One wedding sweep yards receiving gifts in Beijing: seniors feel like-QR, sweeping code-IT information
Recently, the Netizen an interesting set of photos: April 22, Chaoyang District, a hotel wedding, a bridesmaid is to help people collect money, stand hanging welcome PayPal money code: gifts of gold. Users on this controversy. So "obvious" gift means good? Cell phone red envelopes can take the place of cash bonus is not at all occasions?
No guests really scan code
On Saturday, the whistle-blowers to da Wang Road, Mr Wu de Luze Hotel college classmates wedding. In accordance with established practice, he first went to the guest reception table gift of gold. At this time, he was found wearing a bridesmaid dress hanging chest gleaming PayPal money QR code. Maid told Mr NG, this is meant to allow time to prepare or forgot to bring the red envelope guest gifts. "Attended so many weddings, first encountered at the scene with two dimensional code receive lucky red envelopes, bridesmaids don't work", Mr Wu friends Tan this fun scene.
Mr Wu friends screenshots
Yesterday afternoon, the parties reached a bridesmaid, Miss Wang. She told reporters that hung QR ideas were her own thinking. Her usual careless, never booked accounts. A hearing is going to be sent to welcome your gift, she be afraid to remember account and want to forget to prepare envelopes provide guests with convenient, thought of by Alipay QR charge means and in consultation with the bride's consent. "I hang back and forth for half an hour or so, but none of the guests really sweep. Because everyone else is ready cash bonus. ”
Mother and elders feel like
According to whistle-blowers, Wu said that young people do not think of the wedding, but the brides mother and elders was not happy, and feel like. Wang also confirmed this to reporters. "Young people know at a glance what is going, and said to me, I knew this, would not have to deliberately run the Bank to withdraw money. Older do not quite understand, mother of the bride came up and asked for a moment, I had to explain to her. She didn't say anything, but don't look very good. Later, I heard that he is unwilling to do so, I picked a QR code. ”
This interesting news on Twitter, and your circle of friends raised "eating people" comment. Support bridesmaid friend believes that gift represents the mind, no form, gift with real transfer records to avoid the embarrassment of counterfeit money, save inventory the trouble, but also facilitate return. Netizens think of supporting the elders, scan codes directly receiving gifts way too naked, and seemed couples wedding in order to amass wealth, not for harvest blessings, romantic weddings have become full of stench. There are Twitter users speculated: "gift a sweeping code to pay, it falls to the bride's pocket, she certainly is not happy. "Netizens opinions. Maid Wang some regret for his actions and acknowledged his inexperienced, unwise.
Discussion
How exactly the gift received?
See the wedding season, reporters search found on the Internet, there are more exotic than scan QR code of cash means. Like Taiwan, "Canton news" reported on March 23, Hong Kong has a new shotgun, when sending invitations, guests put money into bank accounts. To the wedding day, admission is by payment slip. It makes people who received invitations, felt very bad. According to media reports in recent days, one wedding in Southeast Chongqing, a bride in order to prevent receiving money from Bank staff, please genuine cash at the gifts of gold. The funny thing is, and test a counterfeit note, guests will have to get a picture. Counting the video was posted on the Internet, netizens across the screen can feel awkward atmosphere.
Because cell phone flexible envelopes without notes, amount, regardless of the time limit, so cell phones instead of the traditional red envelopes of cash in red envelopes the scene more and more. But some people think using cell phones to transfer red envelopes from the lack of human. How your gift makes everyone feel comfortable? Some foreign newcomers would seem worthy of China's young people learning: in all the chips on the site GoFundMe, some Wedding couples honeymoon raised funds. They will raise the guests invited to the wedding, and said "when not sending those unwanted presents, direct subsidies on our honeymoon. "According to the reporter, raised platform, introducing a third party funds to pay for new honeymoon expenses or buy big-ticket gifts were quietly popular European and American young people. Directly, this avoids embarrassment caused by money, but also to help people solve practical problems.
