Why science and technology bosses do not allow children to use high-tech products? -Steve, iPad-IT information
Apple has just launched his own small press conference last week. Nothing revolutionary new products are nothing new, or even the next day Apple′s stock fell down. Wall Street is expecting iPhone SE sales only 10 million to 15 million units this year, but China′s market as buyers of the tenacious man, obviously pay for Apple, according to United States CNBC News Web site reported China′s retailers. Ended March 28, Apple′s new 4-inch iPhone SE China booking volume has exceeded 3.4 million units.
Now, Smartphones have become more and more popular, of course, the iPad and tablet. According to United States Amazon statistics, Christmas gift, one-third people choose to send high-tech products as gifts to others. And not just in the United States, at home as well. Creative poll this week, also has a high-tech product using etiquette, please do not send long speech, please don′t shuffle album, please don′t watch the movie lights up your damn phone ... ...
But you know, jobs himself limited his children use mobile phones.
At the time was in charge of Apple′s, Steve and journalists often call, explain or clarify what recent articles about Apple′s products went wrong. New York Times reporter Nick Bilto received a call from him. After the iPad defects is interpreted, reporter casually asked: "what do your kids like the iPad? "
" They didn′t use," jobs said, "in my house, any technology product limit . "
Not just jobs, many technology companies or to engage in the technology business, Chief Executive of venture capital, almost all of them talked about limiting their use of technology. Of course, one of the most famous rumors that Bill Gates daughter is 15 years old to use the first phone.
Whether this rumor is unknown. But Gates, now Silicon Valley′s top executives of high-tech products is indeed in limiting their use of high-tech products.
Wired (Wired), former editor, 3D is now unmanned Robotics CEO Chris Anderson (Chris Anderson), a total of five children. At home, every electronic device set time limits and parental control.
"Of course, my children are very dissatisfied with, say we put too much anxiety. They also complain that their friends ′ parents do not have such strict limits. But I think (the other child′s parents) are not like us, to high-tech products dangerous invasive have a direct feeling of the brain. I myself experienced the obsession with electronics of this process, I don′t want to let the children their childhood detours. "
Evan Williams, founder of Blogger, and Twitter and Medium (Evan Williams) in order not to let the two children of the family obsession with iPad, not only limits use of high-tech products, also bought hundreds of books at home.
Ali·patuowei (Ali Partovi) was one of the founder of iLike, and Facebook, Dropbox and Zappos consultant. He is using electronic equipment to children, the strict distinction between "consumer" and "creation" time. But no matter what, there is limited time.
Children of working parents in limiting use of technology on the high-tech products, invariably follow a iron rules:
Absolute technology products are not allowed in the bedroom. So, this picture of the popular online is absolutely can′t be the children of the elite in Silicon Valley .
So here′s the thing, why technologies work they may regard technology as a dragon? Perhaps because now after the and 00, are less and less willing to communicate with others. Previous love quotes is, "if not talking to each other, silence is very comfortable." But now it has become "even when talking to each other, brushing each other phones are also very comfortable."
Only product is a double edged sword, on the one hand make our lives more boundaries. But on the other hand, also eroded our most fundamental things. Sleep, read and communicate. Adults could not resist electronics, for children without resistance, side effects are more obvious. Harvard study, children under three years of age if you have the habit of using electronic products. There will be varying degrees of communication disorders. Among children aged six to 11 years, there have been a "false Autism" symptoms, because too much exposure to electronic products, lack of time to communicate with people.
Not only the children, now adults, too. Afraid to communicate with others, than call would rather mail and the letter. And inside the adults playing a game, nearly 80% people has a history of strong enough sleep, even excessive electrical supplies modern anxiety, mental symptoms of depression and personality have deepened their effectiveness.
Otaku Otaku pop vocabulary already in the past few years, but now common words. Second talk, reality stumbled over his words. Or full of sarcasm. Love social seems to become a dirty word.
