United States boys masturbate a day after 14 crash, established United States version of "ring"-masturbating, ring colour – IT news
The so-called "little Lu delight, big blow that kills strong blow smoke", derivative of the proliferation of Internet porn some people addicted to the phenomenon.
Ring yellow addiction, on the vast land of China, with many serving with thematic networks of civil society organizations. Most growth should come from the development talent, amazing Baidu post bar-colour-ring.
"Ring it" now has a considerable reputation, also have their own Wikipedia entries, profile: "Baidu ring, is a ring Exchange members, positive energy to help Internet users get rid of sexual misconduct, public bar. "From the entry point of view, the stick was founded in 2003, the property is" abstain from sexual misconduct, mind. "
Enter "quit" Home, breath smelling of Sun energy. Layout is clean, and published posts follow a uniform format, management feels is one of the few good order "OK".
Despite the "ring" from helping others, people care purposes, but the human instinct to compete and this organization, and not a very good reputation, in addition to know known as "cults", also from "feminist stick" of its critics.
Even if it received many negative reviews, ring colour was provided very good service. Quit the Patriarch figure of the colour, paste it ID "flying 142857", affectionately referred to as flying in big brother. Fly brother in order to spread their ideas, opened a micro-signal to the public, have moved into Himalayan radio, can download their app on the Android platform.
Without money how to better development base, and through Taobao and the app can also buy related books of the ring for medicine, also able to buy VIP in the tiny shop or consulting services.
Someone might say this phenomenon occurred not because of my lack of education, sexual attitudes block, so use porn as a textbook, as if not tap got out of hand. However in "sex education" fully open, social customs of the United States the same situation occurred. Monologue from a successful quit American, finishing below is an excerpt from the New York Times interview of Alexander Rhodes Internet Porn Nearly Ruined His Life. Now He Wants to Help.》。 Alexander Rhodes says:
"For me, I need to think about the most important thing is that I'm not a very good businessman. I'm just a man addicted to online porn. ”
26 Alexander Rhodes was established a few years ago a Web site NoFap to help other people and he had the same problems. Million people visit the site each month, and had near-collapse because of visited websites.
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Rhodes recently resigned from working at Google, now he wants to do is put his site expansion. Under the father and other family members to help, he will be part of an abandoned Church into his base of operations in the new company.
"The fact that I had been addicted to Internet porn, and the fact that I, as a man so mediocre, I have this special right to help people. ”
In recent years, Rhodes as one of confrontation has not been formally recognized by the medical profession "disease" speaker appears. But he seems unable to fit in this new fame.
A certain extent, his career was born in the digital age. His father was a computer engineer, and his exposure to digital technology at a very early age. He was attracted to Nintendo's Game Boy, also moved to the Nintendo 64 and Sony PS games.
Rhodes about 11 years old, he accidentally clicked on an advertisement banner on the Web site, and then saw a picture depicting rape. He was in puberty, in the condition of a computer, Rhodes began to indulge in extremely easy to find and free HD porn. While in College, and within a day he can masturbate watch porn as much as 14 times.
In 2011, Rhodes started to feel lost and looking for support, he established a theme on the Reddit to abstain from masturbation and porn Forum. When he realized that he was not alone when he soon started to run this site.
After graduating, he began working for Google, which specializes in data analysis. The job gives him a good salary, he would run for the NoFap invested large sums of money.
Rhodes began to think than in Google data analysis of work he should have more important things to do. "This is very difficult to choose" he talked about Google, "but in the end I choose to be more conducive to human things. ”
Wanted out of his site provides an online porn men's umbrella. Website advertising to follow are anti-pornography software services, as well as helping firm quit porn and masturbation online project.
Site will need to help the men gather up mutual supervision, similar to alcoholics to help a person back on track. Rhodes told reporters of the New York Times, Web site revenue from user subscriptions and advertising.
Rhodes had to endure from the opposite extreme ideology on his anger. These people try tapping into networks of servers, despite failed. He set up the discussion area was bombarded by erotic pictures. His father was received in the mail the yellow film that he himself had received death threats.
"These are things I have to face, I want it caught the attention of relevant departments to follow up on things like that," he said. However, the seriousness of the events still run over him turning fance for a few nights.