(Formerly titled the wedding scan QR code of suifenzi)
北京一婚礼现场扫码收礼金：长辈觉得不像样 - 二维码,扫码 - IT资讯
近日，有网友爆出一组有趣的照片：4月22日在朝阳区某酒店婚礼现场，一位伴娘为帮新人收份子钱，站在迎宾台身挂支付宝收钱码收礼金。网友对此议论纷纷。如此“直白”的礼金收取方式究竟好不好？手机红包是不是在所有场合都能代替现金红包呢？
没有客人真的扫码
上周六，爆料人吴先生去大望路的和乔丽致酒店参加大学同学婚礼。按照惯例，他先去宾客签到台送礼金。这时，他发现身穿礼服的伴娘胸前竟然挂着明晃晃的支付宝收钱二维码。伴娘告诉吴先生，这是为了方便来不及准备或者忘了带红包的宾客交礼金用的。“参加了这么多场婚礼，第一次遇到在现场用二维码收红包的，伴娘要不要这么敬业”，吴先生在朋友圈晒出了这有趣的一幕。
吴先生朋友圈截图
记者昨天下午联系上了当事伴娘王小姐。她告诉记者，挂二维码的主意是她自己想的。她平时马马虎虎，从没记过账。一听要被派到迎宾台收礼金，她一怕记错账，二来想为忘记准备红包的宾客提供方便，就想到用支付宝二维码收钱这个办法，并征求了新娘的同意。“我前前后后挂了半小时左右，但没有一个客人真的扫。因为大家都是备好现金红包来的。”
婆婆和长辈觉得不像样
据爆料人吴先生说，参加婚礼的年轻人对此并不以为意，但新娘婆婆和长辈们却很不高兴，觉得不像样。王小姐也向记者确认了这一点。“年轻人一看就明白是怎么回事，还对我说，早知道能这样给，就不用特意跑银行取钱了。年纪大的不太明白，新娘婆婆过来问了一下，我跟她解释了。她也没说什么，但脸色不太好看。后来我听人说她不乐意这么做，我就把二维码摘了。”
这条有趣的消息立刻在微博和朋友圈引发“吃瓜群众”的热议。支持伴娘的网友认为，礼金代表的是心意，无所谓形式，有实名转账记录的礼金避免了假钞的尴尬，省了清点的麻烦，也方便回礼。支持长辈们的网友认为，直接扫码收礼金的方式太赤裸裸了，似乎新人办婚礼就是为了敛财，而不是为了收获祝福，原本浪漫温馨的婚礼已经变得满场铜臭味。还有微博网友猜测：“礼金一扫码支付，就落到新娘口袋里了，婆婆当然不高兴。”网友们众说纷纭。伴娘小王则对自己的行为有些后悔，承认自己没经验，欠考虑。
讨论
礼金究竟该怎样收？
眼看又到婚庆旺季，记者上网搜索发现，竟然还有比扫二维码更奇葩的礼金收取方式。比如台湾“中广新闻网”3月23日报道，香港有一对奉子成婚的新人，在发喜帖的时候，竟然要宾客先把礼金汇入银行户头。到喜宴当天，要凭汇款收据入场。这让收到喜帖的人，心里感到很不是滋味。另据媒体近日报道，在重庆东南部的某婚礼现场，一位新娘为了防止收到假钱，从银行请来工作人员在收礼金处用验钞机点现金。有意思的是，现场还真验到了一张假钞，来宾不得不换了一张。点钞的视频被传到了网上，网友们隔着屏幕都能感受到现场的尴尬气氛。
由于手机红包无需纸币、金额灵活、不受时空限制，所以手机红包代替传统现金红包的场景越来越多。不过也有人觉得，用手机转账方式发红包缺乏人情味儿。究竟怎么收礼金才让大家都感到舒服呢？一些外国新人的做法似乎值得国内年轻人学习：在众筹网站GoFundMe上，一些准新人众筹蜜月经费。他们将集资邀请发给参加婚礼的宾客，并表示“结婚时不要送那些不需要的礼物了，直接资助我们度蜜月吧。”据记者了解，引入第三方众筹平台、集资为新人支付蜜月费用或购买大件礼品的方式正在欧美年轻人中悄然流行。这样既避免了直接收钱可能引发的尴尬，又帮助新人解决了实际问题。
（原题为《婚礼现场扫二维码随份子》）