But communication and life is the same, because only with a more open mind to communicate, to have a better life. Technology will never replace electronic products also died a few years, but we have to ask ourselves: do we really want to spend their whole lives in electronic products do? And when you really want to do something when, what could be more important than talking to maintain a consistent and confident?
This sentence is actually a few days ago I heard Ted presentation, Celeste Headlee said. She was the United States one of the most well-known anchors. She is also acutely aware of people increasingly will not communicate with others, and then, she shared the top ten recommendations for communication with people. Which top ten master one, basic can be a "good chat" person.
1. don′t be distracted when you′re in a dialog when talking his mood at the moment . If you want to end, and end conversation. Don′t be absent-minded to conduct a dialogue, a waste of time.
2. don′t teach their opinions aside, if you want to criticize others to write tweets . During the dialogue, to regard each other as a teacher, you could learn something new from this dialogue.
3. open question dialog like a reporter, "who", "what", "when", "where", "why" how to start asking questions . If you ask a complex question, you will get a simple answer. Try to ask others, "that′s how" let others see problems.
4. let nature take its course without problems, you only need the natural.
5. If you don′t know, just say don′t know not to cheat others out of the conversation, because you do not need.
6. do not put your experience compared to other people, when others say you hate your job, don′t say that they hate their jobs; others say they lost loved ones, not to mention their lost loved ones. Every experience is unique, it is not possible, what things can′t be identical.
7. don′t repeat yourself conversations
8. the crap
9. listen carefully we listen in order to respond to
10. short good talks so far should be comfortable but should not be too long, but short and always satisfying hoot.
All in all, mastering communication. When Steve Jobs did not allow their children access to iPad when we should think about what is most important is that in real life.
为啥科技圈大佬不允许子女使用高科技产品？ - 乔布斯,iPad - IT资讯