Despite the initial Rhodes as "yellow addict" networking seminars offer help, in the course of discussion, he asked, "how to avoid triggering the illness" to communicate with people. Later in the discussion, he started talking less about porn, it's about "how to take care of yourself mentally and physically," the importance of the topic. He mentioned the need to develop a good habit and circular, from everyday life to change.
Survey, United States, 42% male college students say has a habit of browsing pornographic Web sites, 19% said they can't help but be about sex, 12% spends at least 5 hours a week browsing porn sites. So it's not the Moon is more round in foreign countries.
Have to say, as with Internet pornography, "quit" or NoFap is an Internet product development and scientific and technological progress. Outlook for the industry was pretty high up, compared with Alexander Rhodes's assessment of himself was modest, he says he just wants to help others, as for the technical aspect and the business aspect of the problem is not the point .
Looking back at history, tip of the sex industry in general are in trend, keep up with the pace of technology forward. From figure phone obscene MMS, last Internet trouble pornography advertising popups, pornographic novel under the e-book era, you know Baidu is clouds and other disks, micro-bulk letter envelopes of the film, recently hit the VR has become the latest focus in the adult entertainment industry, is "a big progress of human society."
Alexander Rhodes's personal experiences and the "ring" for the data are victims of the sex trade. Therefore, where there is oppression there is resistance, anti powder came into being. Exposure to technology do you use to poison me, I would also like to use technology to save humanity from the water hot. Anti you I also want to use the Internet to build a complete industrial chain, assigned to major network platforms.
Summary is that technology has brought us the online pornography, and brought us a "ring". Technology will we gather together this group of people who share the same ideals.
美国小伙一天自慰14次后崩溃，建立美国版“戒色吧” - 自慰,戒色吧 - IT资讯
所谓“小撸怡情，大撸伤身，强撸灰飞烟灭”，网络色情的泛滥化衍生了社会部分人群对其上瘾的现象。
关于戒黄瘾，在这片地大物博的中国土地上，有着不少为人民服务的同主题网络民间组织。其中发展得最为壮大的应该是来自于人才济济、神奇的百度贴吧——戒色吧。
“戒色吧”如今有着相当的知名度，还拥有属于自己的百度百科词条，简介为：“百度戒色吧，是一个各位戒友互相交流，帮助广大网友戒除不良性行为的正能量、公益性贴吧。”从词条上看，该贴吧创建于2003年，性质则是“戒除不良性行为，修心养性”。
