang city, settled in. Moved several times, Chiam is their neighbours.

Pushed open the door of my aunt's House, Meng Hongying haven't finished, gutted the aunt who sweeps straight back, throwing a broom, "who told you that? Don't listen to them talk rubbish! ”

Aunt very excited, Meng Hongying confirmed their suspicions, she whispered, "my mother told me. ”

Aunt tearfully turned around, sat on his bed, his hands beat the bed, "Gui Fen, Ah, how do you tell your kids! ”

Meng Hongying said that aunt was afraid that she learned that life would leave seriously ill mother, and mother feared was already seriously ill father can't tell his daughter's life, worry about the old couple to drag down the only daughter.

　　Fever mother daughters stay in school disability water school

Ward, Meng Hongying sitting on the bed, hands stroking her mother fat soft belly, her baby-like, chanting "fat baby, someone here to see you. ”

At this point, the mother was lying on his side, but no response. Meng Hongying knows that unconscious mother three years ago, did not recognize her.

Meng Hongying said she learned from her aunt, mother on having more than two children, but both died. Since baoyang after her, particularly careful care of mothers. "I'm a MOM from small till large. "Meng Hongying said, from small but weak, fever continuously. Impression that each illness, mother is kept around all night long. "She was afraid of losing me. "Meng Hongying said that as a child, she often listened to neighbours ' aunt and uncle told her," your parents loved you, and you grew up going to shun them. ”

Meng Hongying can never have imagined the neighbors what is the meaning of words, when she doesn't even understand, that a mother's concern that some "trouble".

In grade school, Meng Hongying fever, headstrong, she insisted on going to school. When calisthenics, she saw her mother holding a cup of hot water, stands at the end of the line. "My mom's left leg problems, walking limped, saw her bring me water, I was a bit annoyed. "Meng Hongying said that when her mother's attitude is very bad, in retrospect, this is deep mother love.

　　27 mother was paralyzed in bed she hasn't slept a whole night's sleep

Now, Meng Hongying from youth to middle age, recalls over the years, she said, lived in anonymity, so she had special memories of the year, must be the mother changes the maximum in those years.

Meng Hongying said that 27 years ago, almost all her personal care for mothers, husbands are also very supportive of understanding. When you're young, she needs to work a bit at noon every day, quickly ran home.

When you opened the door, she begin to lean his head, looked at whether the mother lay in bed unharmed, and dialogue with the mother (in fact, talking to himself), while helping her turn over.

6 years ago, and her early retirement opportunities, Meng Hongying without hesitation chose to retire, so she can start to care for her mother.

Every day, Meng Hongying gave mothers body scrub and massage. "The hospital these days, I often saw sister midnight Lady stand up, when seriously ill, one bed for a night without sleep. "Ms Wu said.

Meng Hongying listening just Hey smile, "all these years, I did not sleep an hulunjue every night will give the mother went through a few times, get used to it. ”

　　Dialog

　　"Now how can I hurt her heart is not enough"

When told that he was after baoyang, Meng Hongying under Tips for mothers, from his home in a small hole in the toilet located her adoptive father and biological father sign an agreement. Through the agreement, she found her birth parents.

So far, she has only seen it twice, and at other times waited at the side of the home.

Mother fell ill the following year, had been seriously ill father died. Meng Hongying said she is afraid of losing his mother.

Reporter: why did not remain in the biological parents over there?

Bangladesh: after all, lived in this House for so many years, how could I abandon them at this time?

Reporter: you shuoqin girl the things you do well, how do you do this in every possible way?

Bangladesh: remembering the past, feel like I owed my mother so much that I just want to treat her nicely. My mom was a man of extraordinary kindness, benevolence and righteousness, I'm pain in childhood by her big, love was mutual, she hurts enough now I ache.

Reporter: you take care of mother taking care of a baby.

(Smile, bow to touch his mother's head): Yes, she's my baby fat. She has no consciousness, every time I look in her eye, feel the world is very simple.

Reporter: mother: do you have any expectation and desire?

Bangladesh: I had not expected and did not believe she was able to stand up again, I just hope she can live comfortably these days. She can stay with us, and I am satisfied.

Article/newspaper reporter Zhu Dong laughing/reporter Wang Yongbo

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