苹果上周刚推出自己的小发布会。没什么革命性的新产品自然也没什么新惊喜，甚至第二天苹果公司的股票都跌了一跌。华尔街预计iPhone SE今年的销售量只有1000万部到1500万部，但是中国市场作为顽强的接盘侠，显然对苹果万分买单，据美国CNBC网站引据中国零售商的消息。截止到3月28日，苹果公司4英寸的新机iPhone SE中国市场预定量就已经突破340万部。
现在，智能手机已经越来越普及了，当然还有iPad和各种平板。根据美国亚马逊统计，在圣诞节礼物中，三分之一的人选择给别人送高科技产品当作礼物。而不仅仅是在美国，在国内也是如此。创见这周投票里，还专门有一个高科技产品使用礼仪，请不要发长语音，请不要乱翻相册，请不要在看电影的时候点亮你该死的手机……
然而你知道吗，乔布斯自己都限制他家孩子使用手机。
在曾经执掌苹果公司的时候，乔布斯本人经常和记者打电话，解释或说明最近什么文章关于苹果的产品出了差错。而纽约时报的记者Nick Bilto接到他的电话。在解释完iPad缺陷后，记者随口问："那你家孩子喜欢iPad吗？"
"他们没用过,"乔布斯说，"在我家，任何技术产品都收到限制。"
不仅仅是乔布斯，很多科技公司的首席执行官或者投身科技企业的风投，他们几乎都谈到过限制自己子女使用技术用品。当然，其中最著名的谣言可能就是，比尔·盖茨的女儿十五岁才使用第一支手机。
这是否是谣言也未可知。但比起盖茨，如今硅谷最热门高科技产品的高管确确实实是在限制孩子使用高科技产品。
《连线（Wired）》前主编、现在是无人飞行器公司3D Robotics的首席执行官克里斯·安德森（Chris Anderson），他一共有五个孩子。而在他们家，每一台电子设备都设置了时间限制和家长控制。
"当然了，我的孩子非常不满，说我们过分焦虑。他们还抱怨他们的朋友的父母没有这么严格限制过。但我觉得（其他孩子的父母）没有像我们一样，对高科技产品对大脑危险侵入性有着直接的感受。我自己亲身经历过对电子产品痴迷的这个过程，我不想让孩子们在他们的童年走弯路。"
Blogger、Twitter和Medium的创始人伊万·威廉姆斯（Evan Williams）为了不让家里的两个孩子痴迷iPad，不仅限制孩子使用高科技产品，还在家里买了几百本纸质书。
阿里·帕托威（Ali Partovi）是iLike的创始人之一，也是Facebook、Dropbox和Zappos的顾问。他把孩子使用电子设备的目的，严格地区分"消费"和"创造"的时间。但不管什么，都有限制时间。
技术圈工作的父母在限制孩子使用高科技产品上，都毫无例外地遵循了一条铁规：
卧室里绝对不允许有科技产品的存在。所以，网上流行的这张图片，是绝对不可能在硅谷精英的孩子们身上出现的。
那么问题来了，为什么技术圈工作的人却视技术如洪水猛兽？也许因为如今的90后和00后，都越来越不愿意和人交流吧。以前的爱情名言是，"彼此之间就算不说话，沉默也很舒适"。但如今这句话已经便成为"彼此之间就算不说话，互相刷手机也很舒适"。
只能产品是个双刃剑，一方面让我们的生活更边界。但另一方面，也在侵蚀我们最基本的事情。比如说睡眠，阅读和交流。大人都姑且抵抗不住电子产品的，对于毫无抵抗的儿童来说，副作用更是明显。哈佛大学研究，三岁以下的孩子如果有使用电子产品的习惯。都会出现不同程度上的交流障碍。而在六岁到十一岁的儿童中间，已经出现了"假性自闭"症状，因为过多地接触电子类产品，缺乏与人交流的时间。
不光儿童，如今成年人也是如此。惧怕和别人交流，比起打电话宁愿邮件和微信。而在热衷玩游戏的成年人里面，将近80%的人都有睡眠强烈不足的历史，甚至过度沉迷电子用品都对现代人的焦虑，抑郁症和人格分裂的精神症状有加深的功效。
宅男宅女已经从前几年的流行词汇，到如今的普通词汇。二次元滔滔不绝，现实中结结巴巴。还是满讽刺的事情。热爱social好像成为一个贬义词。
但交流和人生是相通的，因为只有用开放的心态多去交流，才能有更好的人生。科技永远会更新换代，电子产品更是几年就消亡一片，但我们必须问问自己：我们真的愿意把自己的全部生命浪费在电子产品上吗？而当你真正想做一些事情的时候，有什么会比维持一段连贯、自信的谈话更为重要？
实际上这句话是我前几天听了ted演讲里，Celeste Headlee说的。她是美国最知名的主播之一。她也敏锐地发现如今人们越来越不会和人交流了，而随后，她分享了与人沟通的十大建议。而这十大建议只要掌握了一条，基本就能变成一个"善于聊天"的人。
1.不要三心二意当你在对话的时候，把自己的心情放在当下的谈话中。如果你想结束对话，就结束对话。不要心不在焉地进行一场对话，浪费时间。
2.不要好为人师把自己的观点放到一边，如果你想批评别人，去写微博吧。在对话中，要把对方当成老师，假设你能从这段对话中学习到新的东西。
3.用开放性问题像记者一样对话，用"谁"，"什么"，"什么时间"，"什么地点"，"为什么"怎么样才开始提问。如果你询问一个复杂的问题，你将会得到一个简单的回答。尽量问问别人，"那是怎么样"让别人想想的问题。
4.顺其自然不用想问题，你只需要自然。
5.如果你不知道，就说不知道不要在谈话里欺骗他人，因为你不需要。
6.不要把你的经验与别人相比当别人说讨厌自己的工作，不要说自己讨厌工作；当别人说自己失去亲人，不要说自己失去亲人。任何经历都是独一无二的，不可能一样，什么事情都不可能一样。
7.不要重复自己的对话
8.别说废话
9.认真倾听我们是为了回应而听的
10.简短好的交谈应该适可为止，不应该过长，但简短永远让人意犹未尽。
总而言之，掌握交流。当乔布斯都不允许自己的孩子接触iPad的时候，我们应该想想在现实生活中什么才是最重要的。