进入“戒色吧”的首页，阳光正能量的气息扑鼻而来。版面干净整洁，发布的帖子遵循着统一的格式，让人感觉是一个为数不多的管理秩序良好的“好吧”。
尽管“戒色吧”从帮助他人、予人关怀的目的出发，但这种与人类本能相抗衡的组织，口碑并没有很好，除了知乎称之为“邪教”，也有来自“女权主义贴吧”对其抨击。
即便收到不少差评，戒色吧还是提供了非常周到的一条龙服务。戒色吧的祖师级人物，贴吧ID“飞翔142857”，吧内亲切地称其为飞翔大哥。飞翔大哥为了传播自己的理论思想，开通了微信公众号，进驻了喜马拉雅电台，安卓平台上还能下载其app。
没有资金投入又怎能更好地建设基地呢，于是通过淘宝和微信还能购买到相关著作《戒为良药》，还能在微店上购买VIP戒色咨询服务。
可能会有人说这种现象的出现还不是因为我国性教育匮乏、性观念闭塞，所以拿A片当教材，就如同关不上的水龙头一发不可收拾了。然而在“性教育充分”、社会民风开放的美国也发生相同的情况。来自一位成功戒色的美国人的独白，以下整理节选自《纽约时报》对Alexander Rhodes的采访报道《Internet Porn Nearly Ruined His Life. Now He Wants to Help.》。Alexander Rhodes说：
“对于我来说，我需要考虑的最重要的事情是，我并不是一位很好的商人。我只是一个沉迷于网络黄片的男人。”
几年前 26岁的 Alexander Rhodes建立了一个网站 NoFap，意在帮助其他有着和他曾经一样问题的人。每个月有近百万人访问网站，并曾经因为访问量过大网站几近崩溃。
（图片来自：New York Times）
Rhodes最近辞去了在Google的工作，目前他希望做的事情就是把他的网站扩大化。在父亲和其它家人的帮助下，他将一座废弃教堂的一部分改装成他新公司的运营基地。
“我曾经沉迷于网络黄片的事实，和我作为一个如此平庸的人的事实，让我拥有这种特殊的权利去帮助人们。”
近几年内，Rhodes作为一位对抗着没有被医学界正式认定的“疾病”的演讲者出现。但他似乎对这种新名气无法适从。
某种程度上来讲，他的经历诞生于这个数字时代。他父亲是一位计算机工程师，因此他在很早的时候就接触了数字技术。他被任天堂的 Game Boy 所吸引，跟着也移步到任天堂64 和索尼PS游戏机。
在Rhodes 11岁左右，他不小心点击了一个网站上的广告横幅，然后看到了一张描绘强奸的图片。当时他正好处在青春期，在具备电脑的条件下，Rhodes开始沉迷于极易找到且免费的高清黄片。在大学期间，一天内他能边观看黄片边手淫高达14次。
2011年，Rhodes开始感到迷失了方向并希望寻求支持，他在Reddit上建立了一个主题为戒除手淫和黄片的讨论区。当他认识到自己并不是一个人的时候，他很快开始认真经营这个站点。
大学毕业以后，他开始为Google工作，专门从事数据分析。这份工作给他带来了可观的薪水，使他能够为NoFap的运营投入大笔资金。
Rhodes开始认为比起在Google数据分析的工作他有更重要的事情应该去做。“这其实很难抉择”，他谈到离职Google，“但最终我选择了做更有益于人类的事情。”
他的网站为想要脱离黄片的男人提供了一把在线的保护伞。网站接的广告是反色情服务的软件，同时还有帮助坚定戒除黄片和手淫的网上项目。
网站将需要帮助的男人聚集起来互相监督负责，类似于戒酒会，来帮助一个人重新走上正轨。Rhodes告诉《纽约时报》的记者，网站的收入来自于用户订阅和广告。
Rhodes也曾为此忍受过来自与其相反的极端意识形态对他的愤怒。这些人尝试着黑进网络的服务器，尽管失败了。他建立的讨论区还曾被色情图片轮番轰炸。他父亲在邮件里收到了黄片，他自己也曾收到死亡威胁。
“这些事情都是我必须面对的，我希望做到引起有关部门的关注来跟进类似的事情”，他说。但是，事态演变的严重性还是让他碾转反侧几个晚上。
尽管一开始 Rhodes为“黄瘾者”建立网络研讨会提供帮助，在讨论的过程中，他与询问“如何避免触发病情”的人进行交流。在讨论的后期，他开始较少谈论关于黄片，而是关于“如何从身心上照顾好自己”的重要性话题。他提到要养成一个良好的生活习惯和循环，从日常生活中改变自己。
调查发现，美国有42%的男性大学生表示有浏览色情网站的习惯，当中19%的人表示他们会不由自主被性欲左右，12%表示每周会花至少5个小时浏览色情网站。所以并不是国外的月亮就比较圆。
不得不说，和网络色情一样，无论“戒色吧”还是NoFap都是互联网发展和科技进步的产物。对于行业前景看得相当靠前，相比之下 Alexander Rhodes对自己的评价也是谦虚了，他说自己就只是想要帮助他人，至于技术层面和商业层面的问题嘛都不是重点。
回看历史，色情行业一般都是走在潮流的尖端，紧跟着科技的步伐向前迈进。从带图的手机淫秽彩信，过去上网时超烦的色情广告弹窗，电子书时代下的黄色小说，你懂的的百度云盘和其它各种盘，微信群发红包看片，到日前大热的VR也成为成人娱乐业界内的最新焦点，简直就是“人类社会的一大进步”。
Alexander Rhodes的个人经历和“戒色吧”的诞生都是数据色情行业的受害者。所以，哪里有压迫哪里就有反抗，anti粉应运而生。你用科技来浸淫毒害我，我也要用科技将人类从水生火热中拯救出来。anti你我也要利用互联网建立一条完整的产业链，入驻各大网络平台。
总结就是：科技为我们带来了网络色情，又我们带来了“戒色吧”。科技将我们这群有着共同理想的人聚集在